Among the person around me,there are too few unmarried person. In our heart who have married admire them so much because they can have the exciting dates with opposite sex,or make any choice to be love with them.Of course they are too sumptuous for each person because most of us have them only in the young ages.Of course it may be such a terrible thing to fall in love with another person after marriage.But the person who haven't married I meet on line or in the real life,they shows the terrible feelings about love or be in love with somebody.They all think most of the girls today is quite different from the ones before.They feel tired to seek the girl they love,or they all doubt whether there is still a girl they need to love.With all of these,they don't believe in love and regard the marriage as a mission.Experienced too much communication with opposite sex ,most of person would feel boring enough,in addition,the pressure from their parents and the person around them.I can understand them,I have also experience the nearly familar thing,but I still hope that they could seek their lover patiently,to marry is easy thing,but to get on well with somebody or only love one person forever is difficult.Why do the person always get into the trouble?From one to another one,every day we do so.But to the love,don't take the trouble outside the seige into the seige again.

  It's hard to find the lover in heart.Most of women's heart would be quiet as soon as they marry,even the love for other men would disappear.Yeah,if they always think of other men,how the marriage go on,of course they couldn't be satistied with each other as a result.I think that love can make women much more beautiful,because of the mood of love.This kind of feeling couldn't make one person lache.That there's a person to miss and imagine is a happy thing.But now,I could hardly hold this kind of feeling.He is my special granted,Although we have never met each other in reality,he would be my hapiness all my life.As long as it shows that he is on line,then my heart is sweet,he is always very busy and have many troubles ,bless him all lucky,steady his job.Maybe others couldn't understand my experience,that's because of the time of meeting him.Although some time I think of the scene of sitting face to face with smile on each other's faces by stealth and to be excited when i think of him,at that time,I feel I became more pretty.but now,all would be past little by little.I really want to hold it forever,but a pity thing it only could be.If there is a next lifetime,maybe I would choose my everything renewedly if I could.The present life I should be contented.I don't know whether other marriaged women have the same thinking and such conflicting things in minds.If the youngth years come back,I would try to experience more jobs and meet more many other types of person,then try to experience my real love,maybe the last thing is the same as present one,to marry with a persson who loves me.HeHe,I let my imagination run away again,yeah,it's no wrong to think... 

  These days,I enjoy watching the play<<西游记>>at free time,it's too excellent,it can't be discribed by words.It contained the happiness and excitements of my childhood,too patiently to wait to watch it every day at that time.I like all the roles in it,the past actors are so great and act so lifelikely,nothing to nit-pick,it's my childhood's fairy tale.The actors in it are so suitable except the change of Tangceng,all of us knew that the first Tangceng was the best,not only the appearance but also the behavīor.The women actors are so beatiful and the dressing up is nothing to find fault,Passing Interestingly the Daughers' Kingdom is my favourite part,to feel deeply of the king's love to Tangceng is so nice,and the affection is acted so true,the king of daughters' is real beauty in my heart,garceful behavīor and classical swellish face,lovely character,Yeah,so nice girl,no one can be stopped to fall in love with her,even if a monk.When I was watching it in the childhood,I was so nervous and much hope that they could get together, but at last,only disappointement left,to drop tears for them...,just a story,not true,hehe,I heard that this writing is going to retake,no,don't lay waste to our classical writing,it's so funny if it is played by so many blundering people,yeah,the aim of them is for money.

  Love is so strange that it won't always appear while we are seeking it hard,on contrary,it would emerge by accident.The love found painstakingly is not true love,that's called operating love,Maybe someone possibly won't meet his love all his life,nowadays love is filled with many other scattered things,how to distinguish it,It's a trouble in mind. We are always enamored with the love we are designed by ourselves,we are living in earthbound existence. To hurt the other side or make sullenness with him is not real love, Love is placid,no complain,no demands and no war between both,only paying out,even once both have contradiction,each of them would think much for the other side stilly.ask themselves why they would do those?the answer is "no reason,his or her happy is my happy and all of mine".Love is our dream and pure thing just like the blood relation between our parents and us in our life,we like to look for and chase it,in the western countries,all of the people place a premium on love and romantic,they think love so sacred because of its infrequency and difficult to possess.Keep a pure thinking to love,it's so great,even sometimes more than blood relation,perhaps they are always only from legends,but it is supernatural all along.........

 
  ~Where are you,there's going to be a temperature reduction,Will you feel cold?
  ~Then have a break,my dear,XX,I love you.
  ~I have just seen your message,just reached office,missing you too,wanna to hug you and give you all.
  ~There is really a connection between our both hearts,baby,I love you.
  ~You always asked me about this,whether you are not willing to part with me?
  ~Then marry me,ok?
  ~I have no others to be love with,no suitable one,would you like to marry me?
  ~I had a swim with colleagues,miss you.
  ~What are you doing? miss you.
  ~Why did you have bath at this moment?must be very comfortable?to hug you,OK?
  ~Go out for a stroll,baby,I love you.
  ~Having your pure-hearted love,I have already owed you a debt of gratitude.
  ~I love you!
  ~I am ready to have a bath,what are you doing?
  ~There're no drills these days,hug you and sleep,OK?
  ~I am tired,hug you and have a sleep,OK?
  ~I love you,XX
  ~There's only you in my heart,wanna to hug you.
  ~Why did you talk nonsense again?Have you had meal?I am cooking noodles.
  ~I can feel that.
  ~There's no thanks in love,my noodles are delicious.
  ~I love you ,too,so I am sad,the taste of loving each other and can't be together feels unwell.
 

