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• 人事间最远的距离

  2007-6-23

  The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
  Is not between life Ａnd death 不是生与死
  But when I stand in front of you 而是我就站在你的面前
  Yet you don\'t know that 你却不知道
  I love you 我爱你

  The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
  Is not when i stand in font of you 不是我站在你面前
  Yet you can\'t see my love 你却不知道我爱你
  But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both 而是明明知道彼此相爱
  Yet cannot 却不能
  Be togehter 在一起

  The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
  Is not being apart while being in love 不是明明知道彼此相爱
  But when plainly can not resist the yearning 却不能在一起
  Yet pretending 而是明明无法抵挡这股想念
  You have never been in my heart 却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里

  The furthest distance in the world 世界上最遥远的距离
  Is not 不是明明无法抵挡这股想念
  But using one\'s indifferent heart 却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
  To dig an uncrossable river 而是用自己冷漠的心
  For the one who loves you 对爱你的人掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠

  鱼说:你看不见我的眼泪,因为我在水里.水说:我能看见你的悲伤,因为你在我的心里

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• 星座（英语说法）

  2007-6-22

  Aries 白羊座 (3月21日~4月20日) 　　The fire element of Arise brings assertive “I” energy. 　　火相星座的特质使白羊座具有非常自信的自我力量。　　TIPS: Your persistence will lead you to success. But your impulsive temper may cause problems.　　学习相 坚持会使你成功，但是爱冲动的毛病也会带来麻烦。　　
  　Taurus 金牛座 (4月21~5月21日)　　The Earth element of Taurus brings strength Ａnd the desire for solid ground form Ａnd structure. 　　土相星座的特质让金牛座渴望并具有脚踏实地的能力。　　TIPS: You might be a little bit slow-witted, but your consistency will make it up.　　学习相 你也许反应有一点慢,但是你的坚毅会弥补这个缺点。　　
  　Gemini 双子座 (5月22日~6月21日)　　The Air element of Gemini brings communication, intellect Ａnd speed. 　　风向星座的特质让双子座具有沟通能力,智慧和速度。　　TIPS: Your mutable motivation brings adaptability. 　　学习相 你的多变使你能够适应事物。　　
  　Cancer 巨蟹座 (6月22日~7月22日)　　Cancer’s element is Water. Symbolic of the emotions, water signs need to give Ａnd receive. 　　巨蟹座是水相星座。水是情感的象征,水的特质是给予和接受。　　TIPS: Good memory is your born gift.　　学习相 良好的记忆力是你与生俱来的天赋。　　
  　Leo 狮子座 (7月23日~8月23日)　　Leo is Fire to the core! Fire brings a desire to create, innovate, Ａnd lead.　　狮子座是火相星座的中心。火引发了创造,革新和领导的欲望。TIPS: Your fixed motivation adds self-reliance. But remember to balance self-confidence with humility. 　　学习相 你对目标的坚定不移使你自信。但是记住自信也需要谦虚来平衡。　　
  　Virgo 处女座 (8月24日~9月23日)　　Ruled by shape-shifting Mercury, Virgo works hard to stability. 　　在流动的水星控制下,处女座需要努力才能获得稳定。　　TIPS: A good educational background is important. Diligence is your advantage.　　学习相 良好的教育背景很重要。你的优点是勤奋。　　
  　Libra 天秤座 (9月24日~10月23日) 　　Libra represents the Air element. It is a sign that is more extroverted Ａnd active. 　　天秤座是风相星座。其特性比较外向和主动。TIPS: Your great need to share; to be fair Ａnd impartial will help you a lot.　　学习相 你要求与他人分享和公平的愿望会给你很大帮助。　　
  　Scorpio 天蝎座 (10月24日~11月22日)　　Scorpio is a Water element, Ａnd this makes it a somewhat enigmatic sign. 　　水相星座的特质使蝎子有些神秘。　　TIPS: Study would never be a problem for Scorpio. You just need more confidence.　　学习相 学习对蝎子来说从来都不是问题。你只需要更多自信。　　
  　Sagittarius 射手座 (11月23日~12月21日) 　　Sagittarius is Fire energy. This is a very active, extroverted sign. 　　射手座是火相星座。射手非常主动、外向。　　TIPS: You definitely have talent. But you still have to concentrate more. 　　学习相 你确有天赋,但是你应该更加专心。　　
  　Capricorn 摩羯座 (12月22日~1月20日)　　Capricorn is the leader of the Earth signs. Here is a stabilizing force, one of the hardest-working signs of the Zodiac. 　　魔羯座是土相星座的领头人。是黄道12宫里最稳定最努力工作的星座。　　TIPS: Patience Ａnd caution are your advantages.　　学习相 你的优点是坚持不懈和谨慎。　　
  　Aquarius 水瓶座 (1月21日~2月19日) 　　Ruled by shocking Uranus, Aquarius is very much epitomes the planet that inspires it. This sign has astonishing intellectual Ａnd communication skill.　　受天王星控制的水瓶座简直就是天王星的缩影。水瓶座具有令人吃惊的智慧和沟通能力。　　TIPS Aquarius has a lot of adaptability. But you may try many new things but end up mastering none. 　　学习相 瓶子有非常好的适应能力。但是你可能尝试了很多新事物后却一事无成。　　
  　 Pisces 双鱼座 (2月20日~3月20日)　　Pisces is a Water element. Ruled by mystical Neptune, This sign is extremely receptive, compassionate, Ａnd other-directed.　　双鱼座是水相星座。受神秘的海王星所控制。双鱼非常善于接纳,富有同情心,并且很为别人着想。　　TIPS: Lack of ego-strength can make you feel helpless.学习相 缺乏自我力量会使你觉得无助
  

