Today I was so excited to find such a wonderful place: so many interesting english articles,useful to enlarge my english knowledge,and also so many nice people!So I can't waiting and open my own space and I'm willing to make freinds with everyone who is sincere.
  One of the most important parts of our lives is to share something and some moments with our friends,no matter bad things or goods things,and no matter happy moments or sad moments. It's so blessing to find the ones who we are willing to share such things with. And also me it's such a honor if someone is willing to share something with me for I think it's because he/she trust me and think me honest.Always will I ask myself:"Jane, in your life,do you have anyone who you can cound on when you are in trouble?" I'm so happy that I have such people in my life.Thank my freinds and thank my family, because of you I never feel lonely and helpless.And here I know I will get to know more freinds and have more fun with you.
  Like me then leave your "footmark";if you dislike me I'm sorry,but go head and search the one you like.
  Let's enjoy, my friends!

  I went to Company X's office to hand some documents to the stock lady and as usual I went to Anna's desk and had a casual chat.This morning we did a small test concerning people's character.We both got the same results while she thought B is much more suitabe for me.She is one of my friends who know me.I got answer A and it did reflects part of my character but not completely,just like a coin has two side,B is my second side.
  During our chatting,person X went to the meeting room and took one heater out.I was just about to ask her whether she feels cold,she has put the heater behind Anna's chair.Whenever she did such kind things for others,her bright eyes will shine and smiling face will be covered with childish expression,so I always think she looks like a child at this moment.
  Part of the reason I like the German poeple here is because of their straight characters.Sometimes I really envy Anna.But you know good things are like flowers,their fragrant odor can be spread,and friendship is one of them.
  I can always be easily moved by the samll things happened around me.It's not bad for it will always remind me of the goodness of our lives.Hold gratitude in your heart,your life will be full of happiness.

  Recently I bought a book of Dale Carnegie-'how to win friends and influence people'& 'how to stop worrying and start living",the English version.Long time before I have read this book,I think it was during my college life but at that time I never thought too seriously about the relationship between different people.I took it for granted that people would treat the way how you treat them.But life is far different from that.Honestly often in my work and life have I felt confused and even desperated of the complicated human relationship.I'm not going to justify myself here that I have  done nothing wrong before,but there were moments that I was really unable to understand others.It seems there are people who never condemn themselves and every mistake is other people's faults.I myself is a very sensitive person,I can't allow myself to do anything that may bother others while I don't know how other people can have their concience feel quiet after they have done some harm to others.Such questions like this make me doubt my life pholosiphy--am I too naive or am I too immature? Or am I too serious that life is just a game, if you are too serious you'll just miss the funny part,the part people deceiving each other,taking advantage of others and sucking the superior while fooling the inferior? One word I heard in my work is "Da Tai Ji" which means people are good at shifting the responsibility to others and make themselves free from it.I always heard that it's a fine art to deal with different people successfully.When you have mastered this art you can manage everything smoothly.Then what's the essence of this art?
  Now I find it's really necessary for me to think over the principles that I need to follow to get along with people.So I turn to this book for help again and hope it can give me some suggestion.I'll appreciate everyone who can give me some invaluable advice.Hope we can discuss it here.

  To be honest,the initial purpose of my blog was just to write down my onw feeling of life regardless of the other people's opinion around.In other words,I just wanted it to be a private space of me,I didn't think of sharing. Forgive me, I'm always such a person that sometimes I'm a little over-confident or you may say stubborn,or maybe that's because in the real life,I've already spent all my enthusiasm and energy to deal with different people that I just need quietness here.
  Recently I find that I'm one of the few people among my friends who don't use QQ anymore.One reason is my QQ was stolen long time before and I don't want to bother to apply a new one,the other reason is I don't have the slightest interest to chat with strangers any more for the chatting always follows the same way-boring,just to kill time.
  I have no time to kill.
  However I'd like to change my idea here now.Recently I have been enjoying getting to know new friends here.And I'm more and more interesting to read other people's blog and most of time I'd like to write down my feeling,good or bad.I hope I can be honest to my true feeling and didn't write any offensive comments on purpose before and never do it in the future.Now I'm looking forward to expand my space to make it more attractive and I will go out more often to find more friends with common topic.
  I can do much better here-one of wishes of year 2008.

