I’ve learned… That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.

我明白了…世界上最好的教室就是老人的脚边。

I’ve learned… That when you’re in love, it shows.

我明白了…当你沉浸在爱情中，会表现出来的。

I’ve learned… That just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

我明白了…有人告诉我“你让我很快乐！”，这使我很快乐。

I've learned… That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.

我明白了…有个孩子在在你的臂弯中入睡是世界上最安宁的感觉。

I’ve learned… That being kind is more important than being right.

我明白了…秉性善良比行事正确更为重要。

I’ve learned… That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

我明白了…永远不要拒绝一个孩子赠与的礼物。

I’ve learned… That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

我明白了…如果从各种方面我都没有能力帮助他的时候，我就为他祈祷。

I’ve learned… That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.

我明白了…不管生活让你变得多名的严肃，每个人都要有一个可以胡作非为的朋友。

I’ve learned… That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

我明白了…有时候每个人都需要一只可以握住的手和一颗信任的心。

I’ve learned… That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.

我明白了…但我孩提时在夏天夜晚陪着我父亲走过几个街区曾感动过我，当我成人时。

I’ve learned… That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

我明白了…生命象一卷厕纸。越到最后，走得越快。

I’ve learned… That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.

我明白了…我们应该感到高兴，上帝没有把我们想得到的都给予我们。

I’ve learned… That money doesn’t buy class.

我明白了…金钱并不能买到社会地位。

I’ve learned…That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

我明白了…就是一些生活的琐碎让生命壮丽。

I’ve learned… That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

我明白了…在某些人的坚硬外壳下，也有渴望欣赏和理解的一面。

I’ve learned… That the Lord didn’t do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?

我明白了…上帝并没有把一切都做完。否则，我能做什么呢？

I've learned… That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

我明白了…应该忽视的是，事实并不能改变事实。

I've learned… That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

我明白了…如果你蓄谋报复某人，只会让那个人继续伤害你。

I’ve learned… That love, not time, heals all wounds.

我明白了…是爱，而不是时间，能够治愈一切伤痛。

I’ve learned… That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

我明白了…使我成长的捷径就是围绕在比我聪敏的人身旁。

I’ve learned… That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.

我明白了…你遇到的所有的人都应该给他们一个微笑。

I’ve learned… That there’s nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.

我明白了…在和孩子们一起睡，感受他们的呼吸喷在你的脸上的时候，世界上没有较之更甜蜜的事情。

I’ve learned…. That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

我明白了…直到你爱上了一个人才发现原来有人是完美的。

I’ve learned…That life is tough, but I’m tougher.

我明白了…生命是艰难的，而我更坚强。

I’ve learned… That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.

我明白了…机会从不落空，总有人得到你错过的。

I’ve learned… That when you harbor bitterness, Happiness will dock elsewhere.

我明白了…当你遭遇苦难，幸福总会在某处停靠。

I’ve learned… That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.

我明白了…我真希望在父亲去世之前能再说一次我爱他。

I’ve learned… That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.

我明白了…一个人应该温柔地遵守诺言，因为明天他可能就食言了。

I’ve learned… That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

我明白了…微笑是最廉价的改善自己面孔的方法。

I’ve learned… That I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.

我明白了…我不能改变我的想法，但是我可以改变我的做法。

I’ve learned… That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for life.

我明白了…当最近降生的曾孙用他的小拳头握住你的小拇指的时候，你发现你对生命如此的着迷。

I’ve learned… That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the Happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

我明白了…所有的人都想停留在山顶，但所有的乐趣和成长发生在爬上的过程里。

I’ve learned … That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.

我明白了…发表建议最好在以下两个场合：别人发出请求，和生命收到威胁的时候。

I’ve learned… That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

我明白了…越是给很少的时间，我能做越多的事情。

 

      

事情已过去了这么久了,可以为什么,每当我看到这一切的时候,心里还是有一种悲伤的感觉.

       15分钟前见到了一男一女手拉着手的图标.我真的觉得心中有一种莫名的痛.虽然我每天都不会把这事情挂在口边,脑中不会回想.可以我还是梦见了他.为什么我会这样呢!我自己也不明白.难道他真的早已深深地藏匿在我心中的深处.我不想这样!这个人太令我失望了.为什么他要一次又一次地不照顾我的感受去做事.每一次的举动都是冲着我而来,既然大家已没有任何关系了.他为什么还是每次都要把事情赖在我头上呢!

       和他没说清楚之前我不知道他心里是想什么的.跟他没关系后我更不明白他心中是想什么的.他答应过我的事情还没真的做到.真不明白.他真的那么没空吗?如果他没空可以说出来.干嘛每次问起都说说我听会尽快处理这事情呢!也许他还留恋,也许他真的没这个心吧.

       上次的电话,是否他真的有心打来给我,想知道我有没有生气呢?真的不知道答案.按电话后,只听到另外一边传来了1个,2个男生的声音."电话通了,你有话就说跟别人说吧,别只拿着电话..."等了大概5分钟,我见没有人说话,我便挂线了.其实这一天,我真的好生气.干嘛要找我呢,此事一点都和我无关.大家都只是陌路人,路过而已,你为何要找我呢.一直以来或许大家都是心中有对方的吧,直到现在.只是大家都不承认罢了.

       每一个人都是生命中的过客.今天晚上一打开BLOG,看见了DC给我的留言.其实在看完的那留言的一刻,真的很感动.thanks for DC.虽然不是什么特别的话,但我觉得虽少有人在鼓励我.过去的就放在心中吧.要经得起教训才是.这样日后才会做得更好.不知道明天会是晴天或者是阴天.但还是要走下去,带自信,勇气,得到的经验走下去.相信会找到一个美好的港湾.