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• 三十六计（在线翻译）

  2007-6-22

  1.瞒天过海　Cross the sea under camouflage.
  2.围魏救赵　Relieve the state of Zhao by besieging the state of Wei.
  3.借刀杀人　Kill someone with a borrowed knife.
  4.以逸待劳　Wait for the exhausted enemy at one’s ease.
  5.趁火打劫　Loot a burning house.
  6.声东击西　Clamour in the east, attack in the west.
  7.无中生有　Create something out of nothing.
  8.暗渡陈仓　Pretend to take one path while sneaking down the other.
  9.隔岸观火　Watch a fire burning from the other side of the river.
  10.笑里藏刀　Knife hidden under the smiling face.
  11.李代桃僵　Sacrifice the plum for the peach.
  12.顺手牵羊　Take the opportunity to pilfer a goat.
  13.打草惊蛇　Disturb the snake by hitting the grass.
  14.借尸还魂　Borrow another’s body to return the soul.
  15.调虎离山　Entice the tiger to leave the mountain.
  16.欲擒故纵　To catch something, first let it go.
  17.抛砖引玉　Bait a piece of jade with a brick.
  18.擒贼擒王　To catch the bandit ,first capture their leader.
  19.釜底抽薪　Take away the firewood under the cooking pot.
  20.混水摸鱼　Fish in troubled water.
  21.金蝉脱壳　Get away like the cicada sloughing its skin.
  22.关门捉贼　Shut the door to catch the thief.
  23.远交近攻　Befriend a distant state while attacking a neighbor.
  24.假途伐虢　Obtain safe passage to conquer the enemy.
  25.偷梁换柱　Replace the beams with rotten timbers.
  26.指桑骂槐　Revile the locust tree while pointing at the mulberry.
  27.假痴不癫　Play dumb, remain smart.
  28.上屋抽梯　Pull down the ladder after ascent.
  29.树上开花　Deck the tree with bogus blossom.
  30.反客为主　Make the guest Ａnd host change places.
  31.美人计　The beauty trap; Use seductive women to corrupt the enemy.
  32.空城计　Present a bold front to conceal unpreparedness.
  33.反间计　Sow discord among the enemy; Use double agent.
  34.苦肉计　Inflict injury upon oneself to gain trust.
  35.连环计　Chain together the enemy’s ships.
  36.走为上　Run away to fight another day; Escape is the best policy
  

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• fall in love at first sight

  2007-6-02

  Words To Live By

  
  　I'll give you some advice about life.
  　　给你生活的忠告
  
  　　Eat more roughage;
  
  　 多吃些粗粮；
  
  　　Do more than others expect you to do and do it pains;
  
  　　给别人比他们期望的更多，并用心去做；
  
  　　Remember what life tells you;
  
  　　熟记生活告诉你的一切；
  
  　　Don't take to heart every thing you hear. Don't spend all that you have. Don't sleep as long as you want;
  
  　　不要轻信你听到的每件事，不要花光你的所有，不要想睡多久就睡多久；
  
  　　Whenever you say "I love you", please say it honestly;
  
  　　无论何时说“我爱你”，请真心实意；
  
  　　Whevever you say "I'm sorry", please look into the other person's eyes;
  
  　　无论何时说“对不起”，请看对方的眼睛；
  
  　　Fall in love at first sight;
  
  　　相信一见钟情；
  
  　　Don't neglect dreams;
  
  　　请不要忽视梦想；
  
  　　Love deeply and ardently, even if there is pain, but this is the way to make your life complete;
  
  　　深情热烈地爱，也许会受伤，但这是使人生完整的唯一方法；
  
  　　Find a way to settle, not to dispute;
  
  　　用一种明确的方法解决争议，不要冒犯；
  
  　　Never judge people by their appearance;
  
  　　永远不要以貌取人；
  
  　　Speak slowly, but think quickly;
  
  　　慢慢地说，但要迅速地想；
  
  　　When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, simle and say, "Why do you want to know?"
  
