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what is colleague?!

2007-09-22 01:18:28

I have changed my job for two times, and i spend one and a half year in my last company.

I feel I had a good time with all team members, and as a member of the whole testing group, when i left there, I keep missing them seriousely and for a long time, I always thinked about them when i'm free or feel lonely. I treat this as a kind of good friends and i believe they will miss me as how i miss them.

But what i know now approved that i am really wrong. when they had a team building they didn't think about me, even oneday after i told them that i miss them, if it is possible, please ask me to come next time for your team activity. I don't know if my request if too egregious, but they didn't. Someone told me that colleagues are really a passing traveller from your life, you will meet many many people, but just very few of them will be your friends.

What i feel now is that i feel been deceived, and i feel it is unfair we treat each other with different way.

Now i need to change my point, yep, they are just a passing traveller for me. I was too innocent begore. Maybe the only reason is i just graduate from University and treat people with wholeheart. Is that wrong?

How do you guys think about colleagues?




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Only stronger survive 删除 zyx 发布于2007-12-14 00:32:30
changinge your job frequently is not a sensible choice in your young stage, Every factory appered so similiar to each other unless you entry a real corporation with higt tech and superior administration ,so clam down please!  find your true fond and skilled aspect business
Connie Zeng 删除 ConnieZeng 发布于2007-10-15 14:13:10
I agree with the words from Becomefirst.
In my opinion, except the relative love from our family, there is not a real feeling no matter the said love and firendship.
U r a kind, intelligent girl I think, pls get used to such a real, material world which makes the colleagues real and material.
申城人士(Shanghai Boy) 删除 becomefirst 发布于2007-10-09 11:34:29
But in the world, friendship exists indeed. The reason which you have been hurt by your colleagues is that you put all your heart into this aspect, You trust your team members entirely. So finally, when they cheat you or don't notice you, You feel very sad and helpless. From this fact, you are proven not very independent. Be courageous to face real life and world.
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