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  • Chinese Culture (1)

    2008-04-20 11:57:22

    Hi everybody,  I have much free time today, so I want to share some of philosophy with all, Lots of Hugs!!!!

    Though the sun is setting today, it will also rise tomorrow

    Maybe today is over as the man rides alone into the sunset.
    Maybe today was not a perfect day.
    But don't give up, tomorrow is another day with new possibilities and opportunities.

    No  matter what, The Sun Will Also Rise always......

     FAITH


    Seek Happiness in Life - Live in a Tea Pot

    It's a famous tale of Chinese folklore about a man who loved tea so much that he decided to live in a tea pot.

    The deeper meaning is to do what you enjoy in life. If there is something that makes you happy, then make that thing the focus of your life. Life is too short to be stuck in some job or some thing that you don't likesful - but the more courageous person is the one who doesn't care so much about appearing successful in other people's eyes. This bold person is the one who takes time to enjoy life and good wine.

    LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST


    Enough (Drink more tea and smoke less)

    This painting of a man enjoying his pipe, wife, and dog is accompanied by this proverb:
    "You have enough in your life, so just be happy and enjoy what you have"
    You should not worry about trying to "get more" all the time. But rather, take time to enjoy the things you have.

    JOY


    two men with strong skill, and determination to win this game of Chinese Chess. Because they love this game so much it symbolically lasts 1000 years.

    PASSION


    Good Friends, xiang jian yi wu shi, bu lai chang yi jun

    This is the story of a man who invites a friend over for tea.
    His friend lives far away and he has not seen him in a long time. The story's point is that no matter how far away your friend lives or how long it has been since you've seen them, your friendship should always live on,

    FRIENDSHIP


    Don't tell your secrets to a parrot

    This is the story of a man that wants to be left alone to read his books. He tells his parrot "If anyone comes, tell them that I am not here".

    Unfortunately the bird simply repeats "If anyone comes, tell them that I am not here" when people come to the door and so the man's secret is revealed.

    The story is actually an old and famous Chinese Joke. But is can also be used as daily advice, not give away your secrets to those whom you can not trust.

    INTELLIGENCE


    Chinese Tea Philosophy

    This story says that if you drink one cup of Chinese tea, you will feel relaxed and comfortable.

    After you drink your second cup, you will feel happy, and your brain will feel like it's flying.

    And when you drink your third cup, all of your troubles and worries will melt away.

    SERENITY


    Gone Fishing for Life

    This picture has a simple title, but the meaning is much deeper.The large bold black stroke represents your life and the many turns in it. Life is long but it sometimes may seem like you don't have enough time here.

    The act of fishing represents looking for something - such as meaning in your life. Perhaps when you finally catch that fish, then you will understand your purpose and the meaning of Your life - or perhaps it will bring more questions for you to answer.

    UNDERSTANDING


    The Mighty Family Man, qi jin gong ai qi you ai zi 

    This painting depicts the ancient Chinese philosophy that even the mightiest general in the army is a loving father, husband and family man when he is home just like other men.

    It is also suggested is that a man's responsibilities at home are as important as his obligations at work no matter his stature in society.

    In the picture, a great and powerful general of perhaps the Shang Dynasty (17th - 11th century B.C.) has returned from all of his important professional military obligations and is home playing with his son which is just as important in one's life.

    RESPONSABILITY


    Seek Happiness in Life - Live in a Tea Pot

    This piece depicts "The Man in the Tea Pot", It's a famous tale of Chinese folklore about a man who loved tea so much that he decided to live in a tea pot.

    The deeper meaning is to do what you enjoy in life. If there is something that makes you happy, then make that thing the focus of your life. Life is too short to be stuck in some job or some thing that you don't like

    ENTHUSIASM


    At Least I Have An Ass

    This painting tells of a man who is jealous of all the other men because they have horses, and all he has in an ass. As his mind ponders this thought, he turns his head and sees a man carrying a heavy load on his back.

