It's a long time since I left my hometown, and also from that day on, I left my friend---Q, I have not seen her for such a long time that I miss her very much.

Not just her but my families, I choose to go on my university life in another province about 3 kilometers far from my hometown. It's really hard for me to stay there alone, but I must try my best to get adapt to this because I know that the harder you once got through, the more you will get in the future. 

What I want to say is some feelings about life, but as you know, my english is so poor that I can not translate these sentenses from chinese to english. so what i can do is to post them downstairs. I hope these words can help you get the true meanings of life.

感激伤害你的人，因为他磨练了你的心志。

感激欺骗你的人，因为他增进了你的见识。

感激鞭打你的人，因为他催生了你的进步。

感激遗弃你的人，因为他教导了你应自立。

感激绊倒你的人，因为他强化了你的能力。

感激斥责你的人，因为他助长了你的定慧。

Be grateful for the ones who hurt you, since he/she steels yourself.

Be grateful for the ones who cheat you, since he/she improves your knowledge.

Be grateful for the ones who slashes you, since he/she hastens your improvement.

Be grateful for the ones who drop you off, since he/she teaches you how to stand on your own legs.

Be grateful for the ones who make you down, since he/she strenthen your abilities.

Be grateful for the ones who denounced you, since he/she furthers your wisdom.

My    Advice    To    Pessimists

 Pessimism is the opposite word of optimism. And these two words stand for two different kinds of ways of looking at the world. The pessimists look at the world in a passive way; on the contrary, the optimists take failures, criticism, setbacks and reversals in a positive way.

Many people think that pessimism always leads to diseases, hopelessness and failures. Some surveys have proved that pessimism may cause people to get the idea of going to die when they meet some troubles that they can’t face. In contrast optimism can make you stay healthy, live with a happy life and succeed. As we all know, Stephen William Hawking who is a scientist is one of the representatives of optimism. He lives with an optimistic attitude, so he succeeds in both life and career. .

When you fail to do something, you should view the failures as a way of learning experiences and then try your best to benefit from it. When problems or any questions are in front of you, you should think about your strengths to rebuild your self-confidence to solve them. Don’t let the passive thoughts hold you back. Everyone would experience failures and disappoints, so don’t blame yourself excessively. You should be hopeful for tomorrow.