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I havn't written anything for a long time. It is very busy these days.I have been back to school for almost 20 days. During these days, I mainly revised the thesis, for my thesis was chosen to anonymous peer review. I have to stay in school and make a good preparation for it.

Now, it is all finished. the demanding thing I should do is hunting for jobs.

 

Today,I am informed to take the written test of KPMG. It is a good news,But I cant cheer up, for I have to relay my date to go home.I have bought the ticket of tomorrow.Now I have to give up this idea.I really want to go home.

It is difficult to find a suitable jobs.In those days, I took part in many campus recruitment and campus speech.The hall is always full of students. It can well imagined that how many students there are and how fierce the competition is. Sometimes, I felt frustrated. I have applied many positons,but have few response.

What made me a little happy was that Yang has participated in the interview of Baidu. He passed the written test and had two interviews with Baidu. We are not sure if there is good news for us. If he is recruited, we planned to have a travelling to Hainan. Hope is just hope. We all know it is very difficult to be recruited after all.

Hunting jobs is a very painful and exhausting process. I hope we have good results. Life is not easy.

Some days before, I am a bit of depressed and disoriented. Now, I feel better. Maybe each of us have a period of depression and adjustment.I should appreciate all those encourage me and give me power.

Yesterday, My roomate's father called her and asked her find a job in Nanchang.He was worried about her daughter and inquired about her jobs around.It is unavoidable that he was worried about it. His daughter, my roomate, came to Shanghai for about two months and finally found a job with low salary. Due to high rent and spending. She can hardly support herself. However, She prefers to stay in Shanghai and doesnt return Nanchang.To her, Shanghai has a wider space for her to display, although she is tough and hard now.

Many people want to go to metropolis for working when they are young even though the reality is cruel indeed. The house is too expensive to buy; people are less competitive because of too many talents, etc. however, it also appeals so many young people with its own glamor.

Each people has his own pursuit and belief, so they would chose different life styles. To be hard in big city or to be carefree in small town, both of them has its strength. Life means being brave no matter which life style you have chosen.right?

To be brave!I said to myself.

My present life condition: idle, empty, annoying

Yesterday, I went to Fudan University for two campus talk,one is SK and another Dow. Despite of having my bottom full of passion,I also felt frustrated after coming back.  Disoriented as I am, Where can I place my dream.

Where can I find myself.

  It's a sleepless night.Sitting before the computer, I want to write somthing, but dont know what to say. It is very silent in this evening.I can only listen the sound of rain dropping down on my windowsill.

   The national Day passed quickly.I have no any special feelings in this festival. Having not travel around, or go outside for shopping, I stayed in my house all this seven days.

   I miss my mum very much. Some days ago, I hear from my uncle that my mum was hurt. When I called to her, it was my father who picked up the phone. He still attempted to hide the fact and pretended that nothing had happened. It has been two weeks since I have known this matter. I can't keep crying when I knew my mum was in hospitalwith some bones broken and her eyes hurt. She is so thin and weak, how can she bear this suffer. Once I thought of this, I felt very sad and depressed. To be frankly, I would rather suffer all these for her. The day before yesterday, she left the hospital. When I called to her, I can feel her faintness.I really want to fly to home and take good care of her. But she doesnt allow me to do that.

   All these days, It is hard for me to fall asleep. Just during these days, I suddenly realized that my papa and mama would grow old and has been old. This feeling made me very worried and scared.It is also a feeling afraid of losing. All the time, I was protected by my parents and was a little carpricious. In my eyes, they wont grow old. But since this time, I found that I grew up while my parent grew old.

   Now, I want to do many things for them.I want to cook for them, for I have never prepared a meal for them. This must be a surprise for them. They dont know I have learned how to cook the half year. I want to do housework for them;I want to buy them whatever they need,etcc. Looking back,I have done so little for them before. I am blessed with the chance that I have now.

   Dear god, Please, bless my parents with as richly as they deserve. From now on , I will make my greatest effort to give you as much as you need, just like what you have done selflessly for me before. I will cherish you two.I will.

