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The Chinese people with the cover on.
2008-03-15 12:25:56 / 个人分类：My thoughts
When I was in school,once I watched a play called A Person Who is With the Cover On.It impressed me a lot.With 30 years' life,I have found the Chinese people are really just like the role in the play,maybe including myself as well.
Especially in some town or village,the people's ways of living can't be imagined by others living outside.Most people there always follow the ways of others' living around them. Once they strayed from others, they must feel upset just like losing the certre of gravity.
Some examples below:
Seeing others' early marriage.I should marry early,or no better one left for me when I am older.
Seeing others' baby's born.I should have one,too.Because if having no baby for a long time,would others think something wrong with me?
Seeing others' son's born.Why didn't I have a son as well to carry on the Stewart time?Moreover,if I had a son,then I would have a dependence on my son when I am at old age.
Those are very funny examples,but they indeed appears in the town and villages.I am not living in the big city,I can guess there wouldn't be so traditional and absurb.I sometimes think them too foolish,even look down on them who keep these thinkings.
One of my younger sisters from my uncles' families married at her very early age,and she now is living near the town.Can you imagine that she has ever abortted for three times just for one son.In fact,she already has a 3- year-old daughter now.This year,she is just 26.
I have another younger sister from my uncle.She has a quite different situation.She is working hard in Beijing,now she is 27 without boyfriend yet.Of course at the beginning she began to enter the big city alone with some dreams in her heart,although most of things not only her job but also her marriage hasn't stabilized yet so far.She sometimes told me that she didn't know whether to continue her such a life.But I always encouraged her, at least there is hope and target in her heart to chase.I think she will be lucky in the future.These two ways of living,I prefer the second one.Although she always have to face many troubles and pressures from her family or surroundings,for she has nothing steady now.
In addtion:
If having a son just for a dependence or a honor,however killed two poor babies in belly.How would he treat his parents when he came into this world and after grown-up?When he think of his coming just for his parents' dependence or a honor,how would he think of that?So terrible!
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