  　　当别人问你不想回答的问题时，笑着说：“你为什么想知道？”
  
  　　Remember that the man who can shoulder the most risk will gain the deepest love and the supreme accomplishment;
  
  　　记住：那些敢于承担最大风险的人才能得到最深的爱和最大的成就；
  
  　　Call you mother on the phone. If you can't, you may think of her in your heart;
  
  　　给妈妈打电话，如果不行，至少在心里想着她；
  
  　　When someone sneezes say, "God bless you";
  
  　　当别人打喷嚏时，说一声“上帝保佑”；
  
  　　If you fail, don't forget to learn your lesson;
  
  　　如果你失败了，千万别忘了汲取教训；
  
  　　Remember the three "respects" .Respect yourself, respect others, stand on dignity and pay attention to your behavīor;
  
  　　记住三个“尊”： 尊重你自己； 尊重别人； 保持尊严， 对自己的行为负责；
  
  　　Don't let a little dispute break up a great friendship;
  
  　　不要让小小的争端损毁了一场伟大的友谊；
  
  　　Whenever you find your wrongdoing, be quick with reparation!
  
  　　无论何时你发现自己做错了，竭尽所能去弥补；动作要快！
  
  　　Whenever you make a phone call smil when you pick up the phone, because someone feel it!
  
  　　无论什么时候打电话，摘起话筒的时候请微笑，因为对方能感觉到！
  
  　　Marry a person who likes talking; because when you get old, you'll find that chatting to be a great advantage;
  
  　　找一个你爱聊的人结婚；因为年纪大了后，你会发觉喜欢聊天是一个人最大的优点；
  
  　　Find time for yourself.
  
  　　找点时间，单独呆会儿；
  
  　　Life will change what you are but not who you are;
  
  　　欣然接受改变，但不要摒弃你的个人理念；
  
  　　Remember that silence is golden;
  
  　　记住：沉默是金；
  
  　　Read more books and watch less television;
  
  　　多看点书，少看点电视；
  
  　　Live a noble and honest life. Reviving past times in your old age will help you to enjoy your life again;
  
  　　过一种高尚而诚实的生活。当你年老时回想起过去，你就能再一次享受人生。
  
  　　Trust God, but don't forget to lock the door;
  
  　　相信上帝，但是别忘了锁门；
  
  　　The harmonizing atmosphere of a family is valuable;
  
  　　家庭的融洽氛围是难能可贵的；
  
  　　Try your best to let family harmony flow smoothly;
  
  　　尽你的能力让家平顺和谐；
  
  　　When you quarrel with a close friend, talk about the main dish, don't quibble over the appetizers;
  
  　　当你和你的亲近的少吵嘴时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂谷子的事；
  
  　　You cannot hold onto yesterday;
  
  　　不要摆脱不了昨天；
  
  　　Figure out the meaning of someone's words;
  
  　　多注意言下之意；
  
  　　Share your knowledge to continue a timeless tradition;
  
  　　和别人分享你的知识，那才是永恒之道；
  
  　　Treat our earth in a friendly way,don't fool around with mother nature;
  
  　　善待我们的地球，不要愚弄自然母亲；
  
  　　Do the thing you should do;
  
  　　做自己该做的事；
  
  　　Don't trust a lover who kisses you without closing their eyes;
  
  　　不要相信接吻时从不闭眼的伴侣；
  
  　　Go to a place you've never been to every year.
  
  　　每年至少去一个你从没去过的地方。
  
  　　If you earn much money,the best way to spend it is on charitable deeds while you are alive;
  
  　　如果你赚了很多钱，在活着的时候多行善事，这是你能得到的最好回报；
  
  　　Remember,not all the best harvest is luck;
  
  　　记住有时候，不是最好的收获也是一种好运；
  
  　　Understand rules completely and change them reasonably;
  
  　　深刻理解所有的规则，合理地更新他们；
  
  　　Remember,the best love is to love others unconditionally rather than make demands on them;
  
  　　记住，最好的爱存在于对别人的爱胜于对别人的索求这上；
  
  　　Comment on the success you have attained by looking in the past at the target you wanted to achieve most;
  
  　　回头看看你发誓取得的目标，然后评价你到底有多成功；
  
  　　In love and cooking,you must give 100% effort……but expect little appreciation;
  
