The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
  • Bosom friend

    2008-07-22 20:32:52

    Many people have ever told me they want a real bosom friend,I think the same,too.Nice life would be more meanful due to a pure friendship.

    But to be distressful,the feeling between friends would be changed because of the distance of getting on.It is certain it's hard to find a bosom friend in real life,and harder to do in a visional world.In common life.We need good faith to deal with others,while we needn't any sincere to get in return from others.In life,we often do things very carefully to please others or leave a good pression to others. Some people only want to have a best friend to comfort each others when they are in pains.Making other superficial friends is just for fun and a good mood in a nice interpersonal relationship.Yeah,a person can't tell his pains to too many people,or he would be hurt one day.So the only person who can tell his trouble and enjoyments to you is so rare,and you would exchange yours, too, to sublumate your friendship.

    But can we confide our anything inward world to the other side?The answer is "We won't and wouldn't like to do that."Everyone will has his or her rest self-hide secrets and never tell others,even all his life.So we needn't feel ashamed while the other side tells you so much more than you have told him.On the other hand,after we confide anything of ours,what will the result of friendship be?Will it be the nicest and eternal emotion?The answer is "no",too.

    Keeping our distance is the best for our friendship,not only the distance of our body,but also our psychologic.We can't put the friendship between us to the top,or feeling landslide is bitter.

    So bosom friend is so untouble,it would change following the distance between us,the time of both getting on and the change of external environment.It always exists in a very short time and in a quite far space.Just like love,very short and precious.So we should hold such a mind-set:As long as experienced,it is enough.

    In fact,lots of nice emotion on earth is so except blood relation.

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