"You can see the speck in your friend's eye. But you don't notice the log in your own eye. How can you say, 'My friend, let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you don't see the log in your own eye? You show-offs! First, get the log out of your own eye. Then you can see how to take the speck out of your friend's eye."  I don't understand it well, it takes me time, I think. 

I summed up two theories on PR jobs in the morning, it might be checked by the interviewers, I think. If I'm accepted finally, these two theories would see you in here. They looked more like two Buddha's sacred relics.   

Lunch with a friend of Red Cross Society and received his best wishes.

Luckily for my family members, all of them now are in their good conditions. Hallelujah to God!

Received a bestwishes- message from a headcounting account for my tomorrow interview.

Sending festival ( Lunar Fifteen ) message to friends...  

20/2/2008

Psalm99 "You are our mighty King, a lover of fairness, who sees that justice is done everywhere in Israel." If there's somebody believe in God 100 %, he would never complain for anything, so he would be given a peaceful world as a reward!

Blueberrypie & cocoy together chose a J.crew suit and skirt for my interview in Blueberrypie's clothing store, I believe these two professionals'taste would help my interview more successfully.

Huang Cheng Lao Ma's hotpot tastes nothing unless you have a spicy tongue.

Monthly period arrived in a right time and trimmed the risk of embarrassing in Beijing.

I have to admit that I don't need music very much when I was questioned Yes or Not. A music teacher acknowledged I'm not a music fever by chatting with me!!! In her mind, there're only two kinds of people on the earth, She and I can be the representatives respectively. "I would rather die if there's no music in this world",she said," I know you don't like music, for you don't like shopping..."

I got know a girl at Blueberrypie's clothing store in the afternoon, who's a music teacher in a primary school. Who looks similiar to Hong Kong star Lin Huishan and speaks very gently... Her pink scarves and grey classic semi-coat attracted me a lot when she entered, since these two colors matched so perfectly that outstood her beauty. However, such a well educated lady doesn't know who's her fiance and where's him, even though she's 3 years older than me. Another pity is her poor income, I think, only 1,200 yuan she can make for 60 lessons a month! It's unfair, isn't? I'm glad we left contact number to each other when she had to say goodbye. Best wishes to her love story...

I decided to change my schedule when I received a call from my friend Li who sounds not so happy.Because the business's pressure of her own company, she looks a little bit frustrated.I can do nothing to make her better but saying some scrīptures in Holy Bible. Yeah, I believe you already know the end of this story, those scrīptures work successfully!

18/2/2008    

Psalm 37:1-2 " Don't be annoyed by anyone who does wrong, and don't envy them. They will soon disappear like grass without rain." It's really hard for maii to forgive sinners passed by me, yet God told me to forgive sinners 7 x 70 times. Oh, I'm really ashamed on it.

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, thanks to God, Jesus had prepared a box of Lindt Swiss Chocolate to cocoy,in Mycal Department base 1 floor... There, as a runner, I picked it up and put in a luxury bag and paid Rmb15. Tell you the truth, the tag price of this chocolate is Rmb65,However, its expiry date is the end of March, so... So in the night, after brief explaination,I got a text message from my husband cocoy " Li Hai! I love you!"           

Considering of my weak stomach, friend blueberrypie invited me to have a simple lunch around 2pm.Guess what's it? Two cups of steamed egg of Japanese style . Given a chance,I'd repay her 200 cups ...

With reminder of blueberrypie, I finished hiccups by taking the medicine of " Qi Zhi Wei Tong chong Ji" but soon, a new problem is coming !  Farting Vs Hiccups and won this battle... 

I'd rather be deaf when I was passing through the Qing Ni Wa Shopping Area...  The fusion- music there are too noisy to let me stop, which noise seemed more like a huge monster's going to tear me up! I'm disappointed with such environment so called " commercial society".

The leading role of today is a dog, named Xin Xin, a pet of Blueberrypie's families. You know, I can't imagine there's any relations between a 24.60yuan - Slide Cheese and Xinxin's daily food...But it's true!!!

Give up appointment is kind of polite to your partner, when you are out of fix.

