The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
Usually,something fitting you isn't your favoured of that kind.
2008-03-21 18:45:23 / 个人分类：My life
Something fitting you is usually your favoured of that kind.It is so appropriate on me.Everybody can't lack of partners to live together,such as,wife,husband,kids and friends.I am living with them everyday even every minute,my life hours are made up of them.
At the very beginning,the other part of living(husband)can be chosen by myself.In everyone's heart has a picture of his or her appearance will be.Me too.But It is very hard to reach because I had hardly no chance to meet the kind I like.Even if I met one day,I also had no confidence to get on well with each other.
Of course,the style I prefer will be a bit similar with me.I can say here that the two person are hard to keep longer well if they have the same character,while the same thoughts are quite important.At many parts of fact,my husband and I are opposite in character,while I can't deny some similar points exist on us.
However,we can live with each other very well without contradictions.In fact,sometimes I know he is not that type of man I like.But why I feel so relaxed and comfortable being with him really confuses me.
I attempt to imagine how the life is if living with the man of that type I like.Maybe better than now as well,hehe,untried of that.
The person working with are so many arond me.Everybody has a standard to choose some to be their friends.Or I can say there's no a definite standard on choosing friends,just happy is OK.I have such a thinking,but turn back to see,the few friends I have ever been with for long time are all opposite to my favoured kind.
I feel very strange,the kind I like is quiet,pretty,short-spoken and the type of individuality.But my friends I longtime to be with are not,they are all outer-directed,speechful and meretricious.Yeah,one reason is that I have the same ourter-directed character maybe wider than them in deep heart indeed.I am a person whose true character is out of appearance.Of course,I feel happy with them,but sometimes I feel them so noisy.
I usually think whether I haven't met the ones whose characters my favoured as well as happy to be with.
Or I can say that is a certain rule on the Earth:Something fitting you is usually not your favoured of that kind and also hard to get on well with.
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haihaibs
发布于2008-03-22 21:59:36
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Yep, in fact, most people have the same feeling with yours, so do I.
the girl comes up to me, but not the one I dream of.
I once said, you get what you don't want and lose what you want. You know, something bad once happened to me, I felt so doleful at a time.
However, what we do is to adapt yourselve to new situations. Dear sister. good luck----to---you.