       BLOG上的MUSIC我很喜欢,也话我觉得它给我一种宁静的感觉吧.<<我在那一角落患过伤心>>这个名字真的跟我的生活挂上了勾了.真的曾经我在那一角落患过伤心,我真的受伤了.可是现在已成为过去.积极去面对眼前的所有事情吧.明天又是新的起点,新的开始.希望守护在我身边的天使会给我指点方向,为我祈祷,明天我要更多的运气  n_n

 

 

Surrounding you are angels,
They are there to guide your path,
If weakness overcomes you,
They'll give you strength if you will ask.

They are your protection
When life seems too hard to bear,
And though you feel alone at times,
The angels ,they are there.

Their faces may be hidden
And their voices you might not hear,
But they are ALWAYS with you,
Through your laughter or your tears.

They'll walk along beside you,
They'll guide your steps along the way,
They'll comfort you and hold you,
Protect you night and day.

They'll hold to your hand tightly,
They'll not ever let it go,
And they'll gently lead you forward,
Taking each step very slow.

For even as you slumber,
They watch closely over you;
They are there beside you
In each and every thing you do.

When life is overwhelming,
And your spirit has grown tired,
Know they'll be there for you,
To uplift and to inspire.

And when you're torn and lonely,
And you see no hope ahead,
Know that they will nourish you,
Your spirit will be fed.

And if there comes a time in life
That your heart has been broken,
Hear the words, "I'm here, my child,"
And know your angel has spoken.

For even in the darkest hour,
When all of hope seems gone,
They'll give you strength to live your life,
And desire to go on.

And if your faith in Heaven,
Should ever fade away,
They'll help renew your spirit,
And help you find your way.

Even though you're ever filled with doubt,
About the life you live,
Know that they are there to give you
All that they can give.

For you see, the Father sent them,
Because to Him, you mean so much,
That He sent them "just for you," my friend,
And your life, they will touch.

They will always be here,
They will "never" leave your side;
And upon their strength and guidance,
You always may rely.

Take comfort in their guidance,
Draw strength from up above,
And know that their sweet presence,
Is God's precious gift of love.

               夏天到了，很多人开始为身上若隐若现的赘肉犯愁了。怎样才能有效的去除脂肪，保持健康的身体呢？不同的人适合不同的保健方式，十二星座将为你呈上完美塑身法。

　　ARIES （Mar. 21- April 20）

　　You might be lucky enough to reach your fitness goal by simply cutting out bread and taking up jogging. Most Aries have a high rate of metabolism， and they love going fast. But it's difficult for you to be patient. Just remember， Aries： If you keep this up， you'll look extra hot for summer.你很幸运，仅仅只要少吃面包或是多多慢跑，就可以达到减肥目的。白羊座的人大多具有很强的新陈代谢能力，经常行路匆匆。不过，你缺乏耐力。记住，坚持就是胜利。

　　TAURUS （Apr. 21 - May 21）

　　Dieting is tough on you， dear Taurus. You love food， especially sweets， and while you're not lazy， exercising is NOT your favorite pastime. For you， a diet plan involving smaller meals allowing a few sweets， coupled with yoga， Tai Chi， and/or a 15-minute walk each day could slim you down - surely but slowly.真要命，金牛座的人非常爱吃，尤其是甜食；虽然你不是很懒，不过健身也不是你平日的消谴。对你而言，每天一点甜食、配合瑜珈，外加15分钟散步的节食计划会是个不错的选择，它会让你慢慢瘦下来。当然，一定不能心急哦。

　　GEMINI （May 22 - June 21）

　　The Twins go like racehorses， and operate mostly on nervous energy. Therefore， a diet/exercise program that relies less on speed and more on building strength， such as protein and weight training， could generate sufficient endurance to see you through hours of beach volleyball.双子座的人酷爱赛马，大多热衷紧张刺激的运动。因此，凭借像举重这样的更多的力量而非速度的锻练，可以培养你的忍耐力。

　　CANCER （June 22 - July 22）

　　You love to cook， Cancer， and to sample your wares while preparing them！ Avoid temptation by adopting a nutritional program involving pre-measured， prepared meals. For exercise， try yoga and aerobics videos at home alone. You're not yet comfortable scantily clad in front of others.巨蟹座的人喜爱烹饪，常常不自觉地就准备一顿丰盛的美味。为了抵挡这种诱惑，可以事先做一些营养规划。在家做瑜珈和有氧运动，会有不错的效果。

　　LEO （July 23 - Aug. 22）

　　If you try to become slim and fit overnight， Leo， you're in danger of failure， because you'll surely cheat. You're in a hurry to look your very best， but you enjoy food too much to cut your calorie intake too low. Be patient and take it slow. Taking up running or swimming might help.为了减肥，通宵不睡的话，肯定没有效果。因为吃得过多，而消耗的热量过少。要有耐心，慢慢来。跑步或游泳也许会是不错的选择哦。

　　VIRGO （Aug. 23 - Sept. 23）

　　Health and fitness probably aren't much of a problem for you， Virgo. You don't put on weight easily， and you're conscientious about fitness. For variety， try another dietary regimen and a new exercise program. It might make more of a difference than you'd think.拥有健康和保持体型对你而言并不困难。你天生不易发胖，且注重调理。倘若敢于尝试其它的营养用餐和新的锻练方法，会得到比预想的更好的效果。

