總在快樂的時候,感到微微的惶恐 在開懷大笑時,流下感動的淚水 我無法相信單純的幸福 對人生的起伏悲喜,既坦然又不安

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  • 安妮宝贝的50句经典语句

    2007-10-05

    1 我的快乐都是微小的事情。
    2 任何一件事情，只要心甘情愿，总是能够变得简单。
    3 容易伤害别人和自己的，总是对距离的边缘模糊不清的人。
    4 渴望占有愈多而愈脆弱。
    5 没有欲望只能说是麻木不仁。
    6 短暂的瞬间，漫长的永远。
    7 鸟的翅膀在空气里振动。那是一种喧嚣而凛冽的，充满了恐惧的声音。一种不确定的归宿的流动。
    8 人的寂寞，有时候很难用语言表达。
    9 总是需要一些温暖。哪怕是一点点自以为是的纪念。
    10 感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。
    11 伤口是别人给与的耻辱，自己坚持的幻觉。
    12 我大概是一只鸟。充满了警觉，不容易停留。所以一直在飞。
    13 痛彻心扉的爱情是真的，只有幸福是假的。那曾经以为的花好月圆……爱情只是宿命摆下的一个局。
    14 我的世界是寂静无声的，容纳不下别人。
    15像我这样的女人，总是以一个难题的形式出现在感情里。
    16我们可以失望，但不能盲目。
    17 在这个世界上，所有真性情的人，想法总是与众不同。
    18 我总是以为自己是会对流失的时间和往事习惯的。不管在哪里，碰到谁。以什么样的方式结束。
    19 幸福始终充满着缺陷。
    20 但是快乐太单纯，所以容易破碎。
    21 我从来不自欺欺人。我只看真实。
    22 聪明的女子值得同情。
    23 一个女子的寂寞就是这样的不堪一击。如果一个男人对我伸出手。如果他的手指是热的。她是谁对我其实已经并不重要。
    24 我会惧怕孤独吗？我只是偶尔会感觉寂寞。
    25 爱情是容易被怀疑的幻觉，一旦被识破就自动灰飞烟灭。
    26 快乐的流泪。
    27 在她的心里潜伏着一个深渊，扔下巨石也发不出声音。
    28 喜欢的就要拥有它，不要害怕结果。
    29 很多人一旦分开也许会永远都不再见面。
    30 有些人是可以被时间轻易抹去的。犹如尘土。
    31 很多人不需要再见，因为只是路过而已。遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。
    32 他们似乎从没有正式地告别过。而每一次都是绝别。
    33 你的头发美丽而哀愁。就象你的灵魂。
    34 爱的，不爱的。一直在告别中。
    35 我爱你，没有什么目的。只是爱你。
    36 那些离别和失望的伤痛，已经发不出声音来了。
    37 也许爱情只是因为寂寞。需要找一个人来爱。即使没有任何结局。
    38 会过去的，就会过去的。我们的痛苦，我们的悲伤，我们的负罪。
    39 当一个女子在看天空的时候，她并不想寻找什么。她只是寂寞。
    40 该笑的时候没有快乐，该哭泣的时候没有眼泪，该相信的时候没有诺言。
    41 有些事情在劫难逃。
    42 男人不爱女人。他们只是需要女人。
    43 我们一直是在离别中，比如和爱的人，和伤害，甚至和时光……
    44 我微笑。在任何我难过或者快乐的时候，我只剩下微笑。
    45 我相信我爱你。依然。始终。永远。
    46 任何东西都可被替代。爱情，往事，记忆，失望，时间……都可以被替代。但是你不能无力自拔。
    47 如果有过幸福。幸福只是瞬间的片断，一小段一小段。
    48 缘分叵测，我们无从得知下一刻会发生一些什么。
    49 手指不会动了，眼泪不会流了，时间不会走了。
    50 那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
     

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  • What do u want in your life ?

    2007-10-04

    what do you want in your life? what kind of life you want to live ?

    I asked myself so many times these days as the confusion full of my head .

    what's the happiness?

    Do I have to lose something while getting something ? I dont know which one I want more now .I am totally in a delemma about what I should go for in my life .It is so painful to give a decision of your future life .Half of your dream become true while half of ur dream would dead at the same time .They both are the life I want so much ,neither of them that I can give up so easylily .But ,life is hard and you cannot obtain them at the same time ,you have to choose one of them and to complete it finally .The other one will die away slowly or keep it ur heart forever ? I dont know which one is much more meaningful to me .It will hurt a lot .

