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  • control your action,then you can control your life

    2008-1-24

       I use two days to finish reading a book named《memiors of Ingrid Bergman》.It touched me so many feelings.From a single-parent family to a girl who stuggle to her file-star dream,she was facing so many decisions to make,and no one in the world could help her,even his husband or lovers.Though I am not very agree with her divorce with her first husband.

        But she is a charming lady who have her own idea.I am very appericate about  that her tenderness and independence after she experience many distresses which are never writen on her face .Maybe that is the highest compass to be a women,and she had tried her best.

         I always believe that no person's life is entire.'Cause no one knows at the time of the birth he or she have known to deal with all things.Then he would hurt.And these hurts not only accompany all his life,but also effect his outlook of the world and life,equally effecting the his decisions about life.No one would avoid hurts,so no one would perfect.

         But thers are sitll some great people they tried their best to walk out the trap in thier life road.Except Ingrid Bergan,I still appreciate Zhang manyu,a lady who is the symbol of being mature and charming ,from which we know there is a beauty called never-old,even one day getting older with wrinkled skin on her face with time.

          From media report,I get to know that she made some boyfriend ,and she tried her best to love.But every piece of love has not come to a round-off result.But she conquer herself over the beatens with wisdom.What is the most important thing in life?Love,money,friendship or sth else?As I know from Zhang's story,she has ever thrown all her savings,including her true love to a man she believes to accompany all her life.Finally she not only lost her bills but also the belover.But she cheer up and immediately to restart her new prosperous life.

          Why should we meet the same mistake again and again.That because we cann't learn the lesson form our former fault and cann't contol ourselves the mistaken action which formed in a long time and come to an inertia.

          I guess the wise woman in history is so great is because they come over the inertia with wrong ideas.It is so hard so a women who can do is great,and maybe in our life such women are uncountable!Mostly,they are normal without public attention.So,believe you can also do such great thing .

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  • the two days' experience of my entrance examination for postgraduate school

    2008-1-22

     

                       

          The postgraduate examination has finished two days before,and untill now I could cool my head to memorize the process and write down these words.It indeed give me many notes that worth sharing.
          The first thing that I feel a little regreted is that if possible next time I should try my best to get clear about which examination roon you are in the day before.'Cause I am a little tired and try to take a wishful thinking that I could know it in a short time.But in fact,it took me more than 40 minutes untill I asked one candidate who was at the same examination distrit as me.I really began to doubt that if I could find my room before 8:20 when the exam has began in a sence.I just wanted to know how many scores I could get even I haven't reviewed the books.And it can give me a lesson which I can learn from for the next.So I really didn't want to miss any test of the four.God helps me!


    The second thing is I should believe myself no matter how  great and famous  the college is if you has prepared diligently, your dream will come true.When I answer the paper I found the questions are ones which have been mentioned by my teachers when I studied in school. But I am not a obedient student who buried herself in specialized subjects.And if I carefully reviewed the major points of the subjects,I also can obtain the scores.But I couldn’t.Especially at the final test,I received a large sealed testing envelop in which another copy of paper was prepared which the teacher purposely  set for the students who have working experience related our major. The questions are the phenomenons which happened in the past one year and are  closed to  our major.The teacher aske us to use the Principles to anlysis. But I  haven’t notice the events and donn’t know how to deal with.When I came back,I found if I had treated a little serious, I might have less regret. The possibility  might has given to me, god and the teacher has given us the chance,but I didn’t cherish.

     

       I see the hope, and  give myself another chance,and it is the last,I promise.