　　LIBRA （Sept. 24 - Oct. 23）

　　Balance is your keyword - and when striving for fitness， remember that， Libra. You might work out like an Olympian one moment， and totally quit the next， scarfing down sweets and vegging out in front of the TV. Adopt a program that's reasonable. You'll be more likely to succeed.注重平衡法则是保持健康的关键。若采用一个合理的计划，很有可能获得成功。

　　SCORPIO （Oct. 24 - Nov. 22）

　　When you work towards health and fitness， Scorpio， you're capable of cutting down to just enough to keep you alive. But if you do what many Scorpios do to stay fit - embrace the martial arts - you'll need to eat more. You'll never get that black belt if you're starving.你有足够的能力保持身体健康。不过如果你与许多天蝎座有着相同的减肥方式的话－习武健身－必定要吃更多的东西。那样，你就不可能拥有最完美身材了。

　　SAGITTARIUS （Nov. 23 - Dec. 21）

　　You're athletic， Sag， and are usually pretty fit. But you probably eat a lot as well， and in spite of your activities， you probably did gain weight over the winter. Avoid weight training and concentrate on running， swimming， and doing the treadmill. For food： concentrate on fruits and salads.运动型的射手座通常都很健康。不过你吃得太多，尽管运动量大，到了冬天，身上的脂肪也会堆积起来的。避免消耗过大的运动，跑步、游泳和骑单车会是不错的选择。多吃水果和沙拉。

　　CAPRICORN （Dec. 22 - Jan. 20）

　　You alternate between eating hardly at all and feasting on gourmet foods - and you almost never find time to exercise with your busy work schedule. However， in summer， the pull of the beaches may be too strong to resist for the Sea Goat. Change your habits. Eat healthy. Walk at least twice a day - perhaps to and from the office.你要不不吃，要不暴饮暴食，这都不是正确的方法。由于工作繁忙，你没什么时间去锻练，应该改变这种习惯。健康饮食，且每天坚持至少两次的散步，才是最适合你的减肥方式。

　　AQUARIUS （Jan. 21 - Feb. 19）

　　Adventure is your game - and that includes your fitness programs. Exotic foods from faraway places are especially appealing to the Water Bearer， and any outlandish sort of exercise seems the perfect way for you to get in shape. For summer fitness， indulge in lighter faire from around the world， and try a group exercise program to feed your love of people.天生爱冒险的水瓶座，连减肥计划也充分体现了这一特点。新奇古怪的锻练方式对你是最见效的塑身方法。

　　PISCES （Feb. 20 - Mar. 20）

　　Your biggest challenge is that you tend to retain water. To increase your fitness level， Pisces， avoid excess salt - and， oddly enough， drink plenty of water. Concentrate on fruits and vegetables， and for exercise， yoga by far suits your temperament well. A walk each day would also make a huge difference. Remember： you are ruled by the feet - so splurge on some great walking shoes！

　　你最头疼的问题是缺水。因此，想要保持体型，一定要避免食用过多的盐，应该多喝水。多吃水果和蔬菜，进行锻练时，瑜珈是最适合你的运动。每天坚持散步一定会有成效的。记住：步行对你是最有效的，那就赶紧多买几双旅游鞋吧！

The ups and downs of life may seem to have no predictable plan. But scientists know there are very definite patterns that almost all people share. Even if you've passed some of your "prime", you still have other prime years to experience in the future. Certain important primes seem to peak later in life.

When are you smartest? From 18-25, according to I.Q. scores; but you're wiser and more experienced with increasing age.

You're sharpest in your 20's; around 30, memory begins to decline, particularly your ability to perform mathematical computations. But your I.Q. for other tasks climbs. Your vocabulary at age 45, for example, is three times as great as when you graduated from college. At 60, your brain possesses almost four times as much information as it did at age 21. 

 

This trade-off between sharpness and wisdom has led psychologists to suggest that "maturity quotients"(M.Q.) be adopted for adults.

When are you happiest? You have the best physical sense of yourself from 15 to 24; the best professional sense from 40 to 49.

Before age 24, we believe that our happiest years are yet to come; over 30,we believe that they're behind us. A National Health Survey agrees: After age 30, we "become more realistic and do not view happiness as a goal in itself. If we maintain our health, achieve professional and emotional goals, then happiness, we feel, will follow".

When are you most creative? Generally between 30 and 39, but the peak varies with different professions.

Mozart wrote a symphony and four sonatas by age eight, and Mendelssohn composed his best known work A Midsummer Night's Dream, at 17, but most of the great music was written by men between 33 and 39.

Though the peak in most fields comes early-most Nobel prizewinners did their top research in their late 20's and 30's-creative people continue to produce quality work throughout their lives. For the "well-conditioned mind", there is no upper limit.

All you remember about your child being an infant is the incredible awe you felt about the precious miracle you created. You remember having plenty of time to bestow all your wisdom and knowledge. You thought your child would take all of your advice and make fewer mistakes, and be much smarter than you were. You wished for your child to hurry and grow up. 

All you remember about your child being two is never using the restroom alone or getting to watch a movie without talking animals. You recall afternoons talking on the phone while crouching in the bedroom closet, and being convinced your child would be the first Ivy League1 college student to graduate wearing pullovers at the ceremony. You remember worrying about the bag of M＆M's melting in your pocket and ruining your good dress. You wished for your child to be more independent.

All you remember about your child being five is the first day of school and finally having the house to yourself. You remember joining the PTA and being elected president when you left a meeting to use the restroom. You remember being asked "Is Santa real?" and saying "yes" because he had to be for a little bit longer. You remember shaking the sofa cushions for loose change, so the toothfairy could come and take away your child's first lost tooth. You wished for your child to have all permanent teeth.