2/13/2008 

Ecclesiastes 10:10 "If iron is blunt, and one does not whet the edge,then more strengh must be exerted;but wisdom helps one to succeed." What does God mean? Wisdom is knifeboard, isn't?

In the evening, my husband drived me home and saw a film directed by Richard Roxburgh " Roumlous, My father". Beautiful pictures, compact polts and profound connotations moved us deeply, and raised a hot discussion between cocoy and maii.

Remember to prepare some white rice congee and a small dish of preserved szechuan pickle only to the patient who's suffering stomache. Both the light flavor and fresh colour are really good to bad appetite.

I got stomach twitching not longer after eating some Coffee Ice. It's time to well protect myself, since I've been 33 years old and I have to take good care of my baby,husband,parents,parents-in-law,...my job!  Maii, please stop eating iced food,especially in the winter, Okay?

Have you heard the songs of TWINS? Star Chen Guanxi's negtative news is promoting the sales of Twins' album, and now I'd like to listen the voice of twins,even I've been insulating to them ever since they showed as stars.

Little Maii's teacher, Ms.Jiang, warmly greeted little maii,cocoy and I in her newly opened kindergarden, who has been teaching Qiaoqiao (little maii )nearly for 18mths. She's admired and respected by children's parents for her open-armed love to children and skillful experiences...The tuition is RMB3,200 for 12-month Sundays' lessons, and we will get a 35% off discount as an old member. Actually, the price is reasonable. This price was previously opposed by Ms.Jiang's partener for low revenue, but she insisted on this rate... She said to me" No ill-gotten wealth in education", she hopes to teach children as many as possible," If the tuition is too high, many families would not afford it and many children would miss the good time and be undereducated unfortunately. That shall not be the aim of education, I think."  Salute for Ms.Jiang !

For the pain of my stomach, I have to leave my Qiaoqiao sleeped with my mother.

2/12/2008

Ecclesiastes 5:18-20/ " This is what I have seen to be good: it's fitting to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of life God gives us; for this is our lot. Likewise all to whom God gives wealth and possessions and whom he enables to enjoy them, and to accept their lot and find enjoyment in their toil- this is the gift of God. For they will scarcely brood over the days of their lives, because God keeps them occupied with the joy of their hearts." Hongkong star Mr.Chen Guanxi now is suffering terrible fans' consensus for his nake pictures have been unveiling on internet lately. It seems he would never get over this case with ease. Please study the words of God- " find enjoyment in their toil", it's not " find enjoyment in their enjoyment."  This is easily a true lesson for youngers. Hallelujah!

I've successfully stolen two hours from my little maii and cocoy around 4pm, and lingered alone in a Shopping Mall. I just enjoy such kind of a lost and allowed my mind followed with my legs and my eyes...

The lunch today were prepared specially at home by a friend of maii & cocoy, Miss Dong's cooking skill did make both my mouth and belly bigger.

Even though cocoy drived little maii & I to seaside in late morning, the winter wind beside sea is too much to us. However,the fresh air is warmly welcome.

I'd like to look for a good music for a perfect lunch.

Little maii cried seriously in the afternoon instead of her regular sleep, i guess she might miss me. During Spring Festival holidays, she has used to stay with me for 24hrs. Yes, i have to admit that we are never closer before.

Maii is till in her uptight situation, for 6mth-layoff at home. I reminded myself only to buy the things I need, not the things I want. After check out, I found most stuff in my shopping bag will bring happiness to my mom and my child. 

10/2/2008.   

Yes, she lost again...Who had thought will never lost again : )

Unfortunately, She still lives, on the earth.

Sometimes she hopes to land on the world ever showed in her dream, no work, no love..

She's only a bird ...Maybe that scenery only can happen after her die?  Maybe the current experience is  the true dream.

She thought it over again and again, when she walks in Hutong, when she 's alone, when she left office at night, when she misses her baby maii...

Where's the answer? Or I already found out he answer.

People working hard  for a better life, a luxury car, a huge house... unless they're tired, they're going to die from some sickness. 