    Okay ,If it is destiny I will accept .I cannot care about too much now .What I want I will know .....

     

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  • Returned from Suzhou

    2007-9-06

     

    My friends and I visited Suzhou last weekends.

    Suzhou is famous for his ancient Chinese gardens and which dropped into my head when I was young in primary school.It was just an impression and I never thought someday I would be in there in real .

    It would bring only a little surprise when you expected something too much .

    Now I am wonderring what's the meaning of travelling ?

    To discover some new scenery that different from what's around you ? Or just give a holiday to your heavy heart crowded by working ,life,etc. Mayebe we want a change from our current dull life .We are easy to get tired of daily life that do the same wok ,meet the same people ,eat the same food .Nothing to be felt excited anymore no matter where u are staying is such a nice place .

    We want a diffenence ,so go to a faraway place ,there is no scenery in a famliar city .

     

     

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  • Words of wisdom for graduates

    2007-8-22

    Dan Amos (CEO, Aflac)

    I’ve spoken at a few university commencements, any my message is always pretty much the same. I tell graduates to find their treasure. By treasure, I’m not talking about money or material possessions. I’m talking about something in life that they’re passionate about and pursue it. That’s the key to true happiness.

     

    Brenda Barnes (CEO, Sara Lee)

    Find something that you have a great passion for, as that will make you happy. Take that passion, give it your all, and then not only will you be happy, but you’ll also be successful.

     

    Jon Boscia (CEO, Lincoln National)

    Focus on deciding what will motivate you to get out of bed in the morning. Is it school? What kind? Is it work? What field? Don’t worry about making a mistake---you’re young and you have a lot of time to experiment.

     

    David Kong (CEO, Best Western)

    Life seems unfair at times, but it’s important to stay true to one’s beliefs. In the next 10 years, be patient and build a solid foundation. Sometimes it’s difficult to see people who don’t work as hard or are less talented get ahead. Some people are luckier in some things than others. It’s Ok. In the end, hard work and dedication always pay handsome dividends.

     

    Hopefully these words of wisdom will be helpful to those who will graduate from universities or colleges and will be engaging in job hunting.

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  • Confusion

    2007-8-17

     

    Sometimes , I think everything is possible and life is full of surprises which will come down to u without any prediction.

    Sometimes ,I think something is just impossible to get no matter how much you put the efforts on it .

    I pursue ,I strive ,I happy ,I disappointed ....

    Let the life be it is surpposed to be ....

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  • Reborn

    2007-8-10

     

    突然对自己一直追求的生活产生了怀疑，或许本来就是我错了。

    我不想再这么固执下去了，没有结果的，也许放弃以前，是最好的开始。

    埋葬所有曾经天真的梦想，接受以前我不能接受的。

    我会伤心吗，不知道，梦碎了。。。其他都已不重要。

    reborn a new ME !!!

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  • How to help a friend in need

    2007-8-07

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    (Oprah.com) -- "If there's anything I can do, just let me know." Surely you've said that to someone going through a rough time -- we all have. It's the sort of well-worn, well-meaning phrase that we utter reflexively before hanging up the phone, anxious to do our friendship duty.

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    But here's the thing -- most people in the midst of a crisis can't really get it together to tell you exactly what they need.

    How, do you best help a friend who is having serious difficulties? How do you open a conversation in a sensitive manner? And what should you avoid saying at all costs? We asked the experts -- and some women who have been there.

    How do you help a friend who's seriously ill?

    Psychologist Alice Chang, co-author of A Survivor's Guide to Breast Cancer", says that if a friend is ill but mobile, you should take her out to eat every week or two, because sick people are often isolated.

    If she's housebound, drop off some food, and bring videos and books on tape, because certain treatments impair vision. "Don't overstay your visit," she says. "Acknowledge the illness and ask what the progress is, and then talk about activities of daily living." If she's a close friend, volunteer to do laundry or clean her house, chores she may be unable to do herself.

    And be sensitive to the pendulum swings of her mood. Chang says, "I tell people, 'I know that the feelings are not always rational, because that's how emotions are. But it's okay.'"

