waiting for my love

  I'm 24 years old this year,and it seems there are more and more people especially my family and my best friends begin to put my future marriage to my top agenda.And sometimes on the dinner table with someone poeple,the most often talked topic is how to find a boyfriend for Jane,what kind of criteria there should be.Sometimes I think it's fun,people like to gossip such things,I can accept everything they talk,like Jane you have to find someone who is rich so that you don't need to be so hard on yourself to do a good job,or Jane you need to find someone who is intelligent,though I myself have no such standard--My doing a good job only because I have passion for my work.But sometimes I am really tired of such topic.What's wrong with the people? Why they like to tease with other people's love,and what's worse it seems to be the only interesting thing they like,and I have to suffer every dinner with them.
  For me,I think love is something that when you spend too much time to find it you find nothing.I don't know why I have such thought,maybe because I have great resistance to some jokes,like people will judge arbitrarily by their own thinking that those two people fit and then make jokes with the two people.I want to have control over my own love,if I love him then nothing can change it and vise versa.But I don't like other people to be involved for I want to judge by myself.
  So here I want to pursuade myself don't lose heart to love,I'm still so young,just keep fit and keep young and keep the best of myself.Yeah,love will come.Don't ask when time will tell.