thinking about the relationship between husband and wife

today in the morning, when i got to the office, i recieved a short message. "there's something happened between your colleague and his wife who lives upstair. in the yesterday evening, just about eleven o'clock, they fighted each other. his wife handled a iron spanner to chase him. oh, he was very poor and it seemed that he had lower status in their family usually. " this message is from my friend who lives downstair.

although everybody in our company know that my colleague is very afraid of his wife, but yet i cann't believe that thing has been happened. After all they are couple and have lived with each other for just fifteen years. They have a smart daughter-fourteen years old. do they still love each other? i have any doubt with them.

i don't think that the wife must control the husband. the wife and the husband should help each other to built a very kindful,confortable atmosphere in the family. i'll try my best to do this.