    The man then realizes that he is lucky because at least he has an ass (and he shouldn't spend so much time comparing his ass with others).

    BEING GRATEFULL 

    Please Note:  You CAN´T apply this in human beings , your fds can be angry if you say "Hey baby, stop comparing yourself to other women, at least you have an ass".  Apparently this is already responsible for one divorce somewhere in Minnesota - lol.


    Go Fishing in the Mountains

    Maybe it seems silly to go fishing in the mountains, but we all need a place to get away and think.In this painting the man does not expect to catch fish, but rather is there to think and contemplate his life, or find solutions to any problems he might have, and just get away from the real world for a while.

    This painting is inspired by the story of a gifted philosopher and scholarly man named Yan Zi Ling who was called to service by Emperor Liu Che during the Han Dynasty. Yan Zi Ling did not want to take a position of authority in the government, fearing that holding such power, he would become corrupt.

    Even though he was a wise, talented, and honorable man, he knew that service in the imperial court could corrupt even the most ethical person. He felt so strongly about preserving his own integrity and dignity that he decided that it would be better to live in exile than to become another corrupt official.

    For several years, Emperor Liu Che sent men out to search the countryside and find Yan Zi Ling. But the emperor's men couldn't find him. Of course, the emperor's men had no idea that Yan Zi Ling now lives in his own special place in the mountains where he could get away from the trouble of the world

    REFLECTION


    And my favourite:

    Three Strangers Sharing Knowledge

    This painting depicts the ancient Chinese philosophy that even when people who don't know each other come together, they can learn from each other.

    One person must be the teacher and others learn. And in turn, the others become the teacher of the knowledge they posses.

    It is important to remember that we all have something to teach, and we all have something to learn as well. So if you are humble enough, learning never ends!!!

    HUMILDITY

  • Englishcn news you can't miss

    2008-04-18 16:24:22

    Hi there, welcome to Englishcn news. Here are some latest news about Daniel this week.

     

    April saw a great boost in the visiting rate of the page reaching 2665 so far. With 7 up-to-date articles in this month's issue, it's not likely that more updates are on the way in the near future, and Daniel is placing a high priority on BEC higher upcoming on May 24th, a month or so from now, the spokesman said early this morning.

     

    The first day as an intern in the Academy of Agricultural Science was humble, Daniel told the reporters. When asked how he felt, he said " tired and sleepy... I guess I am in debt of sleep for a thousand years." then he added " that's why I was late for Wang's class the other day"

     

    For more about Dan, check out his other articles and have a closest look at any update on the go.

     

  • My wife and I

    2008-04-13 19:14:17

    Hey, guys, I got some very funny quotes for you, just for laughter, hahaha

     

    My wife and I were happy for 20 years. Then we met.

     

    My wife was afraid of the dark... then she saw me naked and now she's afraid of the light.

     

    My wife is always trying to get rid of me. The other day she told me to put the garbage out. I said to her I already did. She told me to go and keep an eye on it.

     

    My wife wants sex in the back of the car and she wants me to drive.

     

    My wife's jealousy is getting ridiculous. The other day she looked at my calendar and wanted to know who May was.

     

    A girl phoned me the other day and said... Come on over, there's nobody home. I went over. Nobody was home.

     

    I saved a girl from being attacked last night. I controlled myself.

     

    Some dog I got too. We call him Egypt. Because in every room he leaves a pyramid.

     

    My psychiatrist told me I was crazy and I said I want a second opinion. He said okay, you're ugly too.

     

    Yeah, I know I'm ugly... I said to a bartender, 'Make me a zombie.' He said 'God beat me to it.'

     

     

    Am I cool ???

  • They can hear you, kid

    2008-04-13 10:55:03

    A man met a woman under the moon light for the first time when he was on the square sitting alone, listening to the music from the distance.