All you remember about your child being seven is the carpool schedule. You learned to apply makeup in two minutes and brush your teeth in the rearview mirror because the only time you had to yourself was when you were stopped at red lights. You considered painting your car yellow and posting a "taxi" sign on the lawn next to the garage door. You remember people staring at you, the few times you were out of the car, because you kept flexing your foot and making acceleration noises. You wished for the day your child would learn how to drive.

All you remember about your child being ten is managing the school fund�瞨aisers. You sold wrapping paper for paint, T shirts for new furniture, and magazine subscrīptions for shade trees in the school playground. You remember storing a hundred cases of candy bars in the garage to sell so the school band could get new uniforms, and how they melted together on an unseasonably5 warm spring afternoon. You wished your child would grow out of playing an instrument.

All you remember about your child being twelve is sitting in the stands during baseball practice and hoping your child's team would strike out fast because you had more important things to do at home. The coach didn't understand how busy you were. You wished the baseball season would be over soon.

All you remember about your child being fourteen is being asked not to stop the car in front of the school in the morning. You had to drive two blocks further and unlock the doors without coming to a complete stop. You remember not getting to kiss your child goodbye or talking to him in front of his friends. You wished your child would be more mature.

All you remember about your child being sixteen is loud music and undecipherable lyrics screamed to a rhythmic beat. You wished for your child to grow up and leave home with the stereo.

All you remember about your child being eighteen is the day they were born and having all the time in the world.

And, as you walk through your quiet house, you wonder where they went and you wish your child hadn't grown up so fast.

If you have ever been discouraged because of failure, please read on.

For often, achieving what you set out to do is not the important thing. Let me explain.

Two brothers decided to dig a deep hole behind their house. As they were working, a couple of older boys stopped by to watch.

"What are you doing?" asked one of the visitors.

"We plan to dig a hole all the way through the earth!" one of the brothers volunteered excitedly.

The older boys began to laugh, telling the younger ones that digging a hole all the way through the earth was impossible.

After a long silence, one of the diggers picked up a jar full of spiders, worms and a wide assortment of insects. He removed the lid and showed the wonderful contents to the scoffing visitors.

Then he said quietly and confidently, "Even if we don't dig all the way through the earth, look what we found along the way!"

Their goal was far too ambitious, but it did cause them to dig. And that is what a goal is for-to cause us to move in the direction we have chosen; in other words, to set us to digging!

But not every goal will be fully achieved. Not every job will end successfully. Not every relationship will endure. Not every hope will come to pass. Not every love will last. Not every endeavor will be completed. Not every dream will be realized.

But when you fall short of your aim, perhaps you can say, "Yes, but look at what I found along the way! Look at the wonderful things which have come into my life because I tried to do something!"

It is in the digging that life is lived. And I believe it is joy in the journey, in the end, that truly matters.

Concerto pour deux voix clemence Saint Preux 

我覺得聽起來很舒服~你們會喜歡嗎？

    ARIES （Mar. 21 - Apr. 20）

　　Never mind your job descrīption， your real job is to make your boss look good. If you're egotistical or otherwise have a burning need to get credit for your efforts， it's only a matter of time before you butt heads with your Aries boss. On the other hand， Rams are natural-born leaders， and they will take you into some thrilling new territory.脚踏实地工作会让你的老板满意；如果你因爱表现而得到肯定，那只能维持一段时间，不久，你就会和白羊座的老板发生冲突；此外，白羊座的男性天生就是领导者，他们控制欲望强。

　　TAURUS （Apr. 21 - May 21）

　　Image is everything to your boss. Taurus people are into status symbols， not only to impress others， but because they genuinely appreciate the best life has to offer. Their self-image depends on always being right. Before arguing a point with your Taurus boss， decide whether it's worth getting fired over.金牛座的人是社会地位的象征：不仅因为他们能打动身边的人，而且会很真诚地感激生活所给予的一切。通常他们自我评价很高，在和金牛座老板争论之前，仔细考虑这件事是否值得争议。

　　GEMINI （May 22 - June 21）

　　Gemini is information-driven. Whether or not you're actually in a communications field， your boss is obsessed with collecting and disseminating information. If you have a problem， an emotional appeal will count against you. Your Gemini boss wants just the facts， in a concise format. Further， you must be able to pump out work at the speed of light.双子座的人容易听信片面之词。如果你遇到麻烦，诉诸于情感上的帮助将对你不利。双子座的老板要的是事实，而且你一定要以光速来完成工作。

　　CANCER （June 22 - July 22）

　　Your Cancer boss will take you under his or her wing and protect you - whether you want it or not. This will get overbearing if you're the type who likes to work independently. However， if you need daily guidance and feedback， this is an ideal match. Also on the plus side， this person is understanding and forgiving， especially regarding family considerations.无论你是否愿意，巨蟹座老板都会张开翅膀，让员工藏于他的羽翼之下。如果你是独立性很强的员工，这样的老板不适合你，而如果你是那种需要指导和帮助的人，你会和他相处地愉快。巨蟹座老板对人宽容，尤其顾家。

　　LEO （July 23 - Aug. 22）

　　More people complain about Leo bosses than any other sign. The Lion is the king or queen of the jungle， and wants everyone to know it. Flattery will get you everywhere， but it does take finesse. Even self-involved Leo eventually will tire of a bootlicking toady. To be effective， your compliments must have an element of truth， and they must be delivered with convincing sincerity.大多数人都对狮子座的老板怨声载道。职场上，阿谀奉诚也许让你获益不少，不过也要注意技巧，狮子座的老板最终会厌倦只会拍马屁的人。如果真要抱怨，一定要有充分的事实根据，便于老板信服。

