Empty your mind,be formless,shapeless,like water; and you put water into a cup,it becomes the cup; you put water in a bottle,it becomes the bottle; you put water in teapot,it becomes the teapot.Water can flow or can crash.Be water,my friend.

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It's the first time i see above sentences----be a man like water! feeling so good ,so i copy it here ,just for reminding.

Water is shapeless ,but when u put it in different containers ,u will find it has become the shape of outside.well,as for man,though we have our own shape, facing different persons,we shall play different roles,being a dutiful children,a good sister,a sincere friend ,a lovely gf ,and a loyal worker ,even a kind stranger........so ,no matter water or man ,outside environment do perform a significant operation ,especially in now days.if we want to live a better life ,we have to acclimatize ourselves to the outside evrironment,yes,just adaption . it's not that when u r in bottle ,u r not water any more ,when u r in a good environment,u r not urself.no matter where u r or who u act ,u r just urself.....i think we should remember this...........

I have a new room ,it is not big and there is not furniture ,either,but i like it more .because ,it is quiet ,and to me,it is the most important,i think.

Of course ,i have new roomates ,two gentle and quiet girls ,i think i will like them and will get along well with them .i think do they ! because we have the same intention------have a good repose.

And another advantage ,it is so close to my bf. .we won't tangle with each other on the phone any more, ,face on face will be more convenient   .

Ok,that'all ,no more news to write .no news is good news ,

Are u married ?

Yes!

Really?

Yes!

Really ?

Sure !

REALLY ??

Absolutely !!

That's good !

But how do u want ?

Have baby ?

No ,how old am i ?

ok,that's good ,she will take good care of u .

Thanks

but .........

That's the talk between he and i.

That's the life now i have ,so ridiculous and so humdrum ,right ? yes ,life do like a cup of water ,no smell at all ,really ,i dislike ,but finally ,i find ,all fresh and exciting feelings will return to the real life,that's unromantic.if everydayness is the real life ,the one company u silently should be ur real man .

But sometimes we do need surprise !! surprise can one hand excite our life ,the other hand can also let our life return to quiet state , yes ,just like his married news ,maybe it 's that ,sometimes ,others do can affect u ,catch ur attention ,and after a long time ,u will guess what the real look like .when the fact goes beyond ur thought ,u finally will feel a big surprise ,and here ,gradually ,u will understand ,it's ur own thought making that big surprise ,and it is only to urself.then life will become unromantic again ,and at the same time ,new expectation is going on............

I don't know what i am looking forward to ...........

Recently ,there are many many suck things coming into my life ,work ,study , love...... nearly spreading every where of my life ,i can hardly breathe......the first idea in my head is to escape ,yes ,whenever i meet depressing thing ,i just want to escape ,i fondly think of that if i leave off ,there won't be trouble around me , but where can i go ? no place wait for me to stay in ,no person allow me to rely on ......... ,i lost my necklace ,my swatch watch , waste much money on the way home ,even have a big big quarrel with my bf because of little shit things,heart is bleeding .......

It often said no lost no got ,i lost much ,but what did i get ?