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Nothing beautiful would like to stay for you....

Something about my BF( Fiance)

2008-01-09 16:04:02

It's the time for introduce my Fiance --Xiao Bai, and intended to show Monica a different relationship from her.

We got along each other for 5 years. In the 5 years, I have experienced the studying for Master degree, and work in another province for 2 years. There are some stories between us, and also the some of  reasons why we didn't break up even we have separated for 2 years.

I am the Buddhist, and I had a necklace of a Buddha when I was studdying for the Master degree. When I went to the WC, my necklace with a figure of Buddhist dropped in the bottom of the pipes of urinal in the W.C. ( forgive my poor English, don't know how to explain it well: there is just the place for our pissing).

I was crying seriously, not because the necklace was made by golden,but it was a figure of buddhist...Guess what happened?? Yes... He helped me....He is a person very neaty, hates the dirt very much. But he put his arm into the pipe of urinal ( because it was too confined, and it was failed when tried with the hook because the necklace has broken, couldn't got up by hook, so only could done with arm). He Bend himself over of the urinal, put all of his left arm in, after about 40 minutes, he got back my necklace.....Of course he rush to have bath immediately after picked it back for me.......

Another thing happened after I went to Guangdong for working while he was studying for his doctor degree in Heilongjiang. You know the distance: 5 hours by airplane, 38 hours by train.we were both poor that moment since I just entered work, and he was a student. Once he helped his teacher for a project, he got 10,000RNB for rewards. He bought a train ticket for going to see me(sit ticket dont have a bed for nearly 40 hours because he wanted to save money for me), and spent the money for travalling with me, and bought me many clothes and little things I like, then left himself several hundred yuan for living, and the ticket for going back (sit only still, 40 hours), then gave all the left money to me, because he said I may need money more........When nearly Chinese new year, he bought the airplan ticket for me but he sitted back to his hometown still...........

My friends said, it is hard to find someone love you don't mind himself.... I also couldn't understand it ....these 5 years... he treated me as the first day we met...He accompany me for shopping every week, he said there is not more happy things for him than seeing me happy.....He will buy everything I like in his ability if it makes me happy...If there is delicous food, he will not eat much after I have enough....He will not be relax and satisfy if I am depressed or frustrated from work or something.....

Maybe there are different sorts of man..and different sorts of relationships, for my Fiance, he loves me more than himselve....He never changed in the 5 years....We get along each other almost of the time after work, and it works well so far.......

 




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kathy0317的个人空间 删除 kathy0317 发布于2008-02-13 15:14:29
Sorry I reply so lately...

Yes ...your words are reasonable and maybe you could read my heart....but I have no choice but enjoy this relationship
Monica1981的个人空间 删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-01-15 17:50:41
Seems that you are too busy to come to your blog lately...

Okay, my last message is a bit of joke...

But seriously,

In your article, you doesn't sound like you love him...

You make me feel that you have to stay with him because he treats you so well and you feel you owe him sth...

Simply, relationships won't work in this kind of condition, Okay?

I didn't see you wrote anywhere in your article saying that You love him...

All you wrote is about how nice he treats you....

If you really love each other, why seperating for 2 years? you make love sound so powerful...so why can't he study in one of the universities in the city where you work???

so confusing....

I guess that is typical Chinese relationship....full of sentimental stories which try to earn tears from others...

It simply doesn't work for me...sorry babe : )
Monica1981的个人空间 删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-01-13 12:02:09
Okay okay okay...

You don't need to prove that how great your relationship is and how nice your man is...

well, instead of saying all the fake shit to you..

I would say....

try another 50 years with him first ~ ~ ~

By the way, comparing with your peaceful and grateful relationship and BF,

Brad and I never stop arguing....

One minute ago, I wanted to kick his ass!

Then the next minute, we go to bed room and have a fuck....and that is the time I feel best about our relationship....

Hope your sex life is as good as your relationship in future : )
scoundrel1972的个人空间 删除 scoundrel1972 发布于2008-01-10 19:02:31
seems that you are deep in love.
the boy is lucky to have found so pretty a girl as his girlfriend. I am jealous of him. hehehehe
vivi_zhu的个人空间 删除 vivi_zhu 发布于2008-01-10 12:42:03
for your article ,i want to say sth.
i know you are a happy ,lucky girl to meet your BF,althourgh there are many,many good man like him outside.but you need to know the one belongs to you is unique,you need to cherish him,when he loves you ,you should give him the love as good as he gives you ,if not more than that ,but not appreciation only! because the boy loves you also want to be loved by you ,he want you to treat him better and better as time goes by.anyway ,i wish you have a happy life with him
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