  Finally I have finished my last work day of 2007.Not such a big day,but OK,everything went smoothly,the time I closed my notebook,I felt so relaxed and also refreshed.The past year for me,how to say, I have experienced so much,both physically and mentally.
  Once I believed that I can have all my dreams in my heart and stick to them and realize them one by one,while only God knows the suffering that my heart have burdened and how helpless I've ever had been when I got to know that I never have the chance to have some of dreams be true.I know life is not so perfect,when you get something you have to lose something,and my year of 2007 have been full of such moments,for some I still haven't come to conclusion:did I make a right choice or wrong one or maybe I will never find the answer.
  After we have finshed the annual stocktaking of our company, one question occured to me: Can we count our life like we count the stock in the warehouse at the end of one year,and also do some correction? So that we can have a totally right record to start a new year. While it's easy to count, it's difficult to do the correction, some maybe impossible.But anyway we can take the possible chances.The bad haibits,get rid of them;the apologies once forgot to say,say them face to face;the love you got from others or the love you had for others,return it or show it...I suddenly feel that life is not so tough,if we are determined to do something, nothing is impossible.And if really we can't simply count our life this way,OK, let's just forget and go ahead with our 2008.
  Happy new year,my friends!

  Today is the Midwinter Day,but there is no hint of winter in the air.It's still very warm outside,no chilly wind or stormy rain, not to mention snow.The climate has changed so greatly that I just mixed the four seasons，they are no long distinctive.
  Because here is Guangdong,not my hometown.In my hometown I can feel the fading of one season and the coming of another season.I still remember when I was a samll kid,Mom will tell me some common sense about some cares we need to take when the season changes.Though it seems that Mom's words are out of date,Mom's warm cares are still in my heart.
  However we also need to pay attention to Mother nature's care.Eevrything in nature follows its way to work,while today human being has exert excessive influence on nature.Everyday I find so many changes happened around me.The trees are cut off the mountain and the bulldozers are working on it in front of us;the rivers are filled or cut off and never flow.Roads with high buildings erected on both sides are built deep into the mountains which has occupied the grass field,once there were kinds of animals inhabited there.Humans are enlarging the domain everywhere with their ignorant smile while they neglect that our Mother nature is crying and worrying.
  Now the balance is disturbed.See what results we get from nature? Global warming which has changed the global climate greatly,more and more poeple are dying from heat every year;hunderds of thousand of animals become extinct or in danger of extinction.Say what's near to me,Midwinter Day is no longer Midwinter Day.
  I believe everything exists with its reason.Let's learn to respect everything,especially our Mother nature.

  Normally I don't like to criticize anyone or give any comments like nasty,fuck or shit,neither in my real life nor on the internet .Internet itself is a very visional space,so people feel more free to speak out what they think even though in their real life it's not proper or they dare not to say.
  However as far as I am concerned I'd prefer to act the same as what I am in my real life.I'm here writing my blog,sharing my poor opinions,picturing my future or just making some sick complaints.I'd be appreciated if there is anyone who share the same idea with me or make any comments, whatever it is, good or bad,for I don't expect everybody agrees with me.There is limit of my thought and there is a difference between you and me.
  While when I read someone's blog, I think she is very funny.At first, I must admit she is writing with perfect English, of course she has to for she is native English speaker, so it's just a piece of cake for her.But what really surprised me is her manner.She's justing act as she is the Lord, the Lord of our English learner,she is providing us with her generous help and demanding all of us to accept her help with thank.If there is no responce she will hit the ceiling and shout:"You fuck! You guys are deserved to be dumb."
  I'm eager to learn English,but I definitely won't take such person as my English teacher.I need someone who has good manner,who is good at guiding me,who is able to help me build up the confidence to learn,especially who has the patience for me.Learning a language is a long journey,just as Roman was not built in one day.My English teacher should have the patience for my growing from naive to mature.If there is really such a wonderful teacher,I think I would like to pay for his or her great teaching.Otherwise I won't give him or her a shit even it's free.
  Respect to others I think it should be the basic thing that we need to learn not only when we were small kids but also everyday.It's the basic demand for communication.For some poeple they don't understand why people around them don't accept their help even it's free.They may say "what's wrong,I'm helping you and it's free!" The reason is quite simple-because they are using a improper way when they make the offer and the way hurts others.Everyone has his pride that you need to respect,you may think it's stupid to give up your help and protect the poor pride.But it really means something to every human beings.
  So using an acceptable way even if you are doing something out of your great chartiy.