Since the landing of Typhoon Wipha, torrential rain battered Shanghai. many residents are required at home. this weekend, the typhoon has gone. but the rain hasn't stopped. i stay at home enjoying this leisure time. Closing my eyes and listening the rain outside my window pouring down, I feel very agreeable.

This weekend, for the first time, I made grape wine by myself. Last year,Mum's self-made grape wine taste very good.So,for the whole summer, I want to made grape wine by myself. Yesterday, I bought five Kin Ju Feng grapes along with sugar and spirit . After washing the grapes carefully, I kept them ventilated. In the afternoon, I put them in a big bottle and airproof the bottle. Now, What i need to do is to wait their ferment and add some sugar to them. This morning, when i got up, I found that there are some small air bubbles floating. Ha, how exciting I am!

Another interesting thing is that I grow some evening primrose. When I was a child, I always grew some evening primrose in my courtyard! it is easy to grow! That is memories in my childhood and I havent done it for many years. Some days ago, I found some evening primroses in my courtyard, which is grew by others. And then, I collected some seeds and brought them to home. This morning, I have put them to a pot, in which there is a plant. From now on, they should share the nutrition together. I am not sure whether they can survive, however, it is interesting and refreshed my memory in childhood.

The day after tomorrow is mid-autumn day, My friend and I plan to buy some mooncakes this afternoon. haha, it is regretful that we can't taste the grape wine made by myself that day. Maybe in New Year's Day or Christmas Day, the wine is ok.hehe, expecting~~~~~ 

Anyway, it is an interesting weekend!

it is maybe the reason that i lived with Ting, a friend of middle shool, i dreamed of my old friend in middle school for several times these days. in my dream, we have fun together, we sit together on the grassground, playing and chatting.all of us are very happy. it seemed that we have gone back to the past.

it made me recall a sentence written by Guo Jingming:"Those memories that we thought we wouldn't forget had been forgotten in the process of forgetting "

i come to remembrance of many old friends, include friend in my primary school, middle school, normal school, education institute and postgraduate study. in each phrase of studying, i have some intimate friends. but for some reasons, we havnt contact each other for a long time. sometimes, when i felt lonely, i missed them very much. some friends are out of touch now. i dont know how's going with them.

sometimes, i am afraid of growing up and want to grasp the tail of childhood. of course, it is impossible. however, it is also an enjoyment to listen some old songs and recall bygones.

my old friends, wish you everything goes well!

love and bread, which one do you think is more important? what is your opinion?

Recently, ten men were chosen by the ALL-China Women's Federation as Men of Our Time. however, if you thought sports stars Yao Ming and Liu Xiang or Internet entrepreneurs Zhang Chaoyang and Ding Lei would automaticaaly be on the list of the 'Men of Our Time', then, you could be ,well, behind the times.

the surprise int he list of ten men released by the All-China Women's Federation is that it contains no celebrities= and the guiding factors seem to be care and compassion for opposite sex.

the winner, with an average age of 47, were selected by women officials and other women, whose criteria was men promoting gender equality. Li Zhonghua, is an typical example. he is a 46-year-old airforce officer who test-flies planes, said he thought he was chosen because "he takes good care of his family, and is a gentleman".he also said that "gentleman get more repect in our society. they should be like those in the movie Titanic, who let women and children leave first in life rafts." another man Shi Hashan, is a old policeman in Guixi of Jiangxi Province. he said that he became a "man in the eyes of women" because "women love stories of heroes saving beauties."

those are two examples of "men of our time".in our society, it seems that it is not easy to be a good man. man bear too much responsiblity and heavy burden. i think that both men and women need to be cared. thus, we can construct a harmonious society.

by the way, what's your criteria of "men in Our Time".