The world goes forward without waiting for anyone to find out the life target of their own......Yes,no need to find out the answer. There's no need to do so.It's a dream only, so just do it before  God wakes you up : ) : )

For sure,the people who is deserved to live longer before Game Over shall be smart enough. Who masters the policy of Game, who has passion on it, who always save strength on his road, who never hesitate to make decision for limitted time, who doesn't have time to love and be loved, who has a visible goal and knows the shortcut..

If the man in the Game never stop, never be sensitive, never quarel,  never be disappointed, never abuse his strength, never waste time... He will finally become the winner, after many failed experiences...

Kongfu Panda is really a good movie, not because of its cartoon design, just because the password paper, which well implies that- Everybody is possible to reach his goal if he has the panda's character - never give up, never stop practice. It's the only secret of SUCCESS in the world.

Certainly, if you focus on your goal, if you are not stopped by yourself, you will take a shorter time to find the road to Heaven!!!

Hallelujah~ Thanks to God, he loves me, he would not like his princess lost on the earth. He already tailored an uniform to Maii to win her battle in the Game. It's her destination - to be the life winner, to glory his Holy Father, to explore a road to Heaven! 

So she has been bleeding with the blood of her father again and will full of strength again!  The words of God is such kind of backup, together with the nutrition food, scientific working & sleeping time, and a passionate belief.

As for Qiaoqiao, my little maii and her grandparents, please just allow me just pray for God's 24/7 protection, as you know it's not good for me to distract my attention at this moments. 

As for the future plan, it totally depends on your ambitions in the God. If you like, you can make your dreams true!!!

maii spent a happy Sunday! 7:30 Get up, clean house, washing clothes, mopping floor, eating bkf.8:55 left home to attend Yoga Class.But the information was wrong, i had to go to hotel to finish some works. However, the door has been double-locked, the password didn't work this time. I have to back to yoga class, what would have me change subway and walk for more than 10 minutes. Before i went to hotel, i just had my lunch with a young mother leading her 4-year-old daughter. She really gave me some good advise on teaching child.What's more, i know a fatastic herbal medicine from her,.. It sounds right to my mother's feet spur! It's the biggest fish i got today :P :PIn the high-temperature-yoga class, maii sweated unbelievably. In this class, she met a beautiful and skillful girl, who have been practicing yoga for more than 4 years... She knows many good coach in Beijing! I will try to know her in next week, you know,i run out of my name cards already.Around 9pm, I called QQ, she talked with me so sweetly...She told me she's so happy today as well.Grand fathers & Grand mothers played with her with Muma,Peng Peng Che in Dalian Labour Park.Cocoy dialed to me when he's aboarding the train to Beijing at same time, it let him hesitated for one second to check with me for his morning breakfast." I'll do it for you, don't worry. There's a watermelon, i just bought it from supermarket!"Excellent! Thanks so much for being in my class today.Thanks too for bearing with me through the technical problems.Hope to see you again.You did an excellent job though.Keep it up.The words in orange color is just the comments from tonight EF English Teacher Jacob, regarding the topic we discussed from 10:00pm -11:00pm, he gave me a '90' score.Which is a little bit better than last lesson score '89'. Haha,I'll keep it up!Hallelujah, my God, millions of millions thanks to all grace you arranged for me, also including all the grace would come from tomorrow... I do know some of them would come to me with a gloom mask. But,I am ready for it, please note that your princess have been ready for it. Believe me, i will not let you down...