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    Don't blurt out that she looks awful, but don't tell her she looks great if it's clearly not true. "Hug the person and say, 'Some days are better than others, and I hope you have more better days,'" says Chang. If her appearance has radically changed -- if she's bald from chemo, for instance -- don't pretend you don't notice. "Instead," Chang recommends, "say, 'You have a nicely shaped head' or 'Isn't it a lot cooler?'"

    Don't say, "I know how you feel." An epileptic patient once told Chang, "If I've heard it once, I've heard it a thousand times -- 'I had a dog with epilepsy, so I know how you feel.'" The truth is, you don't know how your friend feels, so the best approach is to invite her to tell you.

    Want to help a friend who's in an abusive relationship?

    Pam Smieja, a public speaker and educator on domestic violence -- and an abuse survivor herself -- says that above all else, it's important to be a stable presence. A friend who is consistent, reliable, and gentle, even down to her tone of voice, is a profound source of comfort for someone dealing with an abuser's volatile moods.

    If your friend is open with you about her situation, says Merry Arnold, PsyD, a Boston-area therapist who specializes in trauma including domestic abuse, "you can help her plan an escape by getting spare car keys, duplicate I.D., and a stash of cash that she can keep in her car or at your house -- all things she'll need if he locks her out or she has to leave her house in a hurry."

    Call a 24-hour domestic abuse crisis hotline to educate yourself, then give her the number. A hotline can be more helpful than friends or family, says Smieja, because "many volunteers have been abused themselves and understand the fear and pain and chaos." Offer to let her call from your house, where she'll be safer -- and give her privacy while she's on the phone. "She wouldn't want you sitting there listening," Smieja says. "It would be too shameful."

    It's better to give your friend the number of a nearby domestic abuse shelter than a spare key to your house, which could jeopardize your own safety. "The address of the safe house is confidential," Smieja says. "A cop once slipped me the name and number of a shelter. I hid that sucker really well, and that's what I used when I left."

    If you suspect abuse, don't ask an open-ended question like, "What's going on?" Smieja says. "Because she'll lie. I always lied. Gently touch her arm, look her in the eye, and say, 'If you need me, I'm here for you.' That will open a door. Eye contact is very, very important. If she senses you're uncomfortable, she'll never go to you."

    Don't ask why she doesn't just leave. "Living with an abuser is like being in a concentration camp," Smieja says. "There are consequences. My abuser copied my whole address book, waved it in front of me, and said, 'If you leave, somebody will pay.' I knew he was capable of ugly things." Arnold agrees. "The person can leave only when she's ready. Be patient."

    If you'd like to help a friend who's in a financial mess, enjoy each other's company on the cheap, says Liz Perle, author of "Money, a Memoir: Women, Emotions, and Cash." "Take a walk. Get your nails done for 10 bucks. And unless it's her birthday, don't treat her -- that will only make her feel less empowered. Money really is power, and you have to be sensitive to that."

    "Talking about money is the last taboo," Perle says. "It's like talking to teenagers -- never ask a direct question." Get her to open up by discussing your own financial challenges.

    Unless she's a responsible person and faced with an unexpected short-term problem -- say she totaled her car and needs help with the down payment on a new one -- don't loan her money.

    "Money problems are often about something else; if you take over, you may be solving the wrong problem," Perle says.

    "Offer support emotionally and help her find a financial counselor." Avoid hindsight advice like "You should have bought an apartment," says Shana (not her real name) from Burlington, Vermont, who is coping with financial problems after a job loss. "We all look back and know what we could have done better." E-mail to a friend E-mail to a friend

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  • Tired

    2007-7-03

     

    I feel exhausted with my working these days .

    Taugh issues coming one by one .

    Try my best to fix all of problems ,but always some beyond your control .

    That made me down ...

    Feel down with everything around me ,life ,work ,friends ....

    Life is a hard game to play, we gonna lose it anyway ,

    But we still have time to try , to try...

    Trying though without much hope there....