　　VIRGO （Aug. 23 - Sept. 23）

　　Virgo typically isn't the top dog. Chances are， your Virgo boss is working for someone else， with the sole objective of being as useful as possible. He or she may be nervous and obsessed with performance. You will be judged strictly by how well you do your job. No mistake will go unnoticed， nor will it ever be forgotten.处女座老板不是典型的最佳领导者。他/她常常为别人工作，唯一的解释是它是有益的；同时，这种老板也很看重表现，你工作好坏于否将被做严格的判定。你所犯的错误都会引起注意，也不会被他忘记。

　　LIBRA （Sept. 24 - Oct. 23）

　　If it seems impossible to get your Libra boss to make a decision about anything， it's only because he or she is fair to a fault. Further， Libra values cooperation and good working relationships. To make points with your boss， coordinate everything ahead of time with your coworkers， which will relieve your boss of anxiety over having to please everyone.如果看上去让天秤座老板作决定是不可能的话，那仅仅因为他/她对事很公平。天秤座老板重视合作和好的工作关系。要想让老板另眼相看，你要提早和同事保持良好的协作关系，这将缓解老板的焦虑。

　　SCORPIO （Oct. 24 - Nov. 22）

　　Scorpio bosses provide for their employees， not only to build their empires， but because this gives them a feeling of absolute power and control. Nevertheless， sucking up will get you nowhere. Your Scorpio boss wants competence， effectiveness， vision， and a single-minded obsession with the corporate bottom line. Think Bill Gates， the ultimate Scorpio boss.天蝎座老板大都准备充分，既是为了建立自己的王国，也让员工感受到他们绝对的权威和控制欲。你的老板需要的是能干、有效率，视野宽广和忠实的员工。想想比尔-盖茨，他就是最好的天蝎座老板的例子。

　　SAGITTARIUS （Nov. 23 - Dec. 21）

　　Ruled by Jupiter， father of the gods， your Sagittarius boss is generous， protective， good-humored， and yet prone to violent temper tantrums. In the latter case， take a comfort break and come back in five minutes， by which time it will have blown over. The Archer seeks the truth， but can be self-righteous. The best way to impress your boss is by continually seeking to improve your skills.守护星是木星，素有“上帝之父”之称的射手座，热情大方，幽默诙谐，富有保护倾向，但射手座的老板往往都是坏脾气。对付这种老板最好的办法是不断地寻求让自己进步的技能。

　　CAPRICORN （Dec. 22 - Jan. 20）

　　Your boss is career-driven and workaholic， and unfortunately not very accessible. Even when the office door is open， it's hard to make a connection. Nevertheless， Capricorn is hardworking， disciplined， practical， reliable， and competent， and prizes these qualities in an employee. You'll impress your Capricorn boss if you play by the rules. If you're new in your job， agree to make the coffee.这是事业型和工作狂性质的老板，但他不容易接近。在员工眼中，摩羯座的老板具备勤奋、可靠、工作能力强等诸多优点。如果你遵守工作制度，会给老板留下好印象；如果你是新手，从小事做起。

　　AQUARIUS （Jan. 21 - Feb. 19）

　　Liberté， égalité， fraternité is the motto of Aquarius. Your boss might not seem much like a boss at all. He or she works alongside the employees， and you all go out to Happy Hour together after work on Fridays. Your boss wants to be friends， and in exchange will overlook all but the most grievous errors and shortcomings. After all， we're only human.自由、平等、友爱是水瓶座的座右铭。他/她看上去不像老板，经常和员工打成一片。可以把他/她当成朋友互相沟通；但忌交流工作中的错误和缺点，毕竟人都是有弱点的。

　　PISCES （Feb. 20 - Mar. 20）

　　Fishes tend not to end up in management positions， unless they have a Rising Sign like Leo or Capricorn. You'll have to do a little digging to find out your boss's birth time， then read the corresponding sign above. Meanwhile， be advised that Pisces are known for having eyes in the backs of their heads. If you're getting away with something， don't think your boss doesn't know.双鱼座往往最终不在管理岗位，除非他们有像狮子座和摩羯座那样的奋发向上的势头。同时，他们有敏锐地洞察力，如果你想逃避一些事情，不要以为他们不知道。

1. Compliment three people every day.
每天赞美三个人。

2. Watch a sunrise.
看日出。

3. Be the first to say "Hello."
先向别人打招呼。

4. Live beneath your means.
靠自己的力量生活。

5. Treat everyone as you want to be treated.
像自己希望得到的善待一样善待他人。

6. Never give up on anybody; miracles happen.
不要放弃任何人；奇迹总会发生。

7. Remember someone's name.
记住每个人的名字。

8. Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage.
不要祈求得到什么东西，但可以祈求智慧和勇气。

9. Be tough-minded, but tender hearted.
意志要坚强，但心地要善良。

10. Be kinder than you have to be.
仁慈，再仁慈一点。

11. Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
不要忘记一个人最伟大的情感需要是得到别人的欣赏。

12. Keep your promises.
履行自己的诺言。

13. Show cheerfulness even when you don't feel it.
即使没有快乐的感觉，也要努力表现出来。

14. Remember that overnight success usually takes 15 years.
切记所谓的“一夜成名”通常需要付出“15年的努力”。

15. Leave everything better than you found it.
让一切变得更加美好。

16. Remember that winners do what losers don't want to do.
切记胜利者通常会做失败者不想做的事情。

17. When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day.
早上到办公室时，先说一件能让每个人在一天中感到愉快的事。

18. Don't rain on other people's parades.
看到别人的辉煌时，不要抱怨。

19. Don't waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
抓住一切机会对别人说“我爱你”。

20. Keep some things to yourself and don't promote havoc by hurting people you love.
自己承受一些事情，不要让所爱的人受伤害。

We all laugh. We all hurt. We all make mistakes. We all dream. That's life. It's a journey. Please follow these rules to make the journey of your life a journey of joy!

