The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
Nativity
2008-03-04 12:49:18 / 个人分类：My thoughts
However,since I am as a mother,I have never thought of me great with giving birth to my son.Sometimes I feel I am a bit selfish for giving my son' life without his any admissions.So I decide not to require my son to thank me or demand anything for me forever.For a long time,life will be regarded as the nicest thing, so most of person will ask his or her kids to thank their mothers all their life.However,not each mother gives a birth to her baby all out of loving babies.In our China,having babies are out of many different kinds of reasons.Even some people are just for their affairs of living well in old ages.Some prefer to have a son just for present honor.Some are just for others have kids,they can't suffer the strange visions and different situations. There is a kind of feeling I can express them out in my heart.To live on the Earth and to no birth to us at the very beginning,which one is better?
I am thirty now,from all my experiences I have.Now my answer is the second thing.If my mother hadn't given me a life,maybe I were air or one granded dust on Earth,no pains,no difficults,no fearness,no depressions,no sadness,no disappoints....In a word,feeling nothing at all.If someone asks me why I don't think something good and nice about life?But the terrible things and the happy things,which one on earth would we get more in long lifetime?I think it should be the first one.
But this being the case,we are living in the world,no way to complain!Just try to live happier.Try to make more joys then sadness.
If someone asks me about these, no brith to me at the very beginning is the best for me.
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Hurricane
发布于2008-03-05 18:25:31
- It sounds you are not born happy, and you are taking pains to live more happily! To tell you the truth, although we human being suffer from difficulties,sadness and things like these, I still believe owning sth. is much better than having nothing! Being a dust, that is terrible. You said you are thirty, and you got your conclusion through your 30-year life experiences! My god, i have to say, you are childish on this point!