  　　无论是烹饪不是爱情，都用百分之百的负责态度对待，但是不要乞求太多的回报。

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• Iife is simple

  2007-6-02

  02 13:51:52

      A man who was looking for a job picked up a slip of waste paper lying on the floor, and threw it into the wastepaper basket. This was just witnessed by the manager of the company.Therefore, he was employed.
       As a matter of fact, it is easy to be appreciated.  Establish good habits.
       A child said to his mother, "Mum, you look so beautiful today." "Why, my dear?" Mother asked in surprise. "Because you re not angry today."
       As a matter of fact, it is easy to have beauty.  Be kind to others.
       A tennis coach asked his students, "If a tennis ball flies into the lawn, how can you find it?" "Look for it from the center of the lawn." Answered one student. "Look for it from where the grass is the thickest.' Answered another one.  The coach revealed the answer, "Look for it just from one side to the other. "
        As a matter of fact, it is easy to gain success. Step by step,don't skip any effort.
        A chicken, just after being hatched, met a turtle passing by. From then on, the chicken lived all her life with the eggshell
        As a matter of fact, it is easy to escape from an excessively heavy burden. Throw stubbornness and prejudice away.
        A frog living in a farmland said to a friend living beside the road, "It's so dangerous to live there, move to live with me!"The other one said, "I'm used to living here, what a trouble to leave!" Several days later, the frog living by the road was found rolled over by a truck, dead.
        As a matter of fact, it is easy to keep away from bad luck.Just stay away from laziness.
        Several children were eager to become angels; God gave each of them a candlestick, telling them to keep the candlestick clean. However, after a long time since God disappeared, almost nobody remembered to scrub his candlestick any longer.  One day, God came all of a sudden, and found that only a child called"silly boy" kept scrubbing his candlestick. As a result, the "silly boy" became an angel.
       As a matter of fact, it is easy to have your dream come true.Make efforts from the beginning to the end and never lose heart.
       An exploration group was going through a boundless desert.Everyone was worn out, full of pains, except one man who was still walking in good mood.  When asked, he smiled, "I've brought the least things, only necessities."
       As a matter of fact, it is easy to keep yourself in good spirits. Don't unreasonably demand too much that was not necessa
        What's the most colorful thing in your life?
        Wake up in the morning. It's on your face. Welcome the forthcoming day with a beautiful smile.
        Noon arriving, it's on your body. Bestir yourself and enjoy the life at the moment.
        When darkness falls, it's on your feet.  Have both feet on the ground and try your best.
        This is the art of life, which is so simple once you've learned to cherish everything you have, to be continent and grateful.Then you can lead a happy life. It is as simple as what I have told you.

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• how to expess

  2007-6-02

  Feeling a little blue? Here are ten fast and easy ways to smile.
  感觉有些郁闷吗？以下十种方法快速简单，让你马上露出微笑。
  　　

  1. Play outside外出游玩
      Leave your apartment and go outside. Sun and fresh air are good for you. 
     把自己投入自然的怀抱,享受阳光,清新空气!
  2. Exercise运动
  　When you exercise, your brain releases a chemical called endorphins. This chemical makes you feel happier. That is just another reason why exercise is good for you.
        当你运动的时候,你的大脑会释放一种叫endorphins的化学物质,这种化学物质能让你更快乐,这就是运动对你有好处的另一个原因!
  3. Have a Heart-to-Heart促膝谈心
  　　If something is bothering you, it is a good idea to talk about it. Call a friend or relative. A good chat is great way to feel better fast.
          如果某事让你烦心，说出来是一种好方法。给朋友或亲人打电话，一次愉快的交谈可马上扫去你的不快
  4. Play Pop Music 演奏流行音乐
  　　Westlife, Backstreet Boys, S.H.E…who doesn’t like a little mindless pop? Listening to upbeat, happy music will make you smile. Singing along won’t hurt either. 
          西城男孩,后街男孩,S.H.E.无一不是心灵单纯的音乐精灵.听欢快的,积极的音乐会让你舒心一笑,跟着清唱也未尝不可.
  5. Laughter is the best medicine开怀大笑是一剂良药
  　　Laughing is the best way to improve your mood. Children laugh around 400 times a day. Adults only laugh about 20 times a day. What happened? Be a kid for a day: play games, watch funny movies, or read jokes online. 
         开怀大笑是改善心情的最好方式。小孩一天大约笑400次。青年一天大概20次。这到底是为什么呢？就让我们像个孩子，玩游戏，看喜剧电影，或上网看笑话
  6. Power of Chocolate巧克力的力量
  　　Chocolate has special natural chemicals that make you happy. Plus, it tastes so good! 
          巧克力含特殊的天然化学物质能使你快乐。另外，它偿起来很美味！
  7. Draw画画
  　　就像一个艺术家一样,涂涂画画,制作东西.尽管你不能做得很好,但创作性的劳动能够释放压力
  8. Get a dog养一条小狗
  　　Dogs are cute, energetic, and fun. Plus, studies show that people with pets live longer and people with dogs live the longest!
        狗是可爱，充满活力且有趣的动物。另外，研究表明人们与宠物生活时期，狗是持续最长时间的
  9. Breathe呼吸
  　　If you can’t go to the gym, try taking deep breaths. Breathing deeply will relax your muscles and give you energy. 
       如果你不能f去健身房，尝试深呼吸。深呼吸会释放肌肉群给你能量
  10. Think positive积极乐观地考虑问题
  　　Close your eyes and think of a beautiful scene or a time when you were happy and feeling good.
         闭上眼睛想象一个美丽的场景或你感到快乐时的感觉
  