it happaned at about half past one o'clock in the evening. i was awakened by a screem 'help'. recognizing it is from the window of neighberhood, i was reaaly scared by the scream, like awakened from a nighmare. my heart beat quickly. at that moment, my roomate was awakened too. we all very nervous. the women , our neighber, cried and shouted 'help'. we dont know what happened and we heard some noises of knocking. i want to call 110, worrying about something wrong with the women. but my roomate stop me. she said:"maybe the women is too depressed so that she want to take out. it could be ok later.it is too late to call the 110." but, a few minites later, the women screamed again and shout 'help''help'repeatedly. my roomate and i are frightened by that. we dont know what to do. what the hell happened? we saw lights in the opposite building turned on. there must be some others who awakened by the scream. and we also hear some people talked. it seemed that they are complainning about the noise. some minites later, it became silent. but i cant sleep any longer. i am afraid that the woman would scream again. the scream haunted me. as i close my eye, it reechoed in my ears. i worried about the women. what's wrong with her. i am not sure if somebody call 110. for the whole night, i wake up and sleep, then wake up again.

early in the morning, some people came to their home. they are complaining the noises in the night. i guess they are from committee of the courtyard. and i know the reason why the women screamed. she quarrelled with her husband and suffered from phyisical abuse. it is so terrible.

to be frankly , i have heard some cases of family violence, however, i have never expected it happened around me. the 'help'from the woman is the most deplorable scream i have heard. till the midday, they quarralled all the time. as i lived here for a short time, i have never seen them although they are my neighbors. when it really happen around me , i felt it is so terrible. i even thought that i dare not to marry. why, whey they dont fanalized their marriage if they dont love each other and keep this terrible marriage mode. and i also wondered why there is no people to pursuade them, to prevent them. maybe the greatest challenges facing the domestic violence movement is the widespread perception that spousal abuse is a “private matter”.

nowadays, we often hear some cases about domestic violence. the televison series "dont talk to strangers" is a typical example. it is said nearly one-third of women reort being physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives .even though it is more and mroe common in our society, it seems that people havent a clear conciousness of it. domestic violence victims in China rarely have stepped into the civil arena, for a variety of reasons, including reluctance to tangle with the legal system , difficulty in finding a lawyer willing to take the case and inability to get money from a batterer even if they win. some woman , who are in or who have been in physical, emotionally, or verbally abusive relationships fear of being attacked or even killed by their husband. some women may be that a victim is not able to support herself and children without husband's incom or have limited access to government assistance, or dread welfare ....too many reasons prevent them from resisting or departing from their husband.

this matter really stired up my feeling. i dont know if they will quarrel this afternoon, or in this evening. and also, i feel also sorry that i cant help.

it is an unluky day. it seems that nothing goes smoothly.

the thesis is hard to go on. SPSS is too complex to use, the statistic is hard to calculate and some manual work on concordance is loaded with trial things. for a whole day, i have written only some lines.the progress goes so slowly.

what annoys me most is that my friend broke her words.she made an appointment with me to have dinner this afternoon. To  be not late, i ran through the crowd to take the bus. my god, it is 6 0'clock, the rush hour. god knows how crowdy it is to take the bus. however, when i nearly arrive there, she told me she have other things to settle this evening and cant dinner with me. oh, you know, in order to meet her, i put off another friends' invitation and spent over one hour pushing through people at ruch hour. now i have to cover my dinner by myself. i cant be more depressed at that moment.

now, i calm down sitting before computer and recall what happened the whole day, somewhat downhearted. tomorrow is saturday, i plan to sleep late and have a good rest. in order to finish the thesis, i havent rest well for a long time. this morning, i found i had black eyes~~555, my pity eyes! i will go to a park to relax myself. it must be a bright tomorrow! .believe it or not, tomorrow will be another day!now, my mood get better .waiting~~~

smile!

·A thousand times no!                        绝对办不到

·Don't mention it.                           没关系，别客气。

·Who knows!                                  天晓得

·It is not a big deal!                       没什么了不起

·How come...                                 怎么回事，怎么搞得

·Easy does it.                               慢慢来

·Don't push me.                              别逼我

·Come on!                                    快点，振作起来

·Have a good of it.                          玩的很高兴

·It is urgent.                               有急事

·What is the fuss?                            吵什么

·Still up?                                    还没睡呀

·That's is a boy!                             太好了，好极了

·It's up to youl                              由你决定

·The line is engaged.                         占线

·My hands are full right now.                 我现在很忙

·Dont't make up a story.                      不要捏造事实

·Absence makes the heart grow fonder.         小别胜新婚

·She makes a mess of things.                  她把事情搞得一塌糊涂。

·Get an eyyeful.                              看个够

·He has a quick eye.                          他的眼睛很锐利

·Potluck Party ：                             一种聚餐方式，主人准备场地和餐具，参加的人必须带一道菜或准备饮料，最好事先问问主人的意思。
 