     

    The man said" I always talked to the moon when I was a child, felt like a fool, talking to myself"

     

    Woman:" no, not to yourself, here I am"

     

    Man look into the eyes of the woman...

     

    Woman:" what are u looking at?"

     

    Man:" you"

     

    Then, they kissed.

     

    Yep, that’s the most romantic scene in the movie “August Rush”, check it out, you can't miss it. I think it looks a little random to kiss someone in first meeting, but that's just the beauty of love, magic, amazing, and overwhelming... all come so natural, without any assuming storyline to make you feel unreal. However it feels unreal, cuz it comes off as fairytale, linked and guided by music, the prince and princess finally met, in the witness of the moon. They had the most amazing night in their lifetime, though following which was a long time of 12 years apart.

     

    She had his son. However it took her 12 years to know their son Evan Taylor (he made his name August rush) was still alive.

     

    August is a music whiz, inheriting the cells from his parents who both are musician. He is sensitive to every little sound that comes to him, he plays by ear, he loves music more than food, and he makes his living by playing guitar on the street and makes his way back home with music in his concert.

     

    The movie was like a musical tracked with lots of beautiful music that you can’t resist loving it, can’t help watching it for the second time just to review that audiovisual fun. Makes you think that music is really something, invisible but existing for real.

     

    August:” Where do you think it comes from, what I heard?”

     

    Sir:” It comes all around, comes through some of us, you can feel it.”

     

    August:” But why someone can hear it.”

     

    Sir:” Only some of them are listening.”

     

    August:” So my parents can hear it?” 

     

    Yes, they can hear you, kid.

     

    The city was his home

     

    play by ear

     

    music pulled them together again

     

    can't forget the flaming eyes

     

  • Tomb-sweeping Day in GD

    2008-04-07 21:15:56

    April 4th was the tomb-sweeping day in China, the first time it came as a legal holiday. Plus the following weekend people have 3 days off, enabling those far away from home to pay a visit back to the hometown. I was one of them.

     

    I didn’t expect the situation could be that bad with no ticket to my hometown unsold in any passenger station in GZ on 3rd. But for the ticket my hometown fellow gave to me I couldn’t make it to go home that day, even though it took me 65 Yuan (50% risen) and 4 hours due to the terrible traffic condition.

     

    I don’t know if it’s worthwhile going all the way just to show our respect to the ancestors. The bus arranged to set out at 1:40 PM didn’t show up until 3:30, and I was kept in the jam-packed and stuffy passenger station for quite a long time, with nowhere to stand not even sit.

     

    People‘s keen on Tomb-sweeping day is not secondary to that on spring festival. The legalization of this holiday just encourages a home rush. Being serious with this day has been sth traditionally unchanged, even someone bad enough to abuse his old parents seems to have great loyalty to his ancestors, spending lots of money to commemorate them in an luxurious way in hope that his “good deed” would be rewarded in some way, like making a killing in the stock market or winning the lottery, hah, ridiculous enough, isn’t it?

     

    I noticed nowadays the countryside has been undertaking some profound changes, obviously indicated from the poor’s hate to the rich, and the rich’s scorn to the poor. Now the tomb-sweeping day is like a get-together for those working from different places far from the countryside, giving them a chance to show everybody they have made a lot of money, giving them a good reason to feel proud showing off his ACCORD to people who’s never seen a BENZ. Now it’s coming clear why they are keep on this day.

     

    Interesting !!

     

    What’s the most interesting is that, as is reported on TV, people nowadays not only burn “paper money” for their ancestors, but also some paper “computer”, “sports cars” “villas” and even “valentines”. OMG, they are really modern enough, even their ancestors could keep abreast with the time because of them. Regardless the modern stuff like computers or cars, would their grand grand ma go jealous when their grand grand pa receive a “valentine” from his grand grand son?

  • English in China

    2008-04-06 09:06:23

    wow, those pics really cracked me up !!!  Damn funny !!

