The diaries for myself,who is a small woman with many small secrets and a big-heart.
Different parties.
2008-03-29 15:30:52 / 个人分类：My thoughts
Nowadays,many Chinese people desire the life outside their country,especially go to the western countries.It really becomes lots of people's dream and so hard to reach.
Our China is Communist Party,while those developed countries are democratic.In the face of those two political parties.Different people have differents thoughts on them.
In fact,those two political parties both have their own advantages and disadvantages,just like all of things on the earth with two sides.
If one person really yearns towards to have an open living environment,not only at sexuality but also thoughts on things.He must eager to live in the western country.Of course ,there living conditions and chances of getting jobs are so many.Living there,there's no need to thinking much how others think.There,no real strange things in people hearts,only fresh,irritative and obtaining enjoyment.In those countries,the human rights are emphasized aloud everyday,each person pays attention to their real feeling and the living way of being themselves.Maybe it would feel a bit cold between individuals emotions.
However in China,so many traditions effect our lives.If we want to be a so called "kind-person",so many loath things need to do and do anything so carefully.There are the aged above and little kid below us,this situation should take up the longest period in whole life for us.The happiness of people is so weak in our China.As it is,not because of Chinese people's frailness,frailness is the same on all humans in the world,oppositely, just because too many traditions and public opinions around us in life would make us can't breath in China.
With age,the things are more fussy and more misunderstood by me.That is the "Mendacious Social Relationship",Yeah,China is regarded as one of countries with most emotions between individuals,for it has such a long history.For years,big families appeared with lots of relatives full of affections. Now,there will be less and less big families,but the tradions have been handed down.In this case,so many cacoethic affairs are seen everywhere.
For example,giving money as returns and presents is a serious thing in life.Of course,marriage is exciting and the happiest time to let people keep it in memory,we like to enter such a nice atmosphere and send in our best wishes and "money" to as our presents.But if in the face of moving house,one's death,kid's entering college and visiting patient,we also need to give money.How do you think of if?You may say that we can buy some flowers and other ture presents to send to the other side.If that's the case,others would see you as a strange person or think whether we are sick?
All the interpersonal relationships need money to maintain.That is one reason why leaders here are so easy to get rich.Haha,If only his mother's death,it will bring him a large amount of fortune.This is the real social phenomenon.
For most of ordinary people's come-and-go dealing things in life,who will obtain the most benefit at last?That is restaurant,yeah,Most of he money received would be sent to the restaurants for a big meal together.That is why restaurant here is so prosperous.Yeah,there is only one or two person who don't do the same things as other doing in our school.Of course,it brought them lots of bad comments and lost good interpersonal relationship.What world is this?Yeah,that is caused by Chinese full of human emotions.
China is full of human emotions,could it be those mendacious emotions?Simply because of those mendacious emotions,bringing us so many worriments.There are many people being in the trouble of money strain caused by such things in life and complain much everyday.
Maybe nobody can spring it these years yet.Such affairs are becoming more and more serious at present.
The people in western country would laugh at us if after watching this and feel us so funny.Yeah,it is truely funny indeed.All of the people are trying to do the things which would make others speak highly of them.Yeah,only live for others.So lamentable!
Try thinking first what I do it for before you do something.Then you find that you are not you yourself.Are the things you really want to do?
But I can say that not all the things done mendaciously by us are for our own benefits and honors,some are for our family's nowadays life and the future.So that is our Chinese people who have much responsibilities.Yeah,not only laws limite our behaviours,the traditions do a lot to us as well.So When we do things,we always think for others first more or less.That is also Communist Party's calling for.
Domocratic Party more calls for the individual's feeling and rights.
Therefor,I can't say which is better between Communist Party and Democratic Party.Yeah,there are too many things we can't explain clearly.
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Monica1981
发布于2008-03-31 22:09:36
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God, Anna, you need a good lesson on the world politics...
If you feel tired and restained in social life, I think it is more to do with your culture and tradition...not with your country's political status.
Not all developed countries are democratic....e.g. Singpore, they are just very lucky to have a good leader who is not corrupted as the CCP.
In most western countries, most have 2 main parties: capitalist (represent all the emloyers and the rich)and communist (represent the employees and the poor)...
In different countries, they are called different names..
in NZ, communist is called Labour Party and capitalist is called National Party...while in USA, Communist is called Democrats and Capitalist is called Republican...
Of course, there are also other small parties but their members are not as many as the two main ones such as Green Party, Maori Party, Industrial Party in NZ...
Tradition has nothing to do with the political status...for example, Japanese have more complicated social relationship than you guys but they are a democratic country...
Most Asian cultures are similiar....inter-relationship is more important than your personal choice...
Well, If you don't like it, don't do it... what is the point that you live all your life to keep others happy except yourself ?!?