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What Determines Your Love

2007-12-27 14:01:54 / 个人分类:Feelings

What Determines Your Love

 

My mother abruptly asked me if I still remembered that girl named Joyce at supper tonight. Of course, what can make me forget about her, my ex-girlfriend? It seems like yesterday that she was in my arms when I close my eyes. Actually, it was the four years ago.

 

Mom said she met with her mother at a wedding today and talked with her about Joyce and me.

 

It was said that she found another boy after we broke up, but their love came soon to the end, she didn’t like him, her mother didn’t like either.

 

“Joyce is good-looking, though she is a little short. She will have a house, and her mother like you, you know, if you two could be together, you future life won’t be too bad!” mom said.

 

“Oh mom, honestly, it’s nothing, but we always couldn’t hit it off. Do you think I’m happy to live with her? Besides, I’ll go abroad. ” I said.

 

“That won’t matter, if you will, you could get engaged first…”

 

“Sorry mom, I just don’t like her… ”

 

“Ok, ok, that way, take home a foreign girl, but you’d better not take a black one,” said mom.

 

“Why?”

 

“Nothing, it’s just too black.”

 

I stopped the talk, finished my meal quickly and went to my room. I know what my mom meant, everybody like her face to be fairer and fairer, nobody like to be blacker and blacker.

 

But, what determines you love?! There’s no saying, or I say love is above everything.

 

If a good black girl would wait in my road to my future, if she wouldn’t mind, I’d like to come up to her and ask her if you’d like go with me until the end of my life.

 




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fenix369的个人空间 删除 fenix369 发布于2008-03-23 15:49:12 评3分
what you said is absolutely right.Love is in the world the most important thing which is the only original power to go the human world.If it doesn' exsit one day,instead of other things,such as money,power,sex,etc.,the world would dispear.
katy的个人空间 删除 katy 发布于2008-03-21 15:11:35
Best wishes for you ,good luck .
Happy的个人空间 删除 susanyang 发布于2008-01-15 15:02:07
I agree with you "I say love is above everything." as well as i think so.

Go ahead!
cobby的个人空间 删除 cobby 发布于2008-01-09 13:03:03
Hehe your mother is very interesting !Besides,best wishes to you!
penny9881的个人空间 删除 penny9881 发布于2008-01-05 13:56:41
I agree that the sincerity is the most important.
Wish you find such kind of a girl with sound smile from her heart.Especially to you.
haihaibs  蓝绿屋 No pain no gain 删除 haihaibs 发布于2008-01-05 02:51:20
to Penny

A girl's kind smile does touch my heart. that determines my love is someone's sincerity.
penny9881的个人空间 删除 penny9881 发布于2008-01-04 09:38:13
what determines your love?
your family? your heart? or anything else?
Ana 删除 安娜 发布于2007-12-30 11:09:36
Hehe,a girlfriend with black skin,that doesn't matter at all.In my mind,the black is much simpler than the white,hehe.You are so lovely and your character is so frank.
do something you believe sometime 删除 sharonyujuan 发布于2007-12-30 11:05:05
equal and natural love!!!

Good day!
Ana 删除 安娜 发布于2007-12-30 11:04:19
Maybe you haven't found your lover yet.Best wishes for you.
Monica1981的个人空间 删除 Monica1981 发布于2007-12-29 00:33:43
Connie said:
"oh, boy, i can feel u r still loving Joyce although u said u don't like her above"
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Why I can't feel that from your article?

I can feel your Mum still loves her very much not you!

I wrote an article posted in November: "Chinese girls and Whitening Lotions".

It tells that Chinese have very different beauty judgements from other nations.

I totally agree that color is not the major issue, your feeling is more important.

I also understand 米拉米亚...you know if his boyfriend is far black, she must feel very uncomfy...in that case, love never happens.
米拉米亚的个人空间 删除 米拉米亚 发布于2007-12-28 18:47:23
have you found your lover?
acturely!i will mind if the one i liked is way black!
Connie Zeng 删除 ConnieZeng 发布于2007-12-28 16:14:06
oh, boy, i can feel u r still loving Joyce although u said u don't like her above.
Love needs privity and feelings when exists between man and woman, some things lost can not be returned as originally due to the feeling ran once for all.
Just let it be, let nature take its course.
Smile 删除 jfhgirl 发布于2007-12-28 15:13:31
Best wishes for your future ,thanks for your comment,good luck ,my friends!
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