so

I don't know how to translate the title of Chi Li's book,"所以". As i usually say "because...so....", so i translate it into "so".  So many causes in life, accordingly there is also  so much  "so" accompied these. The story is about a girl or woman (more precisely), who experienced suffering and hardships in her life, having relation with three men . Very pity is the three men were not worthy loving or marring. The first one who deceived her is a useless idiot, his useless is shown in his poor education and ability. The false marriage and the absurd divorce announce  hers failure in love. The second is a soldier who is traditional and has nothing in common with the author. Her betray colses their relationship. The most curel men is her husband - the third man who attracts  her at first, however the true face of the cruel man is discovered in the daily life. He is a self-righteousness and stubborn man, and has no ability to support their family. When his abnormal relation with another man is discovered by his wife, their marrige also goes to the end.

This is my first time to read Chi Li's book, in spite of hearing so much about her before. The initiate feeling is so nice as the place she descried is Wu Han where i am living now. The places described in her book are a little familar to me. When i finish this book, i can share the sorrowness with the "author', with her bleeding love. Keep bledding love can very well illustrate  her marrige. She tries not to care what people say , but their pirecing sound make her heard.  once or twice is enough, but the three times failure love cannot be understood by people.

Actually, woman is insane before love in people's eyes. They need someone to warm up the loneliness hearts. why woman is the hurted  before love?