 

大家SORRY哦，因為我近來比較忙。所以還沒有時間來這裏睇你們給我的留言，今天上來一下又走拉，謝謝你們。我會盡快到你們的空間去回访的了。

我畢業拉。上個星期剛剛拿到畢業證書，那時的心情當然很興奮。要不我也不會照這第多相片了。呵呵..

離別總是讓人感到傷感。可是離別是必然的，今天總會成為明天。我們不要太多的不舍，把你的留戀放在心中，好好收藏和回憶。我們已經有幾年的相處時間了。現在的離別算不了什麼，期盼明天的我們會成為如何的一個人。謝謝一直以來教導我們的老師，還有一幫“損友”。你你們的支持大學的生活才不會覺得無聊。變得更有精彩。

人生又要從別一個終點起程了。我們的路日後會如何呢。就要靠自己一步步地走下去了。當中也許有拉你一把的人，也話有陷害你的人，未來充滿了很多未知數X，當遇到這一切時，不能去逃避。告訴自己“我行的”。明天就會在你手中。

 

hard for yourself would see the nice day have one day.

Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply

I'll be your dream, I'll be your wish I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope, I'll be your love be everything that you need.
I love you more with every breath truly madly deeply do..
I will be strong I will be faithful 'cause I'm counting on a new beginning.
A reason for living. A deeper meaning.

I wanna stand with you on a mountain.
I wanna bathe with you in the sea.
I wanna lay like this forever.
Until the sky falls down on me...

And when the stars are shining brightly in the velvet sky,
I'll make a wish send it to heaven then make you want to cry..
The tears of joy for all the pleasure and the certainty.
That we're surrounded by the comfort and protection of..
The highest power. In lonely hours. The tears devour you..

I wanna stand with you on a mountain,
I wanna bathe with you in the sea.
I wanna lay like this forever,
Until the sky falls down on me...

Oh can't you see it baby?
You don't have to close your eyes 'cause it's standing right before you.
All that you need will surely come...

I'll be your dream I'll be your wish I'll be your fantasy.
I'll be your hope I'll be your love be everything that you need.
I'll love you more with every breath truly madly deeply do...

Now I wanna stand with you on a mountain,
I wanna bathe with you in the sea.
I wannaa lay like this forever,
Until the sky falls down on me...

Flash: truly madly deeply

Allen Su,he's songs and dance very well.I appreciate him.he looks so cute and handsome.i love he so much.The background music is his singing.would you like it ?

 

若有个男孩为你哭 他应该可以陪你走一生  
　　一个朋友告诉我，他哭了，为了一个女孩。  
　　“你一定很爱很爱她吧。”  
　　“是爱到不知道怎么办才好。”  
　　“是吗？”  
　　“男孩在你面前哭说明他已经快要窒息了  
　　如果你拉住他的手，他真的可以陪你走完一生  
　　如果你放弃了他，他会很难再回到以前的自己。”  
他的话音刚落，我心中突然很压抑……  
　　想到了他——那个曾经为我哭泣的男孩。  
　　第一次，我决定离开他。他对我说，只要我幸福。我看见他强忍着泪水，我知道，转身时，他哭了。  
　　第二次，我告诉他，我欺骗了他。他告诉我，会原谅我，因为他爱我。他抱着我哭了，我知道他一定很失望。  
　　第三次，情人节。他紧紧地抱着我，对我说，不要离开他。他不让我看他的脸，我知道他哭了。  
    最终，是他选择了离开。我知道，他是对我感到绝望了。也许是我错的太多，一切都无法挽回。我，也选择了离开。离开这个城市，逃避这里的一切。电话里，他哭泣着哀求我留下，但我却毅然决定离开。他哭了，也是最后一次为我哭……  
　　如今，我们都变了。他变了，变得陌生，过去，对他而言，也许只是很傻。我变了，变得麻木，过去，对我而言，也许只是遗憾。  
　　过去我的任性，曾无数次伤害了他。现在的他，已不会像过去那样对感情认真。我知道，一切都已改变。如果，一切可以重新来过，我一定不会离开。不会离开值得一辈子去爱的人。  
　　男孩，不轻易哭泣，只有面对最爱的人时，才会变得脆弱。  
　　男孩，不轻易哭泣，只有在太爱你的时候，才会放下自尊。  
　　女孩，如果有个男孩为你哭，请拉住他的手，他真的可以陪你走完一生。  
　　女孩，如果有个男孩为你哭，请不要放弃他，也许一个选择会毁掉一个人… 

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here comes some money saving tips.

You have a nice salary, but you still feel short of money. At the end of each month, you often ask yourselves, "Where has all my money gone"? To help you better manage your salary, here comes some money saving tips. Following them your daily expense will be cut off easily, but still keep the quality of your life.

First, you need to set ambitious goals to encourage you to save money. For example, you plan to have a formal dress in one year, to own a car in two years' time or to buy an apartment in five years.

Second, form money saving habits while stay away from those that waste money. Learn to keep a diary of how much you spend and what it's for. Think twice before using money on expensive skin care products. The best ways to keep your skin in good condition is sufficient sleep.