     

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  • The Daffodils 水仙花

    2007-6-28

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    I wander'd lonely as a cloud 我像一朵浮云独自漫游

    That floats on high o'er vales and hills, 飘过深谷群山，

    When all at once I saw a crowd, 突然间，看到一片

    A host of golden daffodils, 无数朵的金色水仙花，

    Beside the lake, beneath the trees, 长在湖畔，长在树下，

    Fluttering and dancing in the breeze. 微风中翩翩起舞。

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    Continuous as the stars that shine 不断地像发光的星斗

    And twinkle on the milky way, 闪烁在银河中，

    They stretch'd in never-ending line 无涯无际地延伸

    Along the margin of a bay: 在海湾之滨；

    Ten thousand saw I at a glance 一瞥间，我看到成千上万的水仙，

    Tossing their heads in sprightly dance. 摇晃着它们的小脑袋快乐地起舞。

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    The waves beside them danced, but they 海水在它们的身旁澎湃，

    Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:--- 但它们比闪耀的海波更为愉快：－

    A poet could not but be gay 诗人不得不由衷欣喜

    In such a jocund company! 在这样愉悦的友伴之中！

    I gazed --- and gazed --- but little thought 我看了又看－可是很少想到

    What wealth the show to me had brought; 这景象带给我多么宝贵的财富；

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    For oft, when on my couch I lie 在心境空虚或沉思之际，

    In vacant or in pensive mood, 我常仰卧在沙发上，

    They flash upon that inward eye 它们掠过我的心灵

    Which is the bliss of solitude; 那是我孤寂中的无上喜乐；

    And then my heart with pleasure fills, 于是，我心充满喜悦，

    And dances with the daffodils. 与水仙共享舞足之乐。

    by William Wordsworth

     

          

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  • 名言警句-逆境篇

    2007-6-28

    Adversity reveals genius; fortune conceals it. (Horace, ancient Roman poet)
    苦难显才华，好运隐天资。(古罗马诗人 贺拉斯)

    Almost any situation---good or bad ---is affected by the attitude we bring to. (Lucius Annaus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher)
    差不多任何一种处境——无论是好是坏——都受到我们对待处境的态度的影响。(古罗马哲学家 西尼加 L A)

    Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it. (Hellen Keller, American writer)
    虽然世界多苦难，但是苦难总是能战胜的(美国作家 海伦·凯勒)

    As fruit needs not only sunshine but cold nights and chilling showers to ripen it, so character needs not only joy but trial and difficulty to mellow it. (Hugh Black, American writer)
    水果不仅需要阳光，也需要凉夜。寒冷的雨水能使其成熟。人的性格陶冶不仅需要欢乐，也需要考验和困难。(美国作家 布莱克 H)

    Everything can be taken from a man but one thing; the freedom to choose his attitude in any given set of circumstances. (Leonhard Frand , German novelist)
    我可以拿走人的任何东西，但有一样东西不行，这就是在特定环境下选择自己的生活态度的自由。(德国小说家 弗兰克 L)

    Every tragedy makes heroes of common people. (Normna Stephens, American writer)
    每场悲剧都会在平凡的人中造就出英雄来。(美国作家 斯蒂芬斯 N)

    He who allows himself to be insulted, deserves to be. (F.C.Comford, British writer)
    自己甘愿受辱的人，受污辱也活该。(英国作家 科福德 F C)

    I find life an exciting business and most exciting when it is lived for others. (Helen Keller,Ameican writer)
    我发现生活是令人激动的事情，尤其是为别人活着时。(美国作家 海伦·凯勒)

    I wept when I was born, and every day shows why.(Jack London, American novelist)
    我一生下来就开始哭泣，而每一天都表明我哭泣的原因。(美国小说家 杰克·伦敦)

    If you want to live your whole life free from pain
    如果你想一生摆脱苦难

    You must become either a god or else a coupes
    你就得是神或者是死尸

    Consider other men's troubles
    想想他人的不幸

    That will comfort yours
    你就能坦然面对人生

    Menander, Ancient Athenian playwriter
    古雅典剧作家 米南德

    In this world there is always danger for those who are afraid of it. (George Bernad Shaw, British dramastist)
    对于害怕危险的人，这个世界上总是 危险的。(英国剧作家 肖伯纳 G)

    It is not true suffering ennobles the character; happiness does that sometimes, but suffering, for the most part, makes men petty and vindictive. (William Somerset Maugham, British novelist)
    说苦难能使人格得到升华，这是不确切的；幸福有时倒能做到这一点，而苦难常会使人心胸狭窄，产生复仇的心理。(英国小说家 毛姆 W S)