  

  
  

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• 人生八宝

  2007-6-02

  人生八宝：

   

  1 结交两个好友：运动场，图书馆

  2 配备两个医生：运动，乐观

  3 练好两项本领：做人，做事

  4 多吃两样的东西：吃苦，吃亏

  5 构建两个支柱：人文知识，科学素养

  6 追求两个一致：兴趣和事业一致，爱情和婚姻一致

  7 记住两个秘诀：健康秘诀在早上，成功秘诀在晚上

  8 争取两个一致：把潜力发挥到极致，把生命延续到极致

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• love poem

  2007-6-02

      1、Love is more than a word
        it says so much.
        When I see these four letters,
        I almost feel your touch.
        This is only happened since
        I fell in love with you.
        Why this word does this,
        I haven't got a clue. (来源：英语麦当劳www.EnglishCN.com)

        Love不单是一个字，
        它还代表了许多意涵，
        当我看到这四个字母的时候
        我几乎能感受到你内心的感动
        但是这只是发生在，
        我爱上你之后，
        为何这个字有如此的魔力，
        我也不清楚 (来源：英语图片http://photo.englishcn.com)

        2、Thank you for comfotting me when I'm sad
        Loving me when I'm mad
        Picking me up when I'm down
        Thank you for being my friend and being around
        Teaching me the meaning of love
        Encouraging me when I need a shove
        But most of all thank you for
        Loving me for who I am.

  (来源：英语麦当劳http://www.EnglishCN.com)

        感谢你在伤心时安慰我，
        当我生气时感谢你护着我，
        当我沮丧时你拉拔我，
        感谢你作为我的朋友并且在我身旁，
        告诉我爱的意义是什么，
        当我需要动力时你鼓励我，
        但我最想感谢你的是，
        爱上像我这样的一个人。 (来源：英语麦当劳－英语杂志EnglishCN.com)

        3、Sweetheart,
        My thoughts are deep into you
        From the moment that I wake up
        And to the whole day through
        Happy Valentine's Day

  (来源：英语论坛http://bbs.englishcn.com)

        亲爱的，
        我深深地想念着你，
        从我每天早上起来的那一刻起，
        每一分每一秒直到一天结束。
        情人节快乐！ (来源：英语图片http://photo.englishcn.com)

        4、Thank you for standing behind me
        In all that I do
        I hope you're as happy with me
        As I am with you

  (来源：英语论坛http://bbs.englishcn.com)

        感謝你永遠支持我，
        不论我作了些什麼，
        我希望你跟我在一起永遠开心，
        就像我跟你在一起時那么地快乐。 (来源：英语麦当劳www.EnglishCN.com)

        5、If I could save time in a bottle
        the first thing that i 'd like to do
        is to save every day until eternity passes away
        just to spend them with you
        if I could make days last forever
        if words could make wishes come true
        I'd save every day like a treasure and then
        again I would spend them with you

  (来源：英语交友http://friends.englishcn.com)

        如果我能把时间存入一个瓶子，
        我要作的第一件事就是，
        把每一天都存下來直到永恆，
        再和你一起慢慢度過。
        如果我能把時間化作永恆，
        如果我的愿望能一一成真，
        我会把每天都像宝贝一樣存起來，
        再和你一起慢慢度过。 (来源：英语麦当劳http://www.EnglishCN.com)

        6、To sweetheart or friend,
        words can mean much.
        Valentine heart to heart,
        conveys a loving touch.

  (来源：英语图片http://photo.englishcn.com)

        给我的愛人或是朋友，
        一句话可以代表许多意思，
        让我們传递著情人节的讯息，
        也传送出愛的感觉。

  (来源：英语博客http://space.englishcn.com)

        7、You're always there for me
        When things tend to go wrong
        It's that faith you have in me
        That makes our love strong (来源：英语聊天室http://chat.EnglishCN.com)

        当我需要你时你永远在那里，
        就算是我犯了錯誤也沒关系，

      8、It's your loving and your caring
        And knowing that you're near
        That gentle touch you have
        Make my troubles disappear (来源：英语论坛http://bbs.englishcn.com)

        是你的爱意和呵护，
        知道你就在我的身边，
        还有你的温柔和体贴，
        让我所有的麻烦全都不见。 (来源：英语图片http://photo.englishcn.com)