  • How I think about the two sessions

    2008-04-02 15:11:12

    In the presentation by our second task force about “how we think about the 11th ‘two sessions’ (NPC and CPPCC)”, we came to some conclusions after a long time discussion, during which we mainly focused on Zhang Yin, the ever richest woman in China, and her proposals to the CPPCC, as well as the unprecedented 3 migrant worker delegates (MWD) that show up in the NPC, one of whom named Hu Xiaoyan from an enterprise in Guangdong.

     

    As far as I am concerned, Zhang Yin as the delegate standing for the upper income groups in china has her right to defense and strive for their interests. That’s very reasonable and comprehensive when we know what interest group is. However it’s not a very good time for her. As we can see the proposals especially the first involving the labor law that is coming into practice soon, and the second trying to decrease the tax rate for the white collars, are challenging the authority of the legislative system, and testing the tolerance of the grass roots when china is facing the inflation and a very huge gap between the rich and the poor. Her ideas immediately stirred up lots of debates and criticism in the society and on the internet. And due to the great pressure received from the media she gave way to the public voice and apologized, stating that she is all for the new labor law.

     

    Actually I think Zhang is an honorable richest woman with patriotism. Her corporate is based in the U.S and Hk, however she spares no effort investing in the mainland these years creating many more jobs opportunities. So I reckon that netizons have no business criticizing her, but should be more rational and logical on her proposals themselves.

     

    The second highlight of the two sessions is the 3 migrant worker delegates. Definitely it’s a milestone in the development of democracy, since the migrant workers in china as a lower income group have a more legal way to express what they need, have their voice easily and impressively heard. However here come some questions.

     

    1)      What number of migrant worker delegates is appropriate for the 0.2 billion migrant workers behind them?

     

    2)    As we can see that the MWD Zhu Xueqin from Shanghai, is now a boss of a clothing factory, is he a migrant worker now? How can he speak for migrant workers? So I doubt how he was elected as a delegate.

     

    3)    Are the MWDs well educated and mind independent enough to be good delegates? They don’t seem to be speaking for the migrant workers behind them, but like the spokesman of the government when interviewed.

     

    I think there are sth more significant to do for migrant workers like to set a favorable social security policy for them or sth, rather than have several of them as delegates, being there as the so called “milestone”. Honestly, I do think there is a long way to go before their voice can be more powerful and easily and clearly heard.
  • Before and After Marriage

    2008-04-02 10:17:28

    Fuzzy puppy

     

    massage

     

     

    Before marriage.....

     

    He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.

    She: Do you want me to leave?

    He: No! Don't even think about it.

    She: Do you love me?

    He: Of course! Over and over!

    She: Have you ever cheated on me?

    He: No! Why are you even asking?

    She: Will you kiss me?

    He: Every chance I get.

    She: Will you hit me?

    He: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!

    She: Can I trust you?

    He: Yes.

    She: Darling!

     

    After marriage....

    Simply read from bottom to top.

  • just some advices on english learning

    2008-03-29 11:01:16

    Many people are seeking a better way to learn English, some seem to have found and are working on a right track, while some are not so fortunate… which side you are on, maybe what I am talking about here could be a little helpful to you.

     

    1, Don’t translate. As I know many Chinese students have made it a practice to translate what he wanna say into Chinese and then English, frequently translating between these two languages, so that we can easily tell that s/he is speaking Chinglish. But we can change it. The best way to speak real English is firstly to learn to think in English, even using the simplest English sentences. The other day I came across a bilingual German who speaks very good English in a blog community. When I asked her how she did it, she told me that she thinks even dreams in English. Wow, that sounds so reasonable and feasible, isn’t it?

     

    2, Try to imagine. When we are memorizing a new word, try not to memorize how it’s written in Chinese, but to imagine the image the word refers to. We should immediately have an image of the corresponding object, when we see a noun, the image of the action when we see a verb. So that we build up a better relation between words and real life from which we can benefit a lot in expressing our ideas.

