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Find a Man for Life

2008-01-09 01:15:14 / 个人分类:Feelings

Find a Man for Life

 

She is a kind girl, 24, one of my friends, called Susan. I’ve got to admit that Susan is not very beautiful, but she is so pleasant to everybody.

 

Recently her mother has been busy finding a boy for her, but she refused every boy introduced by her mom. So her mother gets angry with her, sometimes once she meet Susan, she chatters about her future, this includes her work, her life, of course, and her marriage.

 

She’s been a bit upset; yeah I can tell that it is too much for her blood, yet what of if. You are daughter, she is mother, and there is something you can’t change.

 

Actually Susan has a boyfriend, who is working in Beijing the capital of China. It’s too far from here. They love each other, but her mom does not permit them to be together, you know, it’s not allowed for Susan to go out of mom’s sight. Here I’m confused, as a mother, is to tie your girl strictly and give her mother love or to let her go free and get what she should have?

 

Susan is an accountant, working in an Insurance company. In order to earn more money, she’s been also selling insurance in her spare time, which means you’ve got to deal with all kinds of people, you’ve got to have a smooth tongue. Yup she does have, she can speak well, smoke as well as drink. So she gets acquainted lots and lots of people, bad people, such as underworld figures, rogues, dogs; rich people, such as officials, bosses, investors, etc. And some guys, not bad or good.

 

It is said that some guys like her, go after her. But she says No to them. As for her, they are rich indeed, but too fat, or too ugly. More than once she told me she didn’t like any of them, she just liked the common men. In fact, she likes the rich, good-looking guy. But, do you think who you are? She thinks I didn’t know what happen to her; actually, I know, she was dumped again.

 

Yes, she often told me she just wanted to find a good, ordinary man.

 

And this morning, about 9 o’clock, this moment I’d been asleep. Suddenly, my phone rang, I picked up the phone, heard her heavy voice. She told me she was pregnant. I jumped out of the bed, ran fast to her home on the sixth floor.

 

We sat in the car; almost did not speak. She burrowed her head into my shoulder, without crying. When we got to the hospital, I saw her face was pale at a stroke. She even didn’t look up at the big white gate of the hospital.

 

About half an hour, I took her in my arms and went out of the hospital to the car. I heard, she was sobbing, quietly.

 

She told me, he was a teacher; she thought he were a good, common man….

 




TAG: life man for find Feelings

Happy的个人空间 删除 susanyang 发布于2008-01-15 15:31:41
all the bad results happended to her what the girl should bear everything. if you are a good girl.will not do things like that.
haihaibs  蓝绿屋 No pain no gain 删除 haihaibs 发布于2008-01-13 00:34:31
Susan,is just like my sister. we live in the same city, studied in the same elementary school,aslo the high school.

I know her. her family was poor, and it's a bit better now. They are peasants without their own house in the city,often they have to move here and there.

Susan's parents are street vendors who sell some fruit. and she has two young brothers who are going school now.

Susan has to support her big family, she has to pay education for her brothers and send them living costs. maybe that's why her mom wants her in home.

Yup, she does have a boy in the distance. but they have no hope, no future. you know, for some reasons, not all lovers could be together.

she has lots and lots of friends,but few real friends,among these friends, no boyfriends.

perhaps she did wanna find a common good man for her life.and she thought she had foud,but she was cheated.

she may be bad, yet won't be dirty.
Monica1981的个人空间 删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-01-12 22:29:07
Please read the following to make this topic more interesting:

http://space.englishcn.com/54966/viewspace_16863.html
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To Anna,

Wow, I never expect those words from you....

Anyway, good on you!
Ana 删除 安娜 发布于2008-01-12 20:48:23
All the things were her own choices.Ihate all of the excuses from women's mouth.Her own body,own brain.I think that the girls like her can't get my any sympathy.
Monica1981的个人空间 删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-01-09 19:17:07
After reading your articles, I am very confused....

After reading penny's message, I nearly pass out !

God, penny, let me tell you sth, girls like you have a very small chance to find Mr. Right....you will be lucky if you can find a man.


In the story, Susan has a boyfriend in Beijing...

Then she finds this teacher to have sex with.. (I am very polite in words this time)

So she cheats on her boyfriend, then...we call girls like this "Sluts", Okay?

The last bit of your story is so funny..

What do you mean "she thought she was a good man?"

You mean a good man should marry her instead of dumping her with a baby???

No bloody way, if I was that guy, I wouldn't marry her either...

Once again, girls, it is your responsibility to wear condoms !!!

"But he insist and I love him...."

Oh, save your shit!

Just tell him clearly:

"You either use condoms or don't have sex with me, your choice, babe.."

Trust me, 9 out of 10 will answer you: "Okay, I choose to fuck with the condom, please."

Sorry, girls, I don't have much sympathy...

It is your body, your choice and your life...

If you fuck them up, don't try to blame guys...

You own fault, babe ~ ~ ~
penny9881的个人空间 删除 penny9881 发布于2008-01-09 17:24:11
sorry to hear that she choosed is not a good man.
It's ok, keep going, you will find the suitable one who belongs to you only finally.
Same with me.I will find Mr Rihgt in the near future.
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