Men can be divided into two types:one is open-minded,the other is narrow-minded.But actually no matter which type he is,it's certain that he has his definite nice things.

The open-minded man can give you a big limit,you feel swimming in the sea or flying in the sky,and you can confide anything to him,he won't angry at you forever,just say :Never mind and nothing.After relaxing so much before him for long time,even you will ignore he is also possible to angry or unhappy.You can say aloud anything you like without thinking about him.Yeah,he never lets you think too much on him or makes you unhappy.He is so lovely and always keeps a smiling face.

The narrow-minded man is opposite.At the beginning of getting along,you may be careless at speaking and doing with him because you think he is a man who won't care much about tiny things.Yeah,from outside,he is no difference from others.But maybe one day through a tiny thing,you will change your ways of doing things with him,even you will pay more attention to the words you say to him.

This spring,I began to plant flowers in order to purify the air in the new house.However,I didn't tell my buying house to any colleagues in our office except four good friends,because I hate to send or receive money for exchange.

Once,I was so excited to find some green flowers outside teaching building.I disbranched one and planed to plant.Going back to office,one manteacher asked me for it,I said"no"with smile and explained how I was hard to get it,because of it,I cut my forehead on muricated flowers.He smiled and walked away,maybe he just wanted to make jokes.Some time later,another manteacher came up to me who is the same age as that teacher asked me for it,too.And I also smiled and refused him.But he didn't know someone had tried to ask me for it and was refused by me.He didn't appear unhappy at that moment, either.But in the later days,I found he was unhappy with me.Oh,little brother he is,so easy to be unhappy,just like a girl.In fact,he has always given me a good pression really,the best pression in all menteachers.

Since then,I tried to explain to him that I didn't give him that flower because XX had already asked me for it once and was refused by me,XX was just sitting in front of him when he asked for it.If I gave him instead of XX,XX would be hurt.Then he said:"But hurt me."

In fact,he is very a lovely guy with a short body.Because of his narrow -minded,more lovely he is.He can angry at anytime.yeah, he really looks like a child.Although,at the end of this term,I wanted to send it to him by stealthy,but he refused.Until now,I don't know whether he is still a bit angry with me or not,actually,I really didn't know he would be unhappy.Sorry.

Hope he won't be unhappy when he recalls this thing.

Staying alone is one of my ways of relaxing,think nothing,I like this kind of feeling.Before marriage,I have ever thought of how it would be if I didn't marry all my life,at that time,I couldn't get a certain answer for myself, willing but a bit afraid.

Now I have my answer now,it's that staying alone just can be the act of ephemeral and can't last long time.After busyness,to relax by staying alone by stealth.Everything is so quite,forget all worries,sometimes I feel it seems to separated from the earthliness.Maybe I am a person who likes tranquility.

Human-being can't be lonely forever.They need the same type to accompany and confide to each other,or all the thoughts of ours will change,even we ourselves can't realise ourselves one day.In fact,we each person are afraid of lonely so much,and I believe that we will be strong enough in heart if lonely isn't our enemy.Yeah,a man can suffer tiredness,but can't suffer too much lonely.Just as couples around us,most of them build their life on emotional beggar.If you ask them what the love is,I think they can't say out the feeling of love at all,just to say:couple is just to live together, solve problem together and become older and older slowly.

It's a simple answer,but that is the real life.Maybe it is the real happiness,some people think them boring and no happiness they have got,so then prefer to give up and try others.But looking back,everything has the same rule and discipline,that is to go back placidity.