I can  feel the her jumpy mood~~~~~~~~~~

  To lead my hands by the arm and go the farthest places where we can reach,we must be together no matter alive or death.To watch sea and confide to each other,you hug me in warm arms.Nothing can effect our life and thoughts,to keep separate from all other secular, only we both,staring at each other with deep eyes,only like to listen to your sweet words.Sometimes miss you too much to cry,then you can sense my miss,call me to express that you are thinking of me too.When we face any difficulty,we always say to each other:Never mind,there is me to stay with you forever.When thinking of you,there's always a little quiet smile on my face,when you miss me,you would call me and tell me or leave me message note.Once losing you,i would never think of marrying again,you have the same idea,too.In your eyes,nobody can replace me,and nobody can compare with you in my heart.

1，You can love a man,but forget not to drop into all of yours.

2,When a boy tells you that he loves you, believe him,if one day he says that he doesn't love you,please believe him too.It's a lucky thing that a person who doesn't love you will be part from you.

3,Never to get into a fight with a man,the first,you can't win,the second is the man who is fighting with you must be a madman.So not to touch is better.

4,If you fall into love with someone,if all are allowed,tell him,maybe there's no answer and no reply,but at least you have had a try.Having tried,then no rue at all in the future.(maybe he would regret,hehe).

5,To be a clever girl from the very beginning,don't ask him whether he misses you,loves you or not?If he misses you and loves you,then he would tell you naturally.Once the words out from your mouth,then he would be very proud and not to care about you.

6,Anytime,not to sad for a man who has changed his heart,all the girls must know that sadiness--the sadiness at last is to your own heart.If that man is heartless,then it can't hurt his heart,so put away your sadiness,live well.

7,When a man tells you :"Let's part"!Please not to drop tears and weep,you should tell him with a smile :It's a long time to wait for your such words,then walk away!

8,If it is possible,try to grow long hair.All know that short hair is easy to comb,but still lack of effeminacy--the sense of woman.
These sentences are not from me,I saw it some where,I think they are right way of doing things for a woman.So have translated them.

  I always think if everyone should have their love at their different ages and period.It's sure it's their secret,deep in their heart.To women,love is too important,no love in their heart,they would be easy to become older,that's the reason why some women appear so spiritless.But love is a difficult thing,hard to find and hard to deal with,some can be touched,some can not.

  To a woman,to find a person who loves her more than her love to the other side is better,once she comes across some pain outside ,she still can go into the hiding of him,even if nothing belongs to her one day in the world,she still has a person who loves her with all his heart,and still have warm nothing can compared with.Oppositely ,if she finds her favourite love ,but he loves her too little,then a loss of identity fills in all her life,she must have the mental preparation to be thrown over,all the strong passion would be past,when u want to have the last warm and ascrīption,but nothing belongs to u.After all ,woman is woman.they are always weaker and easier to be hurt at love.then she should reguard him a common friend or say goodbye to him.Don't make yourself be hurt too much,leave ur heart to the worth man u  meet later.

  To a man ,he should wait for his lover patiently,men is the kind which can't be satisfied very often.If he marries a person he loves too little,then what will happen in the later days? in their heart,always say:I like so i do.He completely can make a girl fall in love with him.With many girls around ,it's certain one of them can understand u so well and accompany u all life.A man's chasing can make a woman love him more than anything, but to a woman ,her chasing can never change a man too  much.

  Loving is much more tired than being loved,i think the love in the real life and in unreal life are the same.Not everyone can possess their favourite lover in the proper time. So if u are lucky,then treasure it well,wish u have a nice future. 

I believe only one true love in each life.But it's lucky to possess it in the right time and if charge well then  can have the happiest life.Love is faint concept and full of mystery.

Would ideal lover appear in life,nobody couldn't tell.When i was so excited at finding a way to improve my english,which was chatting on line in english and last year i was still in the troubles of learning english ways ,I met him on line.I felt the special feeling of him,and when he said love to me first,i was sure he was just like my ideal lover in my heart.I was so surprised that i would fall into love with a person no line.Maybe the special period of losing my father or he match up to my ideal lover so much,but i can't sure.Miss him too much everyday,i can't leave computer everyday,wait for him.I know it was a wrong done for me, i can't control myself for some time,i don't know if others would have the same experience.but the feeling is so clear.I have got into a nice visional world.Because of i have never paid too much to a man.I even thought that  i was in love with him wrongly and had a little angry with him and misunderstood him by his careless to me ,to compare him caring to me with my firstlove.sometimes.

Maybe the saddest period of that,I made dependence on him little by little.He is single,but i know that i have nothing to give him,because we met in not right time.Everybody won't live only for theirselves,then so much pity in the world.Maybe we can meet one day ,Maybe in a short time,or at that time he has a happy family or we are old .but i really eager to have a look at him just as common friend.There's a visional wall in front of me to make  me lose the courage.

I hope we can be forever friends  in transience or in reality,don't think of future too much,everyone can't charge it.Now i have adjusted my mind-set,it became a quiet feeling in my heart.Maybe the feeling to him would keep all my life.I treasure it until he don't regard me as a friend. Because ideal lovers need love each other.For nowadays people,my idea would maybe sound strange,because ture things are too few ,They want to taste excitement and satisfition only.So bored they are and they would lose more.Although my love were always at improper time,maybe there is ideal lover only in the visional world.But i still think i am lucky to meet my ideal lover,because not all the peole can have it and i don't want to let it be mixed like other dirty feeling.pray good luck for him.

 

Perfect love

Love needn't live together forever,but living in each other's heart.

Love which is easy to forget won't be true love.

Love is the most difficult thing to take away.

Love must be proved by time ,it has its own life too.

Love is simply a kind of feeling.It's wrong to expect too much from love,or u would be disappointed.Feeling is so magic,that is enough.