  To be honest,I have no interests in the international affairs,especially the political issues,and most of my attention is paid to my daily life and work.I also have no passion for the so called the lastest fashion trend,and I just follow my heart and eyes and choose what I like most.I won't betray my own feeling and follow something like because most of the people are doing this way or whatever.Most of the time, I just want to be myself,fashionale or rustic,open or close,anyway that's me.
  Maybe that's the reason why though I'm a very traditional person I can accept every kind of concepts.
  It's not a paradox,but a reality.I admit that to pay more attention to national or international affairs will broaden your horizon and deepen your viewpoints as well,but I really have no interests in that and also it's not the only way to enrich our lives.Keep your eyes open to the little things which happen everyday around us will also make us think a lot.Similarly,if you have some knowledge of fashion trend,you may dress yourself up more attractively,but the best way to show yourself is to have what fit you most and meanwhile you need to feel comfortable.
  On the contrary, if you just follow the trend blindly, you will just make your life more complicated and there is no benefit.You will just miss what's really important to you.
  So let's just be ourselves, and set the goal what's is most suitable to us but not what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.

Sometimes we really need some spiritual dependence which can inspire us when we are in the desert of emotion.It do gives us passion,strength and faith when we are going to lose our way and direct us to the right way.
I don't believe in God,I still love these stuff.Share with you, my friends!

Three things in life that once gone,never come back-

1. Time
2. Words
3. Opportunity      

Three  things in life that can destroy a person -
        
1. Anger
2. Pride
3. Unforgiveness
        
Three  things in life that you should never lose-
        
1.  Hope
2.  Peace
3.  Honesty
       
Three things in life that are most valuable -
        
1. Love
2. Family &Friends
3. Kindness  
       
Three things in life that are never certain -
         
1. Fortune
2. Success
3.  Dreams
       
Three things that  make a person -
       
1. Commitment  
2. Sincerity
3.  Hard work
        
Three things that are truly constant -
        
Father - Son - Holy Spirit

I ask the lord to bless you as I pray for you today;
to guide you and protect you, as you go along your way.
God's love is always with you.
God's promises are true.
And when you give God all your cares,you know God will see you through.