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  • A short message to me elder sister

    2008-1-19

         

    As the Chinese new year is coming,the family members who are outside are preparing to go back ,so it is with me.Every year I would choose some special present for my parents;, my elder sister and my young brother.From the bottom of my heart,the fact no person will send me a gift for the coming year makes me sad. Now I felt tired,and felt pressure that from myself.
       I send a message to her just now and tell her I choose an inexpensive thing for her as a wish her happiness in the coming year. There so many paybacks which make me stress out when I am at thought of them. You cann't avoid those things.I hope she could understand my painstaking words.She is a good and kind girl except for some shortcomings.And we are the same in some aspects.But I hope in the future she could live well with her husband and can deal with things in her life appropriately.I wanna to insist sending her a gift every year which makes her inspired when she felt alone for struggling for the happy life.
      My family member often feel apologized that they didn't care me very well with some aspects among the three children.That is not completely their faults,although I felt hurt when I reminice some things at some time.Actually I often feel my mother is a strong-will woman when I stay with my boyfriend.At that time, I am very appreciate that she could tolerate the lonely days when my father had to go out for making money.(in fact,this also give a lesson that as a woman,you should not only tender to your husband all your life,but also you should have the ability to support your family's life.Otherwise,the couple would be seperated for a long time.)
       Everytime I went back,A would do something good for me to eat.At one time I felt unaccustomed to that,'cause those things cann't be the compensation.What she do is just for her futuer days.Although these words I would not speak out,and just do the housework as before.But now the environment and mood is changing.Maybe something at some time,your thought would be changing.(one thought is right at that time,the situation at that time determines your feeling,you cann't deny you are wrong).
       So I should keep strict with myself,then I have the ablity to influence the people around me.As the time goes,they would know what a person I am.Maybe there are some things which makes me moved,but I cann't be exposed to.I  I know once you lost yourself and my life will be involved many trivals those are superficial.

       Once your treat a person you should be sincere no matter I would choose words or silence to you.And I should be a sincere person no matter what kind of the person he or she is.You can choose silence,but you cann’t choose to lie to others.That ,in fact is lying to yourself,and do bad for your moral character.

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  • tomorrow's postgradute examination

    2008-1-18

       Tomorrow will the national postgraduate examnation.I know different students or participators who have jobs will have differnt moods.Take me for example,as I have been always badgering with trivial matters,and didn't pay much time in the good job,so I just won't give up with a feeling that the most important thing is to participate.And one day I can tell my son or daughter"yes,I indeed konw what the meaning or feeling when you persuilt a postgraduate degree"

        I doubt if I have the hope to be a postgraduate student in the college one day as the responsibities are coming.It is different from western countries,the descendants have great idea of family,though this has been weaken a little in some parts of China.And maybe the parents didn't give you too much pressure,but sometimes I feel I don't have so much energy.So,I begin to give up,and have the clear realization about this Examination.In fact,I am workong very well,being praised by the boss and colleagues.And I am insisting learning with a modest quality.

        So I will try my best to do the things that is worth.And take for granted the things that I cann't do well.You know,happy and lost,hope and despair are not the monopoly of the youth.

       

     

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  • Shanghai's patrolman at night

    2008-1-16

         I have gone to China's many places.But I found the city which gives people the feeling he is safe is Shanghai.The conclusion that can can be most illstrated is the patrolman at night.

         When the dawn is coming,the patrolmans  in different communities get together.Armed with full equipments,they talked and laughed,seeming so happy and proud of their work.Even though there would be nothing happen at that night,but the apperance of them give us a feeiling of safety,and the terrorist a feeling of great precautions.

        But in Guangdong,not only the policemen but the local inhaitants will tell you to watch out for the thieves.And at night you cann't walk outside ony one person yourself.The theft will be happen at any time,of course,you maybe not meet with such case.But your friend will tell you"Oh,you are so lucky,and you are so bold"

        saluted to the patrolmen!

       

         I have gone to China's many places.But I found the city which gives people the feeling he is safe is Shanghai.The conclusion that can can be most illstrated is the patrolman at night.

         When the dawn is coming,the patrolmans  in different communities get together.Armed with full equipments,they talked and laughed,seeming so happy and proud of their work.Even though there would be nothing happen at that night,but the apperance of them give us a feeiling of safety,and the terrorist a feeling of great precautions.

        But in Guangdong,not only the policemen but the local inhaitants will tell you to watch out for the thieves.And at night you cann't walk outside ony one person yourself.The theft will be happen at any time,of course,you maybe not meet with such case.But your friend will tell you"Oh,you are so lucky,and you are so bold"

        saluted to the patrolmen!