     

    3, Chat online. Well, as I mentioned in the article “my experience in chatting groups”, chatting online especially with those English native speakers can be very helpful for us to apply what we have learn into this virtual language environment, to organize a sentence to respond immediately… and by typing into the chatting box we are strengthening the memory of how a word is spelled.  Do remember that’s the only benefits we can get in doing so, we can’t improve our pronunciation and accent, and listening skill.

     

    4, listen more. Why an illiterate can speak? Because he can recognize what a certain pronunciation means. Relatively, without a good language environment, we Chinese tend to read much more than listen. So listening should be the weakest part for us. No one likes to talk with those always asking “ pardon” or “ sorry but could you say it again”. As I can see, most of us focus too much on spelling, not its pronunciation. So my advice is to bear in mind the relation between its pronunciation and meaning. That means when you hear a word “bird”, what crosses your mind is not the word “bird” itself, but its meaning, the image of a bird. When it comes to speaking, even you can’t spell it right, you still can say it right in a face-to-face talk.

     

    The points above are just my personal opinions, flaws are inevitable, well, you don’t have to buy them, just take them for reference, OK? Meanwhile, hope you share your ideas with me, and let’s make it together. ^_^

  • crapping

    2008-03-28 13:37:49

    Last night my bro text me that he was home on a long leave, and asked me if I am going home on tomb-sweeping day. Yes, I am. Dunno how things are between he and his wife, getting better? I doubt.

     

    Seems that many people are stuck these days, like the weather gloomy and blue all the time. Have been losing sleep for a couple of days, I do look wan and pale, no wonder every time my partner would pull a long face when she saw me spaced out as if I was unwilling to be there.

     

    My hair unkempt, my eyes drowsy, my life is a mess… I always slouch…I hate myself. Why can't I just make myself a little bit useful. emmm, I gotta change a new look before my mom see me, or else I have to face the music. So the most important is to take a good rest and have my hair cut.

     

    Why the power don't go off after midnight as last spring, so that my roomies and I couldn't make it to stay up so late every night. Even sometimes I tried not to stay up, I just can't bear a dim beam of light or a slight noise from under my bed. What can I say when Ray has to pull an all nighter for his second bachelor's degree.

     

    Sorry for crapping up here, maybe that’s the best way to vent my feelings.

  • Mar 23

    2008-03-23 13:46:45

    SLEEPY!

     

    Just had the first class of the training course for BEC. The teacher was good, classmates were great, somehow i got so sleepy this morning. Then my partner kept asking me," You don't seem yourself today, what's wrong?" I forced a smile, and gave no answer. Maybe I am in debt of sleep recently.

     

    Emm, i need some Zs, right now. To be continued....

     

    OK, I was talking about  the class this morning, guess what, I came across the geek, James, who used to be the apple in the eyes of our english teacher Nancy .  He had  his hair colored, but it didn't go very well with the shades he wore. Oh, he felt like a clown.  Can't believe he is having this course. To tell you the truth, his english sucks, though he never knows that, and i am not gonna tell him of this.

     

    When i passed him, he said hi to me, and asked" Dan, you are sitting for this test? Have you got a partner?" 

     

    "oh, it's you... i am sorry i did have one already..." Don't know why I always felt like talking to someone a little thick, a little slow, when i talked with him. OK, i am not discriminating against him, I am just telling the truth. Believe it or not,  not only I feel this way, but also my classmates. So I think that should be his problem.

     

    Anyway, I do hope he will pass this exam, too.

  • Mar 19

    2008-03-19 09:55:12

    Never heard anyone said "I don't like music", like no one would doubt his/her good taste for beauty, no one would deny his/her good taste for music. So it's stupid enough to promote his value on Music and so...

    I don't buy your words doesn't mean you are wrong, but that we have different value system that we formed through different life experience, and most of the time we stand in a different place, to look at it from a different perspective. And maybe what we're talking about is showing us a different aspect of it.