Third, economize your daily expense. Change electric wares into energy efficient ones and leave no more than one light open when you leave home. Buy vegetables from a market not a supermarket where vegetables are less expensive and more fresh. When going to a supermarket, take a notebook with you. Write down what you wanna buy to avoid buying unnecessary stuffs. For things like shampoo, soap or washing powder, buy the family pack.

For girls, who always spend money on clothes, there are some rules helping cut off the expense. Keep an eye on discounts information, you're likely to buy good summer dress in winter in a reasonable price. Shopping malls issue membership cards periodically. Go and get one if it's free, it may give you special discounts.

Fifth, economize your social life. Package the leftovers for next day when you have dinner in a restaurant. When it's your turn to offer a meal, invite your friends to your home, cook the dinner yourself. If you are to attend a wedding ceremony and an expensive present is needed, ask several friends to go together to share a present. When separate from your boyfriend, send the gifts he sent you to your friends instead of throwing them away.

While reducing expenditures, you need broaden your way earning money. Find yourself a part-time job if you are energetic enough, which gives you more working experience. Give birth to your money. If you are not good at making investments, talk to a financial consultant and entrust your savings with him.

譯文：

虽然收入不菲，但总觉得钱不够用！每到月底，都会问自己，“钱都花到哪去了？”为了帮你更好的理财，教你几个省钱小窍门。照着去做，你可以轻轻松松缩减日常花销，而且生活质量还不会受到影响。 

一、设定“远大”目标，促进自己存钱。比如，计划自己在一年之内买一套正装，两年内买辆车或者五年内买套房子。

二、养成省钱的习惯，远离费钱的东西。要学着记帐，记清楚买了什么东西，花了多少钱。至于那些昂贵的护肤品，最好考虑好了再决定是否要买。充足的睡眠是保养皮肤的最好方法。

三、节约日常开支。把家用电器换成节能型的，出门时最多留一盏灯开着。买菜去菜市场，超市的蔬菜又贵又不新鲜。去超市的时候带着笔记本，列出要买的东西，不需要的东西不买。洗发水、香皂或洗衣粉之类的东西，买家庭装。

四、爱买衣服的女生也有省钱的办法。留意打折信息，冬天可以以便宜的价格买到不错的夏装。大商场都有会员卡，如果可以免费办理，那可以去办一张，也许会有会员折扣。

五、节约社交开支。在餐馆吃完饭记得打包，第二天可以吃。轮到你请客时，邀请朋友去家里。如果要参加朋友的婚礼，可以跟几个朋友合买一份礼物。和男朋友分手后，与其把他送的礼物扔掉，还不如送给朋友。

六、“节流”的同时要“开源”。如果精力够的话可以找份兼职，还能增长工作经验。让钱生钱。如果你对投资不在行，可以找个理财顾问，委托他帮你投资。

 

 

I usually do not turn off my cell phone. Why? I have no idea. After reading an article, I seemed to understand a little bit: for that little bit of caring. I am now sharing this story with you.

The girl would turn her cell phone off and put it by her photo on the desk every night before going to bed. This habit has been with her ever since she bought the phone.
　
The girl had a very close boyfriend. When they couldn't meet, they would either call or send messages to each other. They both liked this type of communication.
　
One night, the boy really missed the girl. When he called her however, the girl's cell phone was off because she was already asleep. The next day, the boy asked the girl to leave her cell phone on at night because when he needed to find her and if could not, he would be worried.

From that day forth, the girl began a new habit. Her cell phone never shuts down at night. Because she was afraid that she might not be able to hear the phone ring in her sleep, she tried to stay very alert. As days passed, she became thinner and thinner. Slowly, a gap began to form between them.
　

The girl wanted to revive their relationship. One night, she called the boy. However what she got was a sweet female voice: "Sorry, the subscriber you dailed is power off."
　
The girl knew that her love has just been turned off.
　
After a long time, the girl has a new love. No matter how well they got along, the girl however refused to get married. In the girl's heart, she always remembered that boy's words and the night when that phone was power off.

The girl still keeps the habit of leaving her cell phone on all throughout the night, but not expecting that it'll ring.
　
One night, the girl fell ill. In moment of fluster, instead of calling her parents, she dialed the new boy's cell phone. The boy was already asleep but his cell phone was still on.
　
Later, the girl asked the boy: "Why don't you turn your cell phone off at night?"

The boy answered: "I'm afraid that if you need anything at night and aren't able to find me, you'll worry."
　
The girl finally married the boy.

Later at night, do you turn off your cell phone?　　

 

 

Well, doesn't that depend on what's causing you to be unhappy, in the first place?

If you've just lost a loved one, no amount of money will make you happy, only time and your own attitude will eventually lessen the pain and hopefully bring some joy back into your life.

However, if a stack of unpaid bills is facing you each day, wouldn't enough money to pay them, not make you happy? If you are someone you love, needs expensive medical care and you can't afford it, would money not be the happy answer?

So, before we adopt some of these truisms about money, we should see how they apply to the reality of the situation. Money is not a "magic bullet", but then in life, what is? But the effectiveness of money, like most of the things we use and have come to rely on in our world, it is all relative.

Being without money doesn't automatically make someone unhappy, but neither does having money guarantee happiness. Rich people are happy because they don't have to be worried and unhappy about not being able to pay bills, make purchases they want, travel, entertain and so on.

But if they became ill and money could not help, they would be just as unhappy and miserable as the poor person who cannot afford the treatment in the first place.

Money cannot buy anyone more time, but it can give you more freedom to choose how you use your time.

A very happy by-product, choice!

"Freedom of choice", if there was ever a magical phrase, that one is it! That is the happiness that money buys!