        9、A better love I couldn't ask for
        With your sweet and gently way
        And knowing that your love for me
        Grows more everyday

  (来源：英语博客http://space.englishcn.com)

        我再也沒法找到一个比你更好爱我的人，
        能比你更加温柔和体贴，
        我也深深地相信，
        你对我的愛一天比一天更深。 (来源：英语麦当劳www.EnglishCN.com)

        10、We share so much together
        And you always pull me through
        Thank you for standing behind me
        In all that I do (来源：英语麦当劳－英语杂志EnglishCN.com)

        我们分享生命中的每一天，
        感谢你带领着我
        感谢你一直支持着我
        不论我做了些什么 (来源：英语聊天室http://chat.EnglishCN.com)

  
   

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• love sayings

  2007-5-19

  1. 爱意味着我关心我所爱的人的幸福。只要我的关心是真诚的，我的关心对我所爱的人就不会是一种压制，也不会是一种占有性的依附。

  Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not a smothering of the person Ｏr a possessive clinging.

  2. 如果我关心你，我就会关注你的成长，并希望你会成为你能成为的样子。

  If I care about you, I\'m concerned about your growth, Ａnd I hope you will become all that you can become.

  3．因此，对你为完善自己人格所做的一切，我决不设置障碍，即使你做的事情有时会让我不舒服。

  Consequently, I don\'t put up roadblocks to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.

  4．爱是自由的行为，爱是自愿地付出，而不是在需求之下的施舍。

  Love is freeing. Love is feely given, not doled out on demand.

  5．同时，我对你的爱不取决于你是否满足我对你的期望。真正的爱并不意味着“你成为一个完美的人，或是你成为我期望你成为的那种人时，我才爱你。”

  At the same time, my love for you isn\'t dependent on whether you fulfill my expectations of you. Authentic love does not imply \"I\'ll love you when you become perfect Ｏr when you become what I expect you to become.\"

  6．真爱的付出是不带条件的，爱的特性之一就是无条件。

  Authentic love isn\'t given with strings attached. There is an unconditional quality about love.

  
  7. 爱意味着尊重我所爱的人的人格尊严。如果我爱你，我就会把你看成是一个独立的人，你有你自己的价值观，有你自己的思想和感情，我不会要你放弃你的特性，而为了我把自己塑造成我期望你成为的那种人。

  Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values Ａnd thoughts Ａnd feelings, Ａnd I do not insist that you surrender your identity Ａnd conform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.

  8．我能够允许并鼓励你独立自主，保持你的特性，这样我就不会把你当作一件东西来对待，不会让你把主要精力用来满足我自己的需要。

  I can allow Ａnd encourage you to stand alone Ａnd to be who you are, Ａnd I avoid treating you as an object Ｏr using you primarily to gratify my own needs.

  9．爱意味着对我所爱的人作出一种承诺。这种承诺并不需要我们相互放弃自身的特性，也不表示我们的这种关系一定是永久的关系。这种承诺既包含愿意在痛苦时刻，在犹豫时刻，在斗争时刻和绝望时刻相互支持，也包含共享平静和欢乐的时刻。

  Love means making a commitment to the person I love. This commitment doesn\'t entail surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent. It does entail a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain, uncertainty, struggle, Ａnd despair, as well as in times of calm Ａnd enjoyment.

  10．爱就是要感到能够理解自己所爱的人。如果我爱你，我就能与你有同样的情感，我就能通过你的眼睛去看世界。我能够理解你，是因为我在你身上看到了我自己，而在我身上我也看到了你。

  Love means identifying with the person I love. If I love you, I can empathize with you Ａnd see the world through your eyes. I can identify with you because I\'m able to see myself in you Ａnd you in me.

  11．这种亲密的关系并不是说要持续地“在一起，”因为距离和分别对于相爱来说有时是必要的。距离可以增强爱的联系，距离还有助于重新发现自己，这样我们就能够以新的方式面对对方。

  This closeness does not imply a continual \"togetherness,\" for distance Ａnd separation are sometimes essential in a loving relationship. Distance can intensify a loving bond, Ａnd it can help us rediscover ourselves, so that we are able to meet each other in a new way.

  12．爱意味着我了解我所爱的人，我知道那个人的方方面面——不仅仅是美好的一面，而且也包括他能力所限，言行不一和有其他缺点的一面。

  Love means that I know the person I love. I\'m aware of the many sides of the other person——not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies Ａnd flaws.

  13．我知道那个人的思想和情感，我体验到那个人身上某种本质的东西；我能透过对方在社交场合的表现和在社会上所担当的角色，看到他更内在的东西。

  I have an awareness of the other\'s feelings Ａnd thoughts, Ａnd I experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks Ａnd roles Ａnd see the other person on a deeper level.

