My worries

New Roman">I planned to marry my bf recently, but I have to commit there are some worries to me .

My bf came from  the countryside, so of course has a country parents. I went to his parents’ house several times before, and you know it was just the traditional country house… Everything is not as clean as in the city, his parents were very strange to me….everything is strange to me. There are really some problems made me worried.

1.       They may want to live with us in the future.

Although they didn’t say that clearly to me, I could feel it. My bf always express his parents’ admiration for other relatives who live with their son and son’s wife in big city.

You know the life style are totally different between me and his parents. We will spend money in the weekend for dining outside, travelling nearby, shopping, going to cinema….but their family only spend less than 200 USD every year for living….I couldn’t image what will be their reaction when they saw I bought 3 kinds of perfume once, and each price is more than 100 USD….

2.       They want us to have babes soon, as soon as we become married, and only could have son.

Oh shit, they want us to marry soon, as soon as we get married. But we don’t want it at least in 5 years. We have our own career, and work very hard at the moment, and we want to enjoy the life since we have studied and worked for a long time, but his parents want babe….They want only son, no daughter, that’s also the shit traditional thoughts….

3.       They want to take care of our kid for us in the future….

Oh my god, it is another terrible idea!!! How can a country grand parents take care of  my kid in the future( if I have one day) !!!! Are they crazy !!! But in their opinion, our kid will be theirs, because of the traditional thoughts. Maybe the kid is also my bf’s ,but of course not mine….because the kid should belong to the man and the man’s family!!!!!

Dear friends, I have already be bothered nearly crazy, how can such terrible and funny thoughts come??? How can I accept??  Do you think I am too selfish....