Maii's too tired to finish her blog last night, she went to sleep just beside the keyboard.She opened eyes and found time stop at 8:30am, Oh, she only needs 8 hrs in the night. Then she called her friends in the bed, who gave message to her but not yet call back. She really enjoyed the chatting :PThen she got up and found it's raining outside. Looking out of the French window on 17th floor, there are enormous colorful umbrellas moving quickly. From the side window, the fresh air brought in with noisy beep from the street. Sitting in front the window, Maii had a beach and a tomato, it's a healthy breakfast, isn't? After breakfast, she naturally lied on the bed again with a book and some papers. Next scenario cames with no surprise.  A sweet dream brought me back to my baby. What's more, i dreamed surfy sea, i still remembered the moments i saw the sea, i'm flying in the sky :)Such a conscious dream ended by 1:23pm. I decided to go shopping & have a lunch. My husband gave me a call to check whether i'm still in bed, did i have lunch already, how's my feeling now after a long-time working in the office... Cocoy is so detailed. He called me in his office and told me some stories happened to our friends in Dalian...Obviously, he's in his good conditions now... He's such a guy never let me worry about him, including everything. On the contrary, he cares me a lot :Pwhen he called me, i already back home with a full of shopping bag, a yoga book,waxberry, ink,facial cotton, monthly napkin. After reading the philosophy of yoga, i decided to buy a yoga mat. Reminded by cocoy, I went out again directly to the temple of heaven. Unfortunately, the ticket center doesn't work after 16:30hrs. However, i spent 15 yuan to walk in the big garden, where consists of several temples.In the garden, i'm really impressed by the cypress reaching the sky, some of them have celebrated their 800-age- birthday. The environment is so serenity & esteemed. Many Beijing localness played shuttlecocks, played instruments after their dinner... When i walked to a long corridor leading to the only entrance to the Temple of Heaven, some singing 's appealing me. There're about 10 old ladies standing there and singing the old-fashion songs together!The voice is so beautiful and made you imagine what they look like in their best ages...Actually, the soul of these old women still in its twenties! I quickly understood the ticket is value for money for this unformal but memorable chorus!Hallelujah, Hallelujah, thanks to my Holy Father,it's the best given grace from you ! As one soldier of your Salvation Army, this is the best supply from backside indeed!

Maii just came home from office,dressing in hotel black T-shirt, black trousers, black shoes and a yellow-sport-bag.See, maii looks totally like an ANT :P Today i felt so frustrated at my work,many things on the table, almost everything is urgent... Actually, there's new job comes to you between whiles, when you're receiving a call, when you're reading an email, when you're translating sth, when you're discussing on a solution, when you're talking with a supplier...life in daytime is really a battle, it's hard to love it until you enjoy such kind of challenge,or your body is bleeding the blood of hero. Yes, if you're not ready, please be far away with this experience.I felt not very good today, just because i forgot to bring my helm & my guns and my watch.I just tried to have a fun :) Haha, life says No to me. Hallelujah, God teaches me always with worst experience.Up till now, i believed that i was a man-at-arms before, which gave me a difference character and temper. I never to give up easily, i'm full of courage and confidence for the final win, i'm smart to deal with every kinds of difficulties, I did gratuate from the Military School of God.Life changed us a lot, therefore you lost yourselves one day, you cannot find the road to return your home,you will not know what's the inherent task with you... When i realized this at this moment, i suddenly become so happy, just like i found out the lost heart and successfully put it back into my body!!! Hallejujah, my value is just to help people blast bombs on the on-going road to God's family, which action will for sure bring more and more happiness & smile to the same ages...I believe, tomorrow Maii will be the most dedicated guy in her fields.. Now is 0:11, my QQ, my little maii must have slept sweetly in her own bed, I don't know she's sleeping on her right side or her left side ? I also cannot guess which pajamas she's dressing now ? The only thing i can be sure is that the peaceful smile on her little round cheeks... Hallelujah, my God, please give your kiss to her on behalf of me, just on her eyes, on her forhead, or on her fingers with forever fragrance of strawberry, on her lovely toes, on her ... Hallelujah, please guard this baby girl... please guard all my families ... please guard all my friends...One day after the victory of the hotel-opening, i'll come back, i'll come back to hug you my baby, to hug you my aging father and mother, to give you the best care and best lead. Please have a nice sleep, please lead a happy life, please wait for me back on the day!  

