In a training class for a part-time job, I met a man who openned my eyes.He was a teacher who gave pupils composition classes and other trainings. He can be regarded as a guiding teacher to a world I seldom entered before.  

      We went to the training place very early. However, only after up to one hour did he turn up. Obviously, he stood us up. Finally he came and made an excuse for his coming late.  We felt very angry but kept silent.

      Then he introduced his course and talked about his journey to success. As a man who had no money and positions in society, he robbed a businessman of sixty thousand yuan thus making his first fortune. With those money, he pioneered his way ahead. How did he "succeed" step by step? He made a lot of friends who are celebrities in the education field. By depending on them, he made his way to do many significant things for his success.

      He told us the most important thing in one's life was to make the right friends. Then we can benefit a lot from them. He took himself as an example and showed how important social relationship was. According to my understanding, he succeeds because of his friends.

     My friends and I don't think his life value is valuable. One of my friends told me the point of making friends was to get and share happiness. If you focus on benefiting from friends, you can't make true friends.  

     In my opinion,you can't make friends aiming at taking advantage of them. Friends can be helpers at times, but they are not your tools towards success.  We should focus on the friendship more than the benefits.