The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
The people in the seventies
2008-01-20 11:27:44 / 个人分类：My thoughts
I often hear about the words “80后”，so I want to talk something about us the people in the seventies.We inherit the most traditional thoughts just as the ones in the sixties.Also,we are possessed of some new thoughts and melttles from 80s.The people on the seventies have much excellent feather on them.They have not only many responsibilies,but also a rich and active imagination.So it forms many conflicting philosophies.Their thoughts and actions are easily entangled together.They are neither traditional like 60s nor big-hearted like 80s.For they were educated by cultural traditions,they hardly could take the first step against traditions.Face their own marriage,they prefer to adopt a counsel that most of things must be for their kids,even if they are in a terrible situation.Two sides each thing must have,one is responsibily,the other is sorriness.But when they think of their lovely kids,they would feel all what they are doing are worth.But it's true that each kid now needs most the love from their parents in the world.They expects the warmth from his family.Once he loses these,all of his living attitudes would be changed,not by himself.Maybe there won't be real smiles from his heart with age because of our total society of our country.I always think that divorcement become a very common thing everywhere,maybe those kids won't be discriminated against or be hurt so much in present society.Only themselves can sense its pains instead of others,anything would touch him on a tender spot.How could he face the lack from his parents or the god in life.
While love is anywhere or anytime, the people in the seventies,most of us have married already,could it be that we are already in vacuum life?The next life is long,we would come across many people,need we have some contrasekual friends?It is a complex problem to the people in the sevenies.I think that each man and woman all have a very simple thought on this,the people who they want to communicate with must be their favoured.Suppose if the man i feel him so so,even if I neither like nor dislike him,I have no thought of making friends or communicating with him at all.So frank and utilitarian I am.But once interested in someone,eager to communicate with him,how to deal with the affection.In a word,living on the Earth is really a complex thing,yeah,the most complex thing on the Earth is living.But it is not life itself making us complicated but ourselves.
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Monica1981
发布于2008-01-20 23:44:07
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could you divide your articles into several parts so that we can read easily.
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also agree
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Monica1981
发布于2008-01-20 23:43:06
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it is not life itself making us complicated but ourselves.
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agree