"QQ is so cute that she never allow others help to release the little bag from her back until waiting for her father came in... You know that little green bag was brought to her by his father, which one was bought in Beijing amp ( a shopping mall )by Maii... I guess she just wanna show to her father' I love you "... She just backpacking the little green bag and waiting for his father at the door. Finally, QQ did show her back with the bag to her father for one seconds, since she has wearing that bag for a long time and the temperature in the room is very high... : P Anyway, I'm glad she insisted to waiting for her father with that bag and she succeed in realizing her will. Just eating a whole duck with my colleague Artist Kevin at the restaurant beside our appartment. He just celebrated his 24-birthday 5 days ago. What most impressed me a lot not because of his illustrator skill, but his positive attitude, even he gets rubbish from his bosses everyday, he never stop smiling on the bottom of his heart! The most worried about me now is one of my job! For the press release for hotel pre-opening & GM introduction have been send out to 81 media in Beijing by a local communicaitons agency. However, Agency never confirm one of them in the newspaper after passing info to media 5 days later! And temporaly, I cannot push this case forward, just since the database they are using now cannot be shared with hotel. Hallelujah, please allow me to pass this burden to my Lord, and see a good result in next week! One thing made me so happy, when I'm writing congratulations text message to my friend in 01:05am when her birthday came on June 06th, and also wrote to a strange blogger for congratulating her move to her new house! Hallelujah, my Father Jesus, Thank you have protected my family and myself for a whole day of June 06th, 2008! I really listened the song of " blowing in the wind" in the early morning before bkf.....which has never done before, i feels happy when i'm trying a new experience! 06062008

Where's Maii?  Where's Maii?   Ohh, She's here...She has moved to Beijing for her new job since 17th March, 2008...It took her around 3 months to adapt Beijing's life : ) : ) Hallelujah!!! She's very OK now with current job and has mood to write something again~The time is 11:22pm, his husband cocoy is on the night train back home Dalian, Maii's sitting at table alone & embroidering her beautiful life... The little maii shall be sleeping in her small bed sweetly since she knows her daddy will hug her and play with her when morning comes!Same to every night, I dialed long distance call to my parents and my little maii today, and know that LM plays so happy in her pre-kindergarden courses again : ) Yesterday I just received her teacher's greeting from Dalian and appreciation for the well-being of cute LM~ For sure, it comforted me very much.Usually, the children grows up without parents would be quite silent, however,on the contrary, she looks much happier than other kids.Thanks to God, all my relatives often played with her and gave enough love to this little girl, especially for my parents...They take good care of her feeding, bathing,reading, dancing,sleeping,drawing...They're the best grandfather and grandmother in this world without compromise!!! They're my pride!!! Pray enough grace to them  with the name of Jesus...In this morning I just conserve a new concept to life=Family + Friend + Unlimitted  moments of enjoyments,   Yes, here, you cannot find the job, right, maii has determined to changing the challenge to enjoyments...For example, the job on the paper is so boring, but when you explore the person who gave you this paper or just sincerely give him a respected thanks, the working environment would be immediately fantastic! As I have to deal with many suppliers everyday,if I just talk with them about our printing specification? Maii tried to get to know them well and have joking with them naturally..Yap, it's such kind of little detail that make sense You're welcome among them, you played the lead role and brough happiness & love to them Also, I'd like to buy a digital drawing panel, which can help me record the daily life scenery in a funny way : P. Actually, Maii got improvement these 3 months, which will honor the Lord~  Such like she knows how to be organised in her job and benefit from it fullest, She knows how to be ground to make bread, ......She knows happiness is around her every minute, she knows herself is the Princess of her Father's Country ... From today on, Maii will record all her happiness & treasures here, Yap, she's not interested to save money but store the happiness snapshot to her QQ, parents, husband and all her friends! For sure, it's the best gift for them ! Hallelujah~ Hallelujah~

A Tree and Its Fruit (Matthew 7.17-20; 12.34b, 35)
"A good tree cannot produce bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot produce good fruit.You can tell what a tree is like by the fruit it produces. You cannot pick figs or grapes from thornbushes.Good people do good things because of the good in their hearts. Bad people do bad things because of the evil in their hearts. Your words show what is in your heart." I hope God could tell me out from others by the words I made of righteous,kindness and innocence...