       

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  • reason for these days' break

    2008-1-06

        For the private computer has gone with something wrong,so I couldn't write the diary in the blog until today the house owner came to insolve the problem.

         The new year has come since five days ago.And these days I met nothing special and just worked and worked.But when I land the space of my blog today,I found many old friend has been missing these days also.

        I will continue to write and insist in doing it.Haha!

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  • new year's wish

    2008-1-01

          Today is the first day of another year,I wish myself a good new year.Reminicing the past year,I began to understand there important rules that I should follow:

          The first is that time is mortal,do the most important thing,then you won't give yourself too much trouble.For the past three years since I gratuated from the University,I managed to give me the most biggest space to touch many things I would like to,and I had many dreams for the future's life,plenty enjoying happiness of the process that they had.But as the awareness of the responisibility to be a family's important role,I find I should choose one of them as a way to support my living,and spend more time on it and develop the field deeper and deeper,but spend less time on other things.

           The second rule is beatuy is a very important thing for a lady.You cann't have any doubt on it.Yesterday I went shopping with my boyfriend.As the temperature went lower and lower,I took out my cotton clothes and put on,although it is a lillte out of fashion,and make me look a little childish,but it is really keep me warm.In my eyes,it was my free time not the working days.So,I needn't pay much attention to that.But I am wrong,when I arrived in the People Square railwaystation,I found myself simply a countrywomen(God knows I am not a person who treats people with a specified colour ,I can understand the hardness of working people,and we are the same.)I told my boyfriend if my college meet with me,they would say "woo,Linda,today is not Hallowmas."Really,I found myself was so much lack of self-confidence among the people back and forth.And I began to realize why some girl ,who maybe has the same ablility could earn more salary than me.In one word,that is one useful thing I should try to enhance.

          The third rule is too long time of ease will make you forget how it comes uneasily and how much you have paid for in the old days,not only phsically but mentality and you should be working harder,but not indulging yourself too long time.

           Happy new year to everyone,and more healthier to you and your family!

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  • no problem with temperatment,so does life

    2007-12-30

        I donn't know how to express my meaning clearly,maybe it is the problem that I haven't master enough words and idioms in the language of English.What I want to say is that if one person's characteristic is out of question,then his or her life cann't be too bad that he or she cann't be called to a really living person.

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  • The glamor of silence

    2007-12-28

    Today I read a net friends' diary,and she wrote that she recently found that her teacher ,Nithan,was a graduate of elite grandes ecoles(Tsinghua Unversity)and the very best of science entrance examination to University in 1996 of Shangdong province.She was so astonished for Nithan's background (maybe Nithan has never mentioned about his experience before her when they work together.)Finally,she foun that stand to reason.Nithan is a talented and appealing man,not only his outstanding project experience but humorous style of language show that his good education.

     When I read the passage,I was killed by her teacher's great personnalities.And it also made me believe the glamour of silence which I all the time stick at.For a long time,there is a misunderstanding in people's eyes that to keep silent is a subsidiary way to communicate with others.But it is just opposite in fact. We know the most important thing between us is to share ideas.Maybe it is we that use words excessively,so we have ignore the value of silence.But sometimes,we know language is pale.

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  • give yourself more enjoyable feelings when you are upset

    2007-12-27

            Do you sometimes feel upset or something that uncertain in life will give you a ghost of fear.These days I am so recently going through the same sad experience, 'cause our new manager hasn't come up in my department,I know only too well ,especially for a green hand in our company,what is means.

            About ten minutes when I alone stayed in the office, my mind couldn't help wandering here and there,sunking in a deep thought about many many senseless things.But then I suddenly find the key to this bad feeling--maybe it is just an exterior pressure I give myself,since the things no matter bad or good will happen unchangeably,why not give myself a bouyant mood.Then I feel much better,and complete the job of today's splendidly.

            So,when you feel lonely or upset,or impetous,please relax yourself,and your mood will be coloured with an beautiful background.And everything will change at that one moment.

            

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