Lack of money or too little money, limits the choices we can make in and about our lives.

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笔者是以真正提高英文的能力，能真正运用英文来为工作，生活，掌握国外最新知识和动态为出发点来撰写此文，同各位学友分享。以考试通过，或考试高分为终极目的的朋友，可以跳过文中大部分章节。
时下，很多人都热衷于做题目，以为这是学习英语的正确途径。结果做的练习册一本又一本，试题集一套又一套，做得头昏眼花，兴趣全无，英语水平却并没有实质性提高。

实际上，好的英语是“读”出来的，不是做练习“做”出来的。“读”出来的英语是地道的、自然的，因为使用者依持的是“语感”；“做”出来的英语往往流于生硬，因为使用者是依赖“语法规则”硬“做”的。

　"兴趣是最好的老师"，学习英语首先要有兴趣并努力发展这一兴趣。把自己的兴趣与英语学习结合起来，是英语学习成功的关键条件。通过阅读和自己兴趣相关的文章，可以很快地掌握词汇，即使这些文章是英文的，但因为是你所熟悉和爱好的领域，那么在阅读中通过你对这一领域的中文了解和一定的猜词方法，可以很快地积累词汇。

至于阅读的方法，我主张泛读和一口气读法。中国人学习英文，精读、精听、精说有余，但泛读、泛听远远不够，没有量的变化，怎么能有质的飞跃？在大量阅读的时候，如果有个别单词挡道，只要不影响整体内容的理解，就不必停下来查词典，因为那样会打断思路，影响阅读速度，甚至扼杀阅读的兴趣。

举一例来说明，我曾在http://www.en8848.com.cn/article/Index.html 里发现了大量的阅读素材，涉及面很广，从健康美容到市场管理，营销，是一个非常好的阅读工具。因为我目前在民企工作，正准备跳槽去一个外企。因为有MBA的学习经历，也积累了一定的英语基础，由于工作原因也具备一些管理经验，我当时是通过阅读网站里的management和 Sales相关分类的文章，来提高英文能力。在阅读时，千万不要带着语法知识去读，因为你不是英语老师不需要检查文章的语法问题，而当阅读成为习惯，那些地道的英语用法会自然地由此发掘出来.

首先，管理是我所熟悉的领域，工作中也需要运用，如果暂时找不到自己的兴趣相关分类或工作相关分类，那么，找和自己生活相关的话题也是一条捷径，所以我主攻管理英语和约会英语（我那时在追求一个女孩）；

第二，在management和dating这个分类里，又有大量及时更新的相关文章，这给泛读提供了一个载体，我开始是强迫自己每天阅读一篇这些分类当中的经典文章，慢慢的，当能力和兴趣都提高后可，我就开始阅读里面提供的最新同话题相关的及时更新的部分；

第三，通过选读篇幅短小的文章来训练一口气读法，阅读时，关闭金山词霸，通过自身对该行业的理解以及猜词方法，达到英语阅读量的积累。

第四，需要下点笔头功夫。当有些词汇频繁地出现在你的阅读过程中时候，就应该把这些词记在你的学习笔记上，今后你也需要经常翻看你的学习笔记，毕竟这些词是通过你的大量阅读所提炼出来的，算的上是精华词语。

最后，我想说明，阅读的主要目的在于语言吸收上的“潜移默化”，在于获得语感。不要为了阅读而去阅读，阅读需要“量”，没有大量的语言“输入”，是难以学好英语的。而我们国内的英语学习者恰恰语言此输入量太少，当然输出量就更少。结果往往事倍功半。把阅读当做一次旅程，一次走入另样的文化、生活、人物，风俗的奇妙异国之旅，那么便是一种生活的享受了 。

        有个小伙子非常爱一位姑娘，但姑娘的父亲却不喜欢他，不允许他们继续发展下去。小伙子很想给姑娘写封情书，但他知道姑娘的父亲会先看，于是他给姑娘写了这样一封信：

There once lived a lad who was deeply in love with a girl, but disliked by the girl's father, who didn't want to see any further development of their love. The lad was eager to write to the girl, yet he was quite sure that the father would read it first. So he wrote such a letter to the girl:

My love for you I once expressed
no longer lasts, instead, my distaste for you
is growing with each passing day. Next time I see you,
I even won't like that look yours.
I'll do nothing but
look away from you. You can never expect I'll
marry you. The last chat we had
was so dull and dry that you shouldn't think it
made me eager to see you again.
If we get married, I firmly believe I'll
live a hard life, I can never
live happily with you, I'll devote myself
but not
to you. No one else is more
harsh and selfish and least
solicitous and considerate than you.
I sincerely want to let you know
what I said is true. Please do me a favor by
ending our relations and refrain from
writing me a reply. Your letter is always full of
things which displease me. You have no
sincere care for me. So long! Please believe
I don't love you any longer. Don't think
I still have a love of you!

Having read the letter, the father felt relieved and gave it to his daughter with a light heart. The girl also felt quite pleased after she read it carefully, her lad still had a deep love for her. Do you know why? In fact, she felt very sad when she read the letter for the first time. But she read it for a few more times and, at last, she found the key - only every other line should be read, that is the first line, the third, the fifth … and so on to the end.

         姑娘的父亲看了这封信以后，非常高兴的把信给了姑娘。姑娘看完信后也非常快乐，小伙子依然爱着她。你知道她为什么高兴吗？其实，她初读这封信时非常忧伤，但她怎么也不相信那是他的真心话，于是她又默读了几遍，终于，她清楚了该怎样来读这封信。只能一、三、五行如此类推来读，直到信的结尾。