Enjoyed a very relaxed afternoon with Blueberrypie and Black Pepper at a Pizza Bar. I listened to their funny talks and saw passers walking in fast pace against cold wind on the opposite street... Time flies away tangled with both stirling of hot peach-citron tea and our laughter...

Little maii showed her interest in melon for the first time.

I haven't moved for any kinds of exercise for more than 5 months, it's time to do exercises, maybe I could start from jogging.

With the accompaniment of a toy's piercing sound- Da Chang Jin, Qiaoqiao can dance so gracefully even nobody had taught her how to dance in a korean style before. She must has a talent on it! Hallelujah!

Blueberrypie & Black Pepper eventaully decided to move out and stay together, who's now yet staying with their parents. For sure, everyone needs their own space. Strive for freedom will be the first big change in their 2008! I support B&B!

In the pizza bar, I tried to play as a waitress in a professional way to tidy away our used dishes, just like I ever did before in hotel restaurant, which made me more valuable for today.         

17/2/2008

Ecclesiastes 11:5 " Just as you do not know how the breath comes to the bones in the mother's womb, so you do not know the work of God, who makes everything." Oh, my Lord, please protect the breath you ever did give me in 1975... Maybe the money, the food, the music, everything we toil for is just to keep our breath noble, healthy and pleasant... ??? In God, I believe these adjectives are no more important than another word - free.

Received a courier enclosed with 12mth-4c-calendar from Shanghai in the morning, which has been specailly designed with 12 Qiaoqiao's pictures in it's 12 pages. Thanks to Wylth ( Milk powder brand in Singapore )gave us so personal new year gift to make a beautiful start of 2008!

The lunch looks more like a feast, just because of a Beijing Toasted Duck! I know this is all my father's good wish for my next interview in Beijing.

Following the quiet steps of Spring, I'm eager to give my bones and muscles a fresh revival...  

Little maii dances wantonly while I'm singing her favorite songs and playing the electronic organ with my right hand only...I'm just afraid that she could not play in this way for a long time, if I have to work in a different city. God bless us! God bless us!

Today is not a easy time for my aunt Meiying. As a divorced women, the burden of taking care of a 83 years old cousin-uncle is chasing after her! Even though she's in her late fifties...It's unfair to her. But since the uncle has no children and just lost his wife during this Spring Festival, and his other relatives are tangled with their respective lives, nobody can provide assistance to the old man in near future, especially when he refused to stay in the any kind of beadhouse. What's the scrīpt of this scenario?  The helpless feelings fulfilled my heart... 

Be humorous and gentle when you're talking will help you a lot to make yourselves welcome.

16/2/2008

"Go ahead to knock at the door of God and get the gift prepared by your Holy Father!" I heard such voice from spirit before I'm waiting the interview call from a hotel preopening office in Beijing. As you know, it would be a successful interview! By the evening, I was persuaded to have a face-to-face interview on a complimentary trip on next Thursday... Hallelujah!!!

I'm so happy to find out a place can buy imported incense from India...

Valentine's Day dinner happened in a Japanese Restaurant we've never been. But our love topic were stolen by my new job in Beijing.  

My cousin brother's wife- in -law  got acute appendicitis two days ago...She told me the pain is more serious than giving a birth. Oh, my God, please heal her asap. 

The Japanese restaurant Chef impressed me very much, since the position we're sitting just can watch his performance! He looks quick and neat. He organised another two chefs and prepared all eaters'orders ... It's a really busy night! Moreover, he'll say hello and say goodbye to his customers with smile! I even heard he'd reminded his manager" Hi,the music is over!" 

The girl, Human Resource Manager interviewed me online told me her husband is also a Christian! So it helped me to know her quickly. Her voice is refreshing and sweet, I guess her hair is middle-long but straight..next week, I would know the answer.

It took me one hour to choose a farewell gift to my cousin brother's wife -in -law. Their train to Changchun left Dalian by 1830hrs. I hope she would look more lovely when she dressed up that pink three-piece pajamas!