  14．爱可以容忍不完美。在爱的关系中，必然有厌烦的时候，有我想放弃的时候，有十分紧张的时候，有我感到没有出路的时候。真正的爱并不意味着永远快乐。

  Love can tolerate imperfection. In a love relationship there are times of boredom, times when I may feel like giving up, times of real strain, Ａnd times I experience an impasse. Authentic love does not imply enduring happiness.

  15．我之所以能够在困难时期和你在一起，是因为我记得我们过去共同度过的时光，是因为我能想象，如果我们对问题予以足够的重视，并因此能够面对问题而且能度过这个时期，我们将来在一起的日子会是什么样子。

  I can stay during rough times, however, because I can remember what we had together in the past, Ａnd I can picture what we will have together in our future if we care enough to face our problems Ａnd work them through.

  16．爱意味着我需要所爱的人，但不是缺了他就不行。如果没有你我就不能生存，那我根本就不能无拘无束地去爱你。

  Love means having a want for the person I love without having a need for that person in order to be complete. If I am nothing without you, then I\'m not really free to love you.

  
  17. 我爱你，你离开了，我有失落感，我难过，我感到孤独，但我还能支撑下去。

  I love you Ａnd you leave, I\'ll experience a loss Ａnd be sad Ａnd lonely, but I\'ll still be able to survive.

  18．如果我的价值和我的生存过于依赖于你，那我就没有审视我们之间关系的自由，我就没有反驳你的自由，我也没有与你当面进行争辩的自由。由于我怕失去你，我就只好降低要求，而这种委曲求全肯定会引起我的不满情绪。

  If I am overly dependent on you for my meaning Ａnd my survival, then I am not free to challenge our relationship; nor am I free to challenge Ａnd confront you. Because of my fear of losing you, I\'ll settle for less than I want, Ａnd this settling will surely lead to feelings of resentment.

   

  19．如果我们相互信任，我们就愿意相互敞开我们的心扉，我们就能够去掉假面具，去掉伪装，显示我们的真面貌。

  If we trust each other, we are willing to be open to each other Ａnd can shed masks Ａnd pretenses Ａnd reveal our true selves.

  20. 爱是广阔的。如果我爱你，我就鼓励你向外发展，建立其他的人际关系。

  Love is expansive. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out Ａnd develop other relationships.

  21．尽管我们之间的爱以及我们相互承担的责任不允许我们做某些事情，但我们并不是完全彻底地拴在一起。

  Although our love for each other Ａnd our commitment to each other might bar certain actions on our parts, we are not totally Ａnd exclusively wedded to each other.

  22．把一个人和另一个人捆绑在一起，而不给他发展的空间，这是一种虚假的爱。

  It is a pseudolove that cements one person to another in such a way that he Ｏr she is not given room to grow.

  23. 爱中充满了自我。我只有能真正地爱自己，珍视自己，欣赏自己，尊重自己，我才能爱你。

  Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, Ａnd respect myself.

  24．如果我空虚，那么我能给你的只有空虚。如果我感到我自己是完整的、有价值的人，那么我就能够让你分享我的充实。

  If I am empty, then all I can give you is my emptiness. If I feel that I\'m complete Ａnd worthwhile in myself, then I\'m able to give to you out of my fullness.

  25．给予你我对你的爱，最好的一个方式就是和你一起充分享受我的一切。

  One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you.

  26．成熟的爱是两个人的结合，但又不失各自的完整和特性。

  Mature love is Ｕnion under the condition of preserving one\'s integrity, one\'s individuality.

  27．爱中有这种矛盾现象：合二为一，却又一分为二。

  In love this paradox occurs that two beings become one Ａnd yet remain two.

  28. 我们在婚姻中最想得到的是什么？爱与被爱，幸福与安全，成长与发现。

  What is it we want most from a marriage? To love Ａnd be loved. To be happy Ａnd secure. To grow, to discover.

  29．爱的关系是一个花园，我们在其中种植、培育和收获最珍贵的作物——我们自己，我们的配偶在这个花园里得到同样肥沃的土壤可以蓬勃发展。

  A love relationship is the garden in which we plant, cultivate Ａnd harvest the most precious of crops, our own self, Ａnd in which our spouse is provided with the same rich soil in which to bloom.

  30. 只有当我们的配偶也心愿得偿时，我们才可能心愿得偿。

  We cannot obtain what we want unless our partner also gets what he Ｏr she wants.

  31．例如：一位妇女可能想去听交响乐而她的丈夫则痛恨交响乐。

  A woman may, for instance, want to go to the symphony. Her husband might hate symphonies.

