Do things having two strings to one's bow.

We all have so many small dreams in each of our steps in life.Success can give us happiness,failure makes us get into a deep chasm without ways to get out for a long time.In the face of some tiny failures in life,each of us can accept them very easily,the most serious is only to bring us some bad mood for several days.

Our life is just like a big bet which is made up of lots of little ones.When we put too many expectations into one thing,thinking and worrying about it for hoping its success day and night.But most of thoughts of ours are mainly connected with dream's coming true instead of failing.Therefore,when facing failing,they can't control their unbalanced mental.Some of them would change former lifestyle to another more decadent one,or maybe worse.

But why don't we have two strings to one's bow,to be ready to welcome two results,one is failure first,the other one is success.While we are ready to be strong enough to take a beating,then we can pursue justice with no turning back.In order not to be hurt much,we should learn to protect ourselves,the most important thing is to be strong in heart as same as the ability of anti-hitting in heart. We should start to do a thing after we are sure to afford its failure,or we had better not.

Yeah,nothing is changeless in life,try to adapt ourselves to anything sudden or bad and accept them.Imagining that when the door before us is closed,then you should try to find another a window to try opening it.Yeah,maybe inside that window is more beautiful.Meanwhile, you would have more challenge to be better and obtain more happiness in the later time.I am sure that everyone would find new themselves.

Yeah,remember this good sentence:No pain,no gain.