Rules of Life (3)

     Rule Seven: Others are only mirrors of you. You love or hate something about another person according to what love or hate about yourself. Be tolerant; strive to truly understand and have an objective perception of your own self, your thoughts and feelings. Negative experiveces are oppoutunities to heal that wounds that you carry. Support others, and by doing so you suppon yourself.
     原则七：别人只是你的镜子而已。你对自己某方面的爱或恨，就会在这方面对其他人产生同样的感觉。要宽容，接受他人，努力弄清楚自我意识；要真正明白自己，并对自己的想法和情感有客观的感觉。消极的经历是治愈你所有的创伤的机会。支持他人，这样做其实是支持你自己。

      Rule Eight: What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. Take responsibility for yourself. Learn to let go when you cannot change things. Don't get angry about things-- bitter memories clutter your mind. Courage resides in all of us-- use it when you need to do what's right for you. We all possess a strong natural power and adventurous spirit, which you should draw on to entrance what lies ahead.
      原则八：你想让生活成为什么样，这取决于你。你有你所需要的所有工具和资源。你怎么处置由你决定。对你自己负责。当不能改变事情的时候，要学会顺其自然。不要恼怒----痛苦的回忆会弄乱你的思绪。人人都有勇气；当你需要做你认为对的事情的时候，拿出勇气来。我们都拥有强大的自然能力和冒险精神，你们应该加以利用，拥抱前方的一切。

      Rule Nine: Your answers lie inside of you. Trust your innermost feelings, whether you hear then as a little voice or a flash of inspiration. Listen to feelings as well as sounds. Look, listen, and trust. Draw on your natural inspiration.
      原则九：答案就在你身上。相信你内在的感觉，不管你听到的是很小的声音，或是突如其来的灵感。倾听自己的感觉和声音。看，听，并且相信它。利用你本能的灵感。

      Rule Ten: You will forget all this at birth. We are born with all of these capabilities-- our early experiences lead us into a physical world, away from our spiritual selves, so that we become doubtful,cynical and lacking bilief and confidence. The ten Rules are not commandments; they are universal turghs that apply to us all. When you lose your way, call upon them. Have faith in the strength of your spirit. Aspire to be wise-wisdom the ultimate path of your life, and it knows no limits.
      原则十：人生出世会忘记以上的原则。我们天生本来具有这些能力；我们早期的经历引导我们进入了物质世界，远离我们的精神世界，以至于我们变得疑心，愤世嫉俗，缺少信念和自信。这十条原则不是戒律，而是适用于我们所有人的普遍真理。当你迷路是，记得想想它们。信任你的精神力量。渴望变得聪明，智慧是人生最终之路，而且智慧无涯。