The China Post Dongguan Branch held an evening in our company last night for the purpose of recommending us to send moon cake to our family via Post Service.

I was attracted by the evening and gave my warm applause when the male singer was singing songs of A Shin, a very popular singer I appreciate, after he sang the song of Goodbye Song (I am not sure whether the Chinese song Li Ge can be called as Goodbye Song in English), I was strongly moved by the sing words and his performance, at that very moment, I recalled a lot of things and thought we shall try to return our parents.

Despite my beloved parents asked me not to send any presents to them every time they received from me, I still picked a box of moon cake for them.

I was much satisfied with my action although I knew my mom would complain to me about this again, but I thought they would be happy anyway.

Our parents are getting elder when we are growing up, also they need the care and love from us as we did when we were the children, so please try to express our gratitude to them not only on the Mother’s Day, Father’s Day or Thanksgiving Day but also every day in our lives.

Life is short and weak, so cherish it and treasure every day spending with our family members.

Hope all a happy life.

Some of my female friends keep asking me to be softer because as far as they are concerned, men prefer to fall in love with soft women, but I do not agree with that opinion, softness does not mean all although it is popular and heartwarming.

As we all know, nowadays, men are burdening too much pressure from all over the society, standing on their pointview, they had better marry the one who can help them to accomplish other things except doing the housework.

Also, I think a man who lives with such a woman is the greatest gift he got from the God who can perfectly deal with all things regarding the family and their jobs, an admirable match is the one who can not share the happiness but also undergo the hardship. 

Hence, in my opinion, soft women are popular but the smart, considerate ones also can be pursued by the excellent men.

Hey, men, am I right?

Per a friend's recommendation, I watched the Chinese TV series called the New Marriage Age.
I do think it is a perfectly wonderful Chinese TV series since it is very close to life, to the marriage in real life, here I recommend it to everyone.

Hope you enjoy it too and have a perfect marriage with your beloved. 

For love, I think it is a little bit difficult for those to fall in love full-hearted again who ever loved and being loved heart and soul, especially when the latter ones he/she meets are so not excellent as the former ones.

I have loved a brilliant man with all my passion but at last we broke up by a soft way due to different viewpoints and orientation toward life and love, he is my first boyfriend.

My current boyfriend has been in my back and for sure he comforted me gently and frequently during the days I was down for break up with my first boyfriend, I felt warm and thought I still could live a shining life without my first boy because I have been loved by another one.

So when my current boy asked me whether I would like to be his girlfriend on the Christmas Night, I agreed yes and reminded of myself that I must remove my first boy from both my mind and heart.

But now I am doubting whether my current boy is the most proper one to me after I answered his phone call under a blue mood which he did not notice during the chatting. I have been thinking that love can make somebody changed for him/her, and the couple can feel the mood status of each other at any time, but he failed to understand me well sometimes, and to my own astonishment, it is my first boy’s  image appears in my mind and I cannot keep missing him when I am down or need help, here I think for everyone the first lover had better not be so good and impressive, otherwise, it will be a big appointment till you meet a better one.

True or false, try to experience it honestly.

Life is like having a cup of tea,

You sit by the side of the window, lift the cup and take a careless sip, only to realize somebody forget to put the sugar,

Too lazy to go for it, you somehow struggle through the sugarless cup until you discover un-dissolved sugar crystal sitting at the bottom.

That's life, do you agree with me? :)

Today is the first day of year 2008, I made a wish when it comed, I sincerely hope it will come true as soon as possible.

Year 2008 is also my animal year, may everything go smoothly and perfectly around me and my families.

Here, I wish everyone good luck and a prosperous year.

Let's enjoy our lives to the full with our beloveds.

(^_^)

Last Sunday I watched a wonderful Switzerland movie called 想飛的鋼琴少年, I think it is a movie worthy reading especially for the parents, after u finished watching it, I bet u will begin to think and understand how to well guide & educate the smart child.

The little male leading role Vitus is a truly intelligent boy, he has a very amazing logic in thinking, he established a stock company when he was 12-year old and it saved his father’s company, but at first his parents were eager to make him become a famous pianist and forced him to play the piano through his childhood.

In most cases, intelligent couple could have an intelligent child and thus the parents are very eager to train their kid to be the type they expect although they know to some extent such specific hope is against the child’s hobby or interest, but they still insist on doing so per their own will.

As we all know, interest is the best teacher for a person, so as the parents, just let your kid’s interest be and do not impose too much high personal expectations on him, the child needs his own freedom to expand his specialties, what u should do is just to give him the proper love and support.

A long time no writing essays here due to bad mood and depression these days.

Last Sunday I watched a truly touching movie called Nuan Chun(暖春), it made me weep several times when I was watching it, here I recommend it to u, watch it when u pick up movies to watch, I bet u would be moved too.

Regards to all.

In my last 2^nd essay called Down Am I, I wrote the source of my blue mood these days due to I did not have my longing laptop.

Now I am in high spirits since yesterday I bought a laptop from my local Computer Mall which made me accomplish one of my dreams.

I picked up the item#A8Jr A8h52Jr-SL from the ASUS brand specialty store, I love it very much although my favorite laptop brand is Dell but it is not available in the local Computer Mall.

Here I can write, watch whatever I prefer whenever, what a fantastic thing for me, do u think so, guy?

Maybe Close The Door Behind You is just a common behavīor in USA while it is not so popularized in China, so that’s why we Chinese were regarded as not so gentle when we were in USA, who should be responsible for this, the individual or our whole country?

I met 2 of my former colleagues when i picked up commodities in the supermarket last night.

1 of 2 shouted at me:" Oh, Great Heavens, is that you, Connie"?

I replied Yes.

Later, I got the answers why they were so astonished when seeing me through our short talk:

I looked much more gaunter and even a little blue, it could not be the vigorous one they were familiar with, furthermore, my skin was rough and black that made me look older than my auctural age.

......

My Great God, is that so? Are they right? I thought this carefullly back to my room.

There, I think staying up is the first rival to girls' youth and beauty through my staying up schedule since I was used to sleep nearly at 1AM and thus bad sleep makes bad skin, then we should pay more attention to our diet although we have a very rush meal time. Abnormal diet could make a person dull.

So, guys, stop staying up and care your diet from now on. Let's be cute and vigorous ! 

A little excited to register an account here, I am a newbie in this aspect, so everyone reading my such log is quite qualified to be my teacher. Thanks for your help in advance.

I will put my English logs here AFAIC.

Best wishes,

Connie Zeng