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  • The Top 10 Secrets of Creativity

    2008-01-15 10:58:38

    1.Creativity takes time and silent space.It is best to schedule time daily or at least weekly to allow yourself time to develop your creativity.

    2.There are cycles of creativity.We are not always in a harvesting:phase and there will be times when you feel as if nothing is happening.Don't become concerned.

    3.Select mentors,friends and dream partners wisely. A sad,but true,fact is that not everyone (sometimes even those closest to you ) will support your dreams.You don't have to sever any ties,just carefully select the members of your creative team.

    4.commit to yourself.Overcoming guilt is a big factor in unleashing creativity.It may mean having a messy house or not overcomming.

    5.Set strong boundaries.Choose your commitments carefully.To paraphrase Oparah Winfrey-"I say No to many things,so that I may say yes to what gives me life."

    6.Work from your strengths.We have a tendency to focus on our weaknesses and spend enormous amounts of time trying to "improve".The reality is that were you to spend 80% of your effort to become good at a weakness you might improve that area by 20%.But if you were to