2/14/2008

Ecclesiastes 9:11 "Again, I saw that under the sun, the race is not to the swift, nor the batter to the strong, nor bread to the wise, nor riches to the intelligent, nor favor to the skillful; but time and chance happen to them all." This lection will help me to live more happily on the earth from this moment, thanks to God, he released me from under the burden of self-accusation.

It's my first time that I saw the Rubik's cube's so magic in my hand! After turning and twisting, I restored one layer in yellow, when I started to make another layer, surprisingly, I found out the other 4 color layers which are vertical to yellow one had been finished with 4 of 9 squares in same position!  But after that, I can't do any moves for a further progress.  Aha,I did get my best performance on Rubik's cube!   

During the supper, I picked up some shrimps and eggs unconsciously... Maybe my body is lack of enough protein?

If you wanna ease your tight nerves, please try hitting points of your legs, arms, back and head with a massage sinker about 20mins, it really works! 

Little maii suddenly cried in grievance, when I sang a new song to her " Xiao Tu Guai Guai, Ba Men er Kai Kai, Kuai Dian er Kai Kai, Ma Ma Yao Jin Lai" "Bu Kai Bu Kai, Jiu Bu Kai, Ma Ma Mei Hui Lai,Shei Lai Ye Bu Kai". ? I guess this song must had been imagined a poor little rabbit in her mind... She couldn't help sobing "Xiao Tu Guai Guai, Ba Men Da Kai" again and again, until I changed the words and sang to her" Kai Le Kai Le, Men Kai Le, Ma Ma Kuai Jin Lai!" 

My dad shared something said by a Chinese psychologist with me. He said the psychologist's study result convinced him 100%, " Never to be angery with youngers under 18 and olders above 60."

No comment today.

11/2/2008

Ecclesiastes 5:12 " Sweet is the sleep of labourers, whether they eat little or much; but the surfeit of the rich will not let them sleep." Fortunately, my sleep is pretty sweet on very night,perhaps that's the approval on my labourer's ID.

There are 18 relatives got together at my mother's house today... It's a challenge for my mother's floor and wall. The decibel happened at this small house was really high enough, for sure, the ambience of festival was high also! 

The "Toasted chops" would dominate my menu, when the dish's only cooked by my aunt Meizhen. Maybe, I'd learn the recipe and promote it in near future.

The jingle ads of "Yan Geng Dan" sparkle my originallities on its copy writting. The ads  broadcasting now is - Women, please love yourself much more besides your family.  What's maii's copy writting? - Men, please love your wife much more than yourself. They sound samely,but the reader's feeling will be totally different, cause the old one is advocating women to protect themselves and to buy the medicine themselves; the new one is advocating men to buy medicine instead, it's more of humancare, isn't?  

Obbligato menu of electronic organ always made my little maii so happy when she needs to show off her dancing skill.

The dispute between my aunt Meidi and i made my blood boil in the evening. She complained the bad relationship of mom and children only attributes to the children, those are not well-educated. When she said this, I think she already put the responsiblity of children's education to the society. Actually, it's an irresponsible attitude, which neglected all the time when children's stay with his/her mother. It's ridiculous enough. If you wanna harvest melon,you have to plant the seeds of melon.

Today is my friend's daughter's two-year old birthday,fortunately, I recalled this by 23:11hrs, and quickly wrote a text message to have best wishes.

9/2/2008

Ecclesiastes 4:11-12 "Again, if two lie together, they keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? And though one might prevail against another,two will withstand one.A threefold cord is not quickly broken." Yes,it's also applied to my family, the marriage has brought me that threefold cord already, actually, my daughter + my husband + me will be blessed and protected by holy God. I should take good care of this cord.

We went to Karoake in 25hrs KTV after supper,together with my 11-year-old nience.He said he doesn't like the spelling of "KTV",cause it means "V has to be kicked by K, full of violence."

Too many meats on the festival tables made me fed up.

I wearily declined cocoy's (my husband's ) invitation for swimming at pool, for many days'sitting up. I'd better do some adjustment.

"the city's moon light" was formally nominated as my leading song, at the Karoake room by my relatives-in-law.