    Let us suggest to the person in crisis that he cease concentrating so upon the dangers involved and the difficultie，and concentrate instead upon the opptunity---for there is always opportunity in crisis. (Seebohm Caroline, British physician)
    让我们建议处在危机之中的人：不要把精力如此集中地放在所涉入的危险和困难上，相反而要集中在机会上——因为危机中总是存在着机会。(英国医生 卡罗琳 S)

    Light troubles speak; great troubles keep silent. (Lucius Annaeus Seneneca, Ancient Roman Philosopher)
    小困难，大声叫嚷；大困难，闷声不响。(古罗马哲学家 尼加 L A)

    Mishaps are like knives that either serve us or cut us as we grasp them by the handle or blade.(James Russell Lowell, American poetess and critic)
    灾难就像刀子，握住刀柄就可以为我们服务，拿住刀刃则会割破手。(美国女诗人、批评家 洛威尔 J R)

    No one can degrade us except ourselves; that if we are worthy, no influence can defeat us. (B.T.Washington, American educator)
    除了我们自己以外，没有人能贬低我们。如果我们坚强，就没有什么不良影响能够打败我们。(美国教育家 华盛顿 B T)

    No pain , no palm; no thorns , no throne ; no gall, no glory; no cross, no crown. (William Penn, British admiral)
    没有播种，何来收获；没有辛劳，何来成功；没有磨难，何来荣耀；没有挫折，何来辉煌。(英国海军上将 佩恩 W)

    Optimists always picture themselves accomplishing their goals. (Lucius Anaeus Seneca, Ancient Roman philosopher)
    乐观主义者总是想象自己实现了目标的情景。(古罗马哲学家 西尼加 L A)

    Perhaps you can't control your job, but you may be able to make other changes in your life. (Alan Loy Mcginnis ,British writer)
    或许你不能支配自己的工作，但你能够使生活发生转变。(英国作家 麦金尼斯 A L)

    Prosperity doth best discover vice, but adversity doth discover virtue.
    顺境时显现恶习，逆境时凸现美德

    Rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation. (John Kennedy, American president)
    从希望中得到欢乐，在苦难中保持坚韧。(美国总统 肯尼迪 J)

    Sweet are the uses of adversity.(William Shakspeare,British Playwriter)
    苦尽甘来。(英国剧作家 莎士比亚 W)

    The chinese word for crisis is divided into two characters, one meaning danger and the other meaning opportunity. (Burejer, British writer)
    中文的“危机”分为两个字，一个意味着危险，另外一个意味着机会。(英国作家 布瑞杰)

    The misfortunes hardest to bear are those which never come.(James Russell Lowell, American Poetess and critic)
    最难忍受的不幸是那些从未来临的不幸。(美国女诗人、评论家 洛威尔 J R)

    The more you fight something, the more anxious you become ---the more you're involved in a bad pattern, the more difficult it is to escape. (Seebohm Caroline, British Physician)
    你越是为了解决问题而拼斗，你就越变得急躁——在错误的思路中陷得越深，也越难摆脱痛苦。(英国医生 卡罗琳 S)

    The tragedy of life is not so much what men suffer, but what they miss. (Thomas Carlyle, British essayist and historian)
    生活的悲剧不在于人们受到多少苦，而在于人们错过了什么。(英国散文家、历史学家 卡莱尔 T)

    The very remembrance of my former misfortune proves a new one to me. (Miguel de Cervantes, Spanish writer)
    对于过去不幸的记忆，构成了新不幸。(西班牙作家 塞万提斯 M)

    Tough--minded optimists approach problems with a can-do philosophy and emerge stronger from tragedies. (Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Ancient Roman Philosopher)
    意志坚强的乐观主义者用“世上无难事”人生观来思考问题，越是遭受悲剧打击，越是表现得坚强。(古罗马哲学家 西尼加 L A)

    Trouble is only opportunity in work clothes.(H.J.Kaier, American businessman)
    困难只是穿上工作服的机遇。(美国实业家 凯泽 H J)

    We have all sufficient strength to endure the misfortunes of others. (La Rochefoucauld, French writer)
    我们都有足够的力量来忍受别人的不幸。(法国作家 拉罗什富科)

    We shall defend ourselves to the last breath of man and beast. (William II, King of England)
    只要一息尚存，我们就要为保卫自己而战。(英国皇帝 威廉二世)

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