How to be an adult

     New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> At the curving of the life road from an unconstrained girl to be an lady who has family,I am so eager to give me a place to make the life't blueprint.What is a good life,and how to spend a good life?As one of the 80's,we had experienced too much accompanying by the China's development in recent 30 years,such as the policy of reformation and opening to the outside world,the basic state policy to promote family planning in an all-round way(this policy change many children's fate,especially girls in country,as I know),the reformation of the national entrance exammination of unversities and the coming of computers'era.

      So much happened,and those are not only to promote China's general power,improve people's level of life,but also to leave some questions for us to think of.And many "whys" come out.For example,why so many 80s and 90s parents choose to divorce so popularly,and tell the child to receive when he or she had no time to enjoy the family's warmness and happiness,and why the same age of the 80s,but have different fate,'cause before the year of 1999 in which the chance to further education was much larger than before.Many senior school students who have hope to study in unversities couldn't catch the oppurnity.

      Different experiences mold different person.One reason can cause different results.Maybe the hardness could make a person ,but also can ruin one completely.Those who are always blaming for environment would not understand this truth,although there is some sense in their thought.('cause one wounded experience in youth is more harmful than harsh words,and it likes an small tree didn't have the right place to grow.)In China ,some groups of 80s children cann't understand that more.

    Now they grow up as adults to face the reality of a mature animals' world.Then how to be an adult.I asked the older,and looked up some information,and find the elementary answer: to judge p a person to be a mature person whether or not,the standard is the growth of mentality.If one person can think independently,and have his own moral principles,and know he should do things by himself,but not to count on others' help to resolve his own problem,and not easily influenced by others opinions,then maybe he is mature.

     But the experts said that the maturity in mentality is the most diffcult.And some people even arrive in their old,they donn't have the realization to be self-independence in mentality.Ao,they cann't be called a mature persom compeletly.One who wants to be mentally mature,he should promote self-support,adhering to study hard ,and relfcts his own thoughts and feelings,bettering his ideological system,and enchacing his intoward world,which makes his power of intward more strong!