Born to Win
2007-09-08 15:55:24
Born to Win
Each human being is born as something new, something that never existed before. Each is born with the capacity to win at life. Each person has a unique way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking. Each has his or her own unique potentials --- capabilities and limitations. Each can be a significant, thinking, aware, and creative being --- a productive person, a winner.
The word "winner" and "loser" have many meanings. When we refer to a person as a winner, we do not mean one who makes someone else lose. To us, a winner is one who responds authentically by being credible, trustworthy, responsive, and genuine, both as an individual and as a member of a society.
Winners do not dedicated their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence and manipulating others. They are aware that there is a difference between being love and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable. Winners do not need to hide behind a mask.
If you have a dream, just go and get it.
Yeah, why not?
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En-learner
发布于2007-11-18 10:17:48
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A real great hero will display his nature and emotion forthrightly. And it’s these character and charm that attract others to worship him and follow him, regard him as their leader and be convinced of the final success. But reality is not as simple as we thought or expected. I just take the historically famous figure Xiangyu as an example. He is a hero and it is generally accepted. He displayed his nature completely and authentically. But he ended up as a loser. He lost the fight with Liubang, a guileful leader. Why? No matter how people still respect and admire him, he lost his cause and the hopes of his numerous faithful followers. What a pity!
There is a defensive ability called camouflage in biological world, and there is a strategy called trick or tactics in human world too. Generally, a winner, as a wise and pragmatic person, should know the complexity and uncertainty of the reality. So he must understand the importance and necessity of patience, hiding, flexibility and even pretence.
