The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
busy days.
2008-03-11 19:44:43 / 个人分类：My life
These days,I could hardly have time to update my blog.In fact,I think of it all the time.Because it has already become a part of my life.Today should have been a happy day for me,but it is a sad day for two of my friends.You can't imagine that they both even cried at office.One is because of her tiny family affairs,the other one is because of the students' rudeness.
This morning,we were seated quietly in each chair and chat with each other happily in the office.Even laughed a lot by making jokes on each other.But a telephone changed all the atmosphere.One of my friends recieved a call from her family which infuriated her much.But who can explain the family affairs clearly,especially the affairs between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In fact,she is a very kind-hearted woman but a little weak who could live with her mother-in-law and father-in-law together for several years.This is really few.The reason of living together is not that they have no enough houses,oppositely,they both have their own house.The problem is her mother-in-law can't leave her grandson for she has taken care of her grandson at all times from beginning.Moreover,she is a terrible woman who has a bad temper and strange nature.
I am so sorry for her situation,but have no idea to help her,of course,all of women teachers advised her to separate from them and make themselves live alone.But she said that she had no ways to achieve it,because her husband and her father-in-law maintain her mother-in-law too much.
I am so worried when I heard this.Why didn't her husband maintain his wife more?Originally,she is in weak health caused by angry now.And when she was in angry,I found her trembling.While sad moment,she crying said she wanted to divorce,and everyday she didn't want to go back home,the happier thing was to work at school environment.I know she is a quite good woman,maybe she has better moral quality than any other one in our office.But maybe it is also her biggest weak point,also,she has no dinifite ideas.
In fact,nobody can help her but herself,to be wide-hearted and strong.She should also be inpendente to do anything.In addition,she cares about others' views and comments too much.
Sometimes I also conflict whether I should care much or not.At last,let it be.There is no real right or wrong thing,only many boring comments from other mouths.We can't sure which words are true or untrue at all,especially in our China,a place full of quite different comments.
Of course,the most complicated things are from family,blood affections with rights and wrongs of cases.
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