During the lunch at home, my uncle gave me some comments " I don't think any sales jobs suit you well. For a sales person, the most important trait should know the priority of the cost. Secondly, he should be gifted with a gloomy view of society. And you are so utopia that ..."

I insisted to go back around 11pm to have my night duty shift with my little maii ( my 21mths daughter), in case my mother has no sleep for whole night. 

8/2/2008

Ecclesiastes 4:6 "Better is a handful with quiet than two handfuls with toil and a chasing after wind." What is your choice? God told us a handful with quiet is better.God told me not to do a job which makes you easily exhausted but makes money.

We took Qiaoqiao to greet my 88-year old grandma-in-law today, 21-month old Qiaoqiao have been expert in pleasing adults by dancing, reciting and speaking in sweet words. When she saw the pink sweater bought her by young auntee, she said" Hao Hao Piao Liang A !" When she had food cooked by 67-year old auntee, she slowly but carefully said" Mama, Zhe Hao Chi" with a sincere expression. When she appreciated somebody, she would kiss his face and shouted " Wo Ai Ni!"......Qiaoqiao, a superstar, a spring of our happiness.

My auntee-in-law, a 67 woman, who have cooked and taken after my grandma and grandpa-in-law ever since she got marriage when her's 25. It was her that took me to church after I got marriage with this family. She's a wonderful lady I admired most. With her efforts, two old couples now are living in good health, even their average age is 90! All food she made is fantastic. In her life philosophy, life = 3 meals a day. In her opinion,cooking is the most serious job in the life, which deserves her whole life efforts.

Ms.Xu Xiyuan reminds me to do some exercise to lose my weight asap, since I saw her portfolio- Weight 45kg/ Height 1.63m. As you know, I'm in same height with her, but 10kg's heavier than her!

I wish to study the "Qiong Kai Xin"- Hua Er Group at Karoake. It's a song can bring us happiness, isn't? Another song is "Da Chang Jin".:P

We didn't come back home until 7:30 with Qiaoqiao, and my father felt disconsolate just cause Qiaoqiao's out of his vision more than half day. How's my father's love to Qiaoqiao!!

Do you know what's the New Year Gift my husband bought to his grand parents?  A 32-inch liquid Screen TV set. Good boy! But the image 's out of perspective, for the size of screen 16:9. However,our Grandma's so happy!

7/2/2008

Psalm 1:3 "They are like trees growing beside a stream, trees that produce fruit in season and always have leaves. Those people succeed in everything they do." They are the people following God's road. If I am a tree, doubtlessly,I'd love to be a flourished one. Luckily,I am that tree which has been rooted beside a stream in God ever since I got baptised three years ago.

My husband took me to lunch at an old Dalian flavor Restaurant. The moment of drawing the sliding wooden door suddenly recalled my nostalgic mood. The smell of the restaurant is exactly same to a restaurant that always provided me lunch when I was little. I miss the "Bao Zi" best,which food I never had it again for more than 20 years,.. Since the restaurant ( Chang Zheng Fan Dian )has changed owners for many times already, I don't think I have any chance to wake up my old palate again...

The pork price soars too much, we spent about 200 yuan buying some chaudfroid and pighead for Chinese New Year celebration at home.

Recently, the health of my parents are getting better apparently.I am still trying to find out the reasons among the below items, including daily sea cucumber, Amway's product, Qiaoqiao, New Year's ambience, well-regulated sleep, my stable performance. It really takes me time to fish the 'prime criminal'.

Beethoven's 9th symphony gave us warmth when my husband driving me to shop special purchases for the Spring Festival, in the cold eary morning.

My husband looks in a high spirit when I saw him in the morning, which made me confused very much. The relationship between us is getting calm, I think, especially after my layoff. Anyway, I like him be happy. Perhaps,I would try some ways to cheer up our marriage, and don't just let it be.   

"Don't forget to buy a "Fu" back, it's time to adhibit it on the door", my mother told me when I was dressing up for shopping. Looking for that "Fu", I lingered four or five stores and finally picked a very big one in 4-colour shining pictures plus a door couplet. Guess my mother's appearance? Overjoyed, which I am seeking for always.

6/2/2008