有时候自己会很奇怪的想一个问题：什么是一个女人最重要的资本？是貌？是才？还是什么？
Sometimes I will always ask myself one strange question,that is what's the most important captical to a womon? Her appearance? Her capability? or something else?
但是大多数情况我是无法给自己这个答案的。这并不奇怪。
But I can't give an answer to my question in most cases.This isn't strange.
因为我知道自己不漂亮，我也觉得自己没有才。否认了这两点之后，而我也找不出其他的东西可以让我觉得自己身为女人很有资本。
I know I'm not a beautiful woman,neither do I think I'm a capable person.After excluding those two points,however I still can't find out what else I have that make me feel rich.
这多少有点让我沮丧，然而生活还是这样继续：工作中的我不乏热情，生活中的我虽然有时候会觉得闷了一点，但是仍然会像孩子般的开怀大笑。
This more or less makes me feel disappointed,while life still goes on without stopping：I never lack of passion in my work;though my life sometimes turns out to be a little boring,I always burst out into laugh like a child.
没有光彩夺目的外貌去满足我公主的虚荣，也没有惊天动地的才华去指点江山。我是如此普通的一个女人。
No shining appearance to satisfy my princess vanity; no amazing talent to build up my own business.I'm such a plain woman.
但是我还是会问自己这个问题：什么是一个女人最重要的资本？然后给自己这三个选择：是貌？是才？还是什么？
While I still will ask myself the same question:what's the most important capital to a women?And I still will give myself these there choices :her appearance? Her capability? or something else?
为什么？喜欢做梦吗？这个问题在我心头萦绕了很久.
Why?Like day-dreaming? This has been haunting me for a long time.
当自己每天醒来，望着镜子中的自己微笑时；当睡眠袭来前一秒钟，自己努力记住今天学过的一个单词时，我知道这不仅仅是梦那么简单。
When everyday I wake up and give a smile to the one in the mirror;and I try to remember one word I have learned today,I know this is not as simple as a daydream.
那个每个女人心中的一种力量，美的力量。
This is one kind of strength that exists in every woman's heart,the strength from beauty.
因为每一个女人都会希望自己每一天可以变得比昨天更漂亮，也希望自己可以比昨天多一份才气。
Because every woman hope she can become more beautiful than she was yesterday,and more talented as well.
那么到底什么是一个女人最重要的资本呢？是貌？是才？还是什么？
Then what's on earth is the most important capital to a woman? Her appearance? Her capability? Or something else?
两者都是.不过不是同别人比,而是同昨天的自己相比.然后再加上我们的心,这些就是让我们永远拥有年轻的资本.
Both are,not compare with others but compare with who we were yesterday.Nevertheless,we need to add one more thing,that is our hearts,then we have all the capital with which we can keep yound forever.

  Winter is coming,so yesterday I went out and bought my parents each an overcoat and then sent them home by post office.After doing that I was so proud of myself that happiness was full of my heart.However when I talked this with one of my colleagues,he said with disagreement,"why not wire some money to your parents and let them buy clothes by themselves? They can even choose what they like." Hearing of this,I had one moment of regret,but just one moment and then I still enjoyed what I have done.
  I think parents are easy to be satisfied with our so-called payback.They don't need material things or expensive stuff not to mention money,what they need is very simple,that is our care,our understanding,our love.Sometimes I really have to say this world is fantastic,especially emotion.When I think of my childhood,there was one period that I felt very unhappy because of the frequent quarell between my parents.At that time I thought they were too selfish,they never thought that their non-stop quarell also hurt me and influenced my growing.And also there was one period that I thought my parent didn't understand me and always forced me to do what I dislike.To be honest,I once blamed them for that.However,when I was complaining how unlucky I was,I was so lucky to have my parents.My four years in university was the most tough time in my parents' life,they have to do the ultimate endeavor to afford my education.Those four years did have enriched my life and meanwhile have revived my relationship with my parents as well.Or rather not only revive but also deepen.For I'm more capable to think the realtionship between us reasonablly and comprehensively.And my childhood experience becomes a warning to me that I never want to have that situation again.Now we are enjoying a relationship with love,mutual understanding. And I know my parents never expect any material things from me,and what they need is a call once in a week,having some small talking with them,sharing the happiness and bitterness of your everyday life.So I'm quite confident that my parents will be greatly satisfied with the small gifts I bought for them!

  I love snow so much.I remember when I was young and still at home,whenever it was snowing I would stand beside the door and gaze outside for a long time.At that time I didn't know where does the snow come from,I was simply amazed by the snow-white world,so pure and so beautiful and I wondered to be part of it.While Years later when I have grown up and understood how the snow coming into being,I have left my hometown and lived in Guangdong where snow is such a rare thing and I seldom get the chance to stand in the completely snow-white world and enjoy its beauty.Maybe because of the strong longing deep in my heart,snow has become a very holy thing in my mind,a symptom of the purity.And it do gives me faith and courage during my hard time of my life.
  I have to admit that those days when I'm far away from my family and my friends,when I'm lonely or helpless,or the moments I lost before some temptation,I did have the idea to give up,to cry,to say goodbye.But when I was suffering such moments,the snow would come into my heart,make it a snow-white place and make me cool down as well.Though life can never be as perfect as I have dreamed,I'm gratified that it's not so bad.Thanks to the snow,my white angel.