    If you happen to see people that think alike, you should be happy, otherwise, why bother to go upset or irritated?

  • Love is a bus

    2008-03-15 10:21:01

    To love is like to get on a bus. But it’s like playing game with you that your bus just doesn’t seem to be coming while the other buses coming and going.

     

    When it finally comes belatedly, it comes in couples, and then you get lost which to take, for fear of missing the best. Not until you get on the bus will you get the answer.

     

    We have different routes leading to the same place, all up to your choices. Maybe, to take the shortcut way, you gotta wait, if you can’t bear waiting, ok, you can get on those buses after which you gotta switch to another to get there. Some fast, some slow, some never stop…

     

    And there are some people who thrust onto a jam-packed bus struggling all the way, some who mistken his bus and have to get off halfway or switch...and some who miss their destination but have a good time during the journey... and some other...

     

    For their comfortalbe buses, many young people thought they were young enough to wait, then it turned out that many of them were losing patience...and left randomly with a passing bus, leaving behind all they had spent for nothing. It's the persuit of perfection or the unworthiness of quitting that left them wating and waiting ???

     

    For some, the bus is not coming, never ever...Nothing to complain, they should have known it and quit waiting sooner.

     

    However, miracle happens. The bus he has been waiting for so long comes when he is about to leave.

     

    Maybe in years, some lucky dogs may have their own cars and don't have to wait in a bus station any more...but another problem comes--the shortage of parking space. Problems will never end.

  • My computer crashed !!

    2008-03-13 18:17:35

    My computer crashed !!  I bet it's for some hardware problems.

     

    I dropped it off to the aftersale service centre cuz it's still being warranted. But they claimed 50 yuan for the being repaced switch that's out of its 1-year warranty.

     

    I haven't gone fetch it yet, maybe tomorrow!!

     

    ......

     

    It's not my day !!!

  • I did it

    2008-03-08 22:29:00

    It's like a long march to get a driver's license, and that's definitely true in GuangZhou. 8 months was all it took to finish all the tests, one by one, amonge which i gotta wait for almost 2 months for the next... Well, it's not always the case, some lucky dogs just spent 4 to 6 months for all these.

    Anyway, I did it!!!!

    The driving test was in this morning, thank god, everything went smoothly , and it took no more than 3 miuntes to finish the section. You know what, I really stressed out last night and lost some sleep...but it just turned out much easier than i expected.

    And it's just this guy who last went out with us in the long distance training under the symbol C, that failed the drving test.(don't know him? check out "On The Way" in my Jan's issue for more)... Poor him !! He should have studied the rearview mirror and made sure there was no cars coming behind when he started moving the car...that's his weak point,deadly, he always repeated the same mistake!! For god's sake, does he ever know what rearview mirror is used for?? Is it for decoration?? 

    ...

    I am going to sign up for BEC higher next Monday, and it will cost me 1160 yuan,(610 for entry fee and 550 for training fee), a big sum of money to me  ... you see, broke Dan as I am !! Well you may ask why it takes so much, to tell you the answer, it changes according to the exchange rate between RMB and Pound...emmm, I just learned that china CPI has hit a new high of 7.1% in Jan.

    It's kind of like risking the money! So, i gotta go all out for the best, I swear!!!

  • TAKING A WOMAN TO BED! (share)

    2008-03-01 16:27:51

    What is the difference between girls/woman aged: 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, 58. 68, and 78?

    At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.

    At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.

    At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take  her to bed.

    At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.

    At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid going to bed.

    At 58 -- You stay in bed to avoid her story.

    At 68 -- If you take her to bed, that'll be a story!

    At 78 -- What story??? What bed??? Who the hell are you???

  • My experience in chatting groups

    2008-02-29 22:55:18

    Never updated my blog so frequently, but I am going to put up a post about my experience chatting in QQ groups...those we call english learning groups, where we speak english only..

    Last summer long, I kept doing one thing--chatting on the ne