·Pull over！                                  把车子开到旁边。

·Drop me a line！                             写封信给我。

·Give me a ring. = Call me！                  来个电话吧！

·For here or to go？                          在这吃还是外卖？

·cool; That's cool!                           等于年轻人常用的囗语“酷”，表示不赖嘛！用于人或事均可。

·What's up? = What's happening? = What's new? 见面时随囗问候的话“最近在忙什么？有什么新鲜事吗？”一般的回答是“Nothing much!”或“Nothing new!”

·Cut it out! = Knock it out！= Stop it!       少来这一套！同学之间开玩笑的话。

·Don't give me a hard time!                   别跟我过不去好不好！

·Get yourself together!                       振作点行不行！

·Do you have the time?                        现在几点钟？可别误以为人家要约你出去。

·Hang in there. = Don't give up. = Keep trying. 再撑一下。

·Give me a break !                            你饶了我吧！（开玩笑的话）

·Hang on.                                     请稍候。

·Blow it. = Screw up.                         搞砸了。

·What a big hassle.                           真是个麻烦事。

·What a crummy day.                           多倒霉的一天。

·Go for it.                                   加油

·You bet. = Of course.                        当然；看我的！

·Wishful thinking.                            一厢情愿的想法。

·Don't be so fussy!                           别那么挑剔好不好。

·It's a long story.                           唉！说来话长。

·How have you been? = How are you doing?      你过得如何？近来可好？

·Take things for granted.                     自以为理所当然。

·Don't put on airs.                           别摆架子。

·Give me a lift! = Give me a ride!            送我一程吧！

·Have a crush on someone.                     迷恋某人。

·What's the catch?                            有什么内幕？

·Party animal.                                爱参加Party的人（喜欢参加舞会的人）。

·Pain in the neck. =Pain in the ass.          讨厌的东西、人或事。

·Skeleton in the closet.                      家丑

·Don't get on my nerve!                       别把我惹毛了！

·A fat chance. = A poor chance.               机会很小。

·I am racking my brains.                      我正在绞尽脑。

·She's a real drag.                           她真有点碍手碍脚。

·Spacing out.=daydreaming.                    做白日梦。

·I am so fed up.                              我受够了！

·It doesn't go with your dress.               跟你的衣服不配。

·What's the point? = What are you trying to say? 你的重点是什么？

·By all means.=Definitely.                    一定是。

·Let's get a bite. = Let's go eat.            去吃点东西吧！

   this weekend, the stock market have risen for three days continuously. my stocks rise also. yesterday, it is fortunately that ShuangLiang Share grew 10%.it really made me happy. this day, the stock market keep rising. in the morning, WanKe rose about four percent but ShuangLiang fell three percent. in general situation, it rose somewhat.

    in fact, i bought the stock just for fun and learning. of course, things get better if i earned money. nowadays, china stock market is still at baby stage and have a long way to run. i know it exists risks in doing this, however, in my eyes, it is very important to learn how to invest. in Shanghai, the price of house is too high for common people to buy. people work painfully to earn little salaries and sometime have to work overtime. they work for the whole life to earn a house. it is unfair. the economy in china is abnomal. some riches invest in houses while the poor have no place to live. it is so sad, so miserable. oh, it seems that i am too excited. hehe~~~~~

    thinking about my future life,oh, i must plan for myselve. i need find a effective way to add value to my money. stock might not be the best way to invest, however, god bless my stock rise these days!!!!

  i had a enlish blog now! this is the first day to establish my castle here. from now on, i can rest at my castle when i am tired, i can  also express my feelings when i am depressed and alone, i can communicate with so many strangers and learn something i dont know. it is really worth celebrating!

  my friends, welcome all of you to visit my castle, and you can talk to me whatever you want to say. i will be an good listener.