  One of my friends said that I'm in semi-health.Although I always don't feel so well I didn't fully realize its severity.I always think these maybe some temporary and small problems,while today when this item "semi-health" came into my mind,it really frightened me and suddenly exaggerate my past "small trouble" before me which forced me to think seriously.After all I'm still young,I don't want to have one of my leg bury into the grave!I want to have full-health.
  Excercise seems to be a strange word to me now, I can't remember when was the last time I did excercise.Oh,my god,I'm such a lazybone!I once made a very specific plan for some excercise before,but my enthusiasm can never last more than two weeks.Oh,poor guy, how can you survive this competitive world when you are no longer young? Lacking of excercise is one major killer of my health.Now thinking of my job.I have to face computer all day long,sitting on the china.Forget my belly,only think of my face,good skin is a history now,how can I stop the pace of my going youth.Cosmetic stuff or what?
  I'm sweating now!No,my life can't go on like this.I have to lead a health life style.Physically and spiritually,I'm determind to improve my life quality.This is not funny stuff and I think everyone of us should think it carefully and give ourselves a health menu of life.Come on, Jane,don't hesitate anymore. I need health!!!

We write english mails among our freinds,I think I have learned a lot from my friends,here below share one of our emails with you.

Dear Jane,

Sorry for late reply. I’m fine, but be busy with some production issue. I miss you all too.

Did Aiyi go to your end? Hope you have nice times with her.

How about your happy days at home? Did you meet a handsome boy who was recommended by your uncle? :)

Yes, I have same feeling as you. Sometimes, very active, sometimes, very passive. But I think we’re still very young. We’re just around 25 years old. We may have around 55 years if we can reach 80 years old.

We may have to think about how to arrange our life. We may defer, but time will not. If we don’t keep running, we’ll be out before long. Keep attention to everything you interest, try to study and find out the best you like, then, go ahead.

I have many troubles and excuses for me too. Such as, it’s very old for me to learn other courses, no money, no time, I don’t know whether I can find another job like the one I’m taking. Frankly speaking, I’m afraid to change, afraid to lose. But actually, I’m losing while I bend my knee to dread.

I hope you can conquer the dread and enrich yourself. Find something you like, go go go…

For your working place, on my personal standpoint, it’s too remote from the big city and depressing. It’s not good for your sociality and view. In the large city, you can know many kinds of information through many resources. But, it must depend on you. I don’t know whether you like the big city or small town.

  This weekend one of my college classmate came to visit me,and today we went to Jiangmen and met another two classmates there.We four shared one room during our four years' college life.It's such a precious period in our lives that I think none of us will forget it and that there are already some hidden connection among us.We had a wonderful time together,memories of our college life came back whenever who reminded us of some small things happened before,even some sad moments before now were full of fun and interests.Yes,time is the best medicine and life is the wisest teacher:when we thought about the things we experienced before we were so happy that we had enjoyed the four years and left no regret.We spent our time going to some old places for shopping,eating,walking and talking,and it went so fast that suddenly we had to say goodbye and made plan for next meeting.I still remember two years before when we finished our commencement and some of us cried when facing the departure.While today there is no sadness, for we have all grown up and what's more important is that we have realized that true freindship doesn't mean to be always together but it means the real treasure of it, and we knows we have such treasure in the deep of our hearts.
  I'm happy for I have freinds,I hope life treats every one of them well.God bless you,my dears!

