About Korean man

2008-02-14 11:15:28

New Roman" color=#006699 size=3>Some Chinese girls like Korean men due to the Korean beautiful dramas, I was the fan of the Korean drama & Korean man also. But please realize the truth, it is not like what they performed in the dramas....Below is the bloody example...

One of my friends fell in love with a Korean man seriously. After dated for a long time, he told her, he had 2 kids and of course in the marriage!! She shouted angrily: why you chased me crazily even you had a wife!! why you cheated me!!! The man answered: oh you never asked me if I had a wife and kids so it was not my fault....I will be divorce, please wait for me...

I guessed my friend must was crazy, she was out of control that moment, she decided to wait for him till he become divorced. Since then, she cried everyday every night, talked about her story to all of her friends and her relatives...But how silly she was, he only loved her body....When he got back to Korea, he never contacted with her....

When they were dating...they slept together...He never agreed to use condom cause he said he not feeling good with it...She always took the medicine to avoid being pregnant. She told me she felt very bad every time she took such medicine....but he never changed in any point is he wants...

You think it is terrible ?? Oh no it is not finished yet after about 1 year, she built a relathinship with a nice man, and decided to marry him. Someday the Korean man appeared and talked about some words with regrets andf tears, such as:" you are the most innocent girl I had ever known, and it was the most regret thing that I had left from you; you are everything I need, you are all I love...please give me a chance to cherish you....." such shits!! My friend refused : I will never believe you, please say to other girls! I will be married,sorry...

Guess what? he cheated her pass word of her msn and email, and talked with her fiance : " she is a bitch...she cheated you...she never love you...she did sex with me everyday " then sent pics of her...some sexy pics they took together before....Her fiance left from her after that....

That's the story she told me during this Chinese new year...she talked about it with tears....I couldn't say anything but angery too much....I wish he die...I wish he get the most cruel revenge on himself.....

Girls please clear your eyes...never fall in love with someone easily...never love Korean man due to the faked dramas....cause it is not true.

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删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-02-15 21:25:15: guys care so much about their girlfriends' past. You know what ? I think girls are responsible for that situation. Cause many of us let them do that to us.
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Very pleased to hear that from a Chinese girl...

What we call - Market Force.......

删除 Manzana 发布于2008-02-14 14:12:30: Monica is right. If your friend's boyfriend left her because what had happened between your friend and that Korean man, maybe his love for her was not strong enough for him to overcome the shock. He might love your friend but he loves himself more and cares only about his own feelings. Monica may do not understand why in China, guys care so much about their girlfriends' past. You know what ? I think girls are responsible for that situation. Cause many of us let them do that to us.

And those pictures of intimate moments. Why a girl'd like to take that kind of pictures? It will be difficult for her to control who's gonna have access to them. Not good for girls, at least in China.

删除 Monica1981 发布于2008-02-14 13:14:39: Okay, baby, let Moni give some opinions like an adult:

1, shit happens in everyone's life....so tell your friend, get over with it and hope she has learnt...

2, It is the Korean guy's fault to cheat on his wife and your girlfriend...but! Morons like that are everywhere...NOT ONLY in Korea !!! So please don't judge the rest of Korean guys the same!

3, It is a girl's responsible to wear condom! Please please, girls, if your innocent Mum hasn't taught you that, I do the job! We use condoms to protect not only from his sperms but also from all sorts of diseases!!! Pills canNOT help you to avoid herpes, AIDS..ect, ect.....

4, No doubt that the korean guy is a bitch to tell her fiance everything.....BUT! If her fiance is a real man, he really loves his girlfriend, he will NOT dump her like that!

So if I was the girl, I will say to him: "Ye, I slept with him...but it was in the past...I was born to have my life not born for you, Okay? So if you dump me because of my past, you don't deserve my love."

5, I find many Chinese girls are very easy to fall in love...I can't understand why.....

But maybe you girls can't understand me either...maybe it is one of your cutural thing....

However, this is how I think about the topic of LOVE:

First, I don't love a person at the first sight because I don't judge a book by its cover...

Second, it takes me a long time to love a man....I have been with Brad for three years....I just found I might fall in love with him during the last Christmas.....

Love takes a process......For the first three months, I was very impressed with Brad because he is good-looking, well-built and modest....

After 9 months, we understood each other more...then I had strong feeling for him.....

Then he moved in with me and after living together, at one stage, Brad and I fought every week and I thought he might be the wrong person.....but after a while, we realized we had different habits and we both made some changes to make the other happy.....

Then after two years, I just started to realized that I fell in love with him....

So we stayed together for three years and I just loved him for one year.....

That's why I always tell him: "I let you sleep in my bed but it doesn't mean you ocuppy me heart, Okay?"

You see, girls should stop being passive in terms of love......We humans, we made mistakes...same to guys....

If Brad blames me for my past, I tell him to get fucked.....
Because! I never blame him for his past, right?

I never asked how many Chinese chicks he fucked before and how many times he went for hookers...I am not interested as long as he doesn't cheat on me now.....

I love him for who he is now....in the past, he might be an asshole, he may hurt many women, or he may be a loser who has been dumped 100 times......who give a shit anyway....all I know is he loves me, he treats me well and he is real man....and that's far more enough for me to carry on this relationship....

If a girl loves a guy not for his past, why can't a guy do the same? why shouldn't he do the same to her, huh?

So tell your friend, she has nothing to hate on....all she should do is to learn from her mistakes and move on.....both guys are not worthy.....

AND!!!! Please wear condoms, please, please.....for your own good......

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