  32．但是，花几个小时听他不喜欢的音乐，他可以给自己的伴侣带来快乐。为得到这份快乐所付出的代价并不高。对吧？

  But by spending a few hours listening to music he doesn’t care for, he can bring joy to his partner. That’s a pretty cheap price to pay for joy, isn’t it?

  33．现代心理学家们对“双赢”解决办法很感兴趣，但在婚姻中，成功更取决于“双输”解决办法。

  Modern psychologists are taken with the “win-win” solution. But in marriage, success resides more in “lose-lose” solutions.

  34．有了这些解决方案，双方就都能获胜。因为在爱的关系中，输是送出一份总会有回报的礼物。

  Out of these, both parties can win. For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that always returns.

  35．婚姻关系中人们争论最多的问题——如钱该怎么花——经常并不是真正的问题。关键的问题是：谁将掌握控制权？

  The issues that people argue over most in marriage, such as how to spend money, often aren’t the real ones. The key issue is: who is going to be in control?

  36．年轻一些的时候，我对控制权的需要源于害怕，缺乏信任和没有安全感。最后我终于意识到我不需要控制我的妻子——实际上我不应该控制她，我也不可能控制她，如果我试图控制她，我会毁了我们的婚姻。

  When I was younger, my need to control arose out of fear, a lack of trust, insecurity. Finally I realized I didn’t need to control my wife—that, indeed, I ought not control her, that I couldn’t control her, Ａnd that if I tried to, I would destroy our marriage.

  37．放弃控制权经常被与软弱混为一谈。但是家庭之争中的胜利者从来都不是真正的胜利者。在你赢得斗争而你的伴侣屈服时，你已经输了。

  Giving up control is often confused with weakness. But the winner in a domestic argument is never really the winner. When you win a battle Ａnd your partner submits, you have, paradoxically, lost.

  1) I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
  　　我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。
  　　
  　　2) No man Ｏr woman is worth your tears, Ａnd the one who is, won‘t make you cry.
  　　没有人值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。
  　　
  　　3) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them.
  　　失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近在身旁，却犹如远在天边。
  　　
  　　4) Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
  　　纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。
  　　
  　　5) To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
  　　对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。
  　　
  　　6) Don‘t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn‘t willing to waste their time on you.
  　　不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。
  　　
  　　7) Just because someone doesn‘t love you the way you want them to, doesn‘t mean they don‘t love you with all they have.
  　　爱你的人如果没有按你所希望的方式来爱你，那并不代表他们没有全心全意地爱你。
  　　
  　　8) Don‘t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
  　　不要着急，最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。
  　　
  　　9) Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
  　　在遇到梦中人之前，上天也许会安排我们先遇到别的人；在我们终于遇见心仪的人时，便应当心存感激。
  　　
  　　10) Don‘t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
  不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有
  Life is like a box of chocolates, Forrest. You never know what you\'re gonna get

   

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• subtle

  2007-5-19

  我喜欢看树枝上那淡淡的嫩绿，它是春天的使者，它是一天清晨的开始…

  　　I like the subtle fresh green budding from the branches of the tree ——the herald of spring, ushering in the dawn…

  　　我喜欢天空中那淡淡的云，它将天空衬的更高更蓝更宽…

  　　I like the subtle flow of cloud that makes the sky seem even more vast, azure Ａnd immense…

  　　我喜欢淡淡的风。春风轻吻脸颊，秋风抚面温柔，夏天的风送来凉爽，冬天的风带来清凉……

  　　I like the subtle wind. In spring, it steals a kiss on my cheek; in autumn, it caresses my face; in summer, it brings in cool sweet smell; in winter, it carries a crisp chilliness…

  　　我喜欢喝淡淡的茶，淡淡之中才品出它余味的清香，淡淡的苦才是它原来的味道……

  　　I like the subtle taste of tea that last long after a sip. The subtle bitter is what it is meant to be…

  　　我喜欢追求淡淡的友谊。彼此之间不需要天天在一起，偶尔一句：你好吗？思念就像发芽一样蔓延开来……

  　　I like the subtle friendship that does not hold people together. In stead, an occasional greeting spreads our longings far beyond…

  　　我喜欢淡淡地思念一个人，静静地将自己包围在沙发之中，任思绪在回忆里飘荡……

  　　I like the subtle longing for a friend, when I sink deeply in a couch, mind wandering in memories of the past…

  　　爱也要淡淡的。爱，不要成为囚，少是愁多也是忧……

  　　Love should also be subtle, without enslaving the ones fallen into her arms. Not a bit less nor a bit more…
  　　淡淡的一点友谊很真，淡淡的一点问候很醇，淡淡的一点依恋很清，淡淡的一点孤独很美，淡淡的一点思念很深，淡淡的一点祝福最真……

  　　Subtle friendship is true; subtle greetings are enough; subtle love is tender; subtle longing is deep; subtle wishes come from the bottom of your heart…

  
   

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