  Today I received a call from my college classmate who is also my good friend,she told me that she is preparing her graduate entrance exam.This is the second surprise she gave this year.The first one was several months before she quit her job in Guangdong and went to Beijing to learn English.And she chose a totally different major from college.Though I was shocked by her choices, I really envy her courage and determindation to do what she wants to do,even if she has to start from scratch.As a friend of her,I can feel this time she is doing the right thing she is longing to do,she has gift for language.
  Comparing with her,I'm kind of afraid of choosing and quitting.I have too strong feeling of gain and lose while I'm not able to distinguish gain from lose and lose from gain.I know I'm a clever person while I'm not a wise man.I don't have adequate courage to break the current situation and pursue what I desire to do. Maybe that's the reason why everybody has his own different life.

 There are many casual moments that really touch me when I see that the relationship between men can be so nice,even we don't know each other.

  Recently I was fond of soup opera <jin hua yan yun>,the fate of every actor and actress really hang my heart.And their love stories also touch me.There is one sentence I like very much,that is:one man and one woman can not only be wife and husband,but also can be spiritual mate.Spiritual mate in Chinese is "精神伴侣".I think everyone in this world needs such a spiritual mate and is always looking for the one.
  Loneliness sometimes can build character,but sometimes loneliness can ruin one's character,when we really feel lonely we need a spiritual mate who can disperse the cloudiness deep in our hearts.And it's not an easy thing to find such a spiritual mate.Maybe we spend our whole life and still find nothing.Spiritual mate,the one who is willing to help you without any rewards,who is ready to listen to your dull stories without interruption,who is always there to guard you when you lose your way,who is firmly supporting you,all in all the one who is willing to share your life.
  To be honesty,I have been looking for my spiritual mate since I have understood its meaning.I'm grateful that I have had such ones in my life,and I enjoy every moments together with them,the freely communication about everything.Such feeling is really nice,it just likes that you know there is always a home there,happy and warm.
 

  Yesterday I heard one of my friends said,"they are all girls who has inner beauties." when he answered another friend's question,"are they beautiful?"His answer really shocked me at that moment.
  Inner beauty,the beauty of mind,it seems I haven't heard of this for a long time,maybe nowadays people pay more attention to the superficial impression of things and neglect or have no time to find and appreciate the inner beauty of things. Consequently people are used to judge people by appearance and people are used to first take care of one's outside image.
  I remember years ago when I was still in the Ivory Tower I promised to myself that for some moral and life values I will stick to them forever,no matter how hard it is.I also decided to make self-criticism everyday.While years later I find I have changed so much.Though not too much to my disppointment,there are pities.There were moments that I could have treated my friends much better and more generously;there were moments I could have controled my temper and don't lose it;there were moments that I could have given a hand to the needed...There were surely moments that we could have shown a more beautiful mind to the people around us while we missed them.Let's ask us seriously that in the short period of our lives,how many such moments we have? It's not such a difficult thing to  be good in your heart,it's just in a momentary slip and then you have inner beauty.
  I wish everybody beautiful.

  I can never be a crazy girl with the normal standard.People will think to be crazy or to have a passionate life means you have passion for KTV or disco dancing or you are a party addict.what a pity I have no passion for any activity that mentioned above.Living in a group more or less people's thought will be influened by other's,so do I.Sometimes I will doubt my own value for things,whether I am right or whether I should follow the main stream.
  It's not good to be a wise man but I sometimes will think that to have a little bit self-conceit is not a bad thing.At least when you are lost in judging somethings especially somethings concerning personal value,viewpoint,you can hold your own points and make the decision,of course the prerequisite is the decision will do no harm to nobody.
  Let's go back to topic.While personally I think I'm a crazy person.Once I meet the music I like I can spend one whole day listening to it,if it's a sad one,I will cry with its melody.If there is something that I determind to do I will do it at any cost.All in all I think to have a pssionate life doesn't only mean entertainment,it's too superficial,I mean this is only one part of our lives,it's true we should have fun ,but there is one more important part of our lives that is to realize our values.Let's put the royal reason on the side,at least we should lead a meaningful life that makes us have a little self-satisfaction.
  Anyway for me my energy is limited and I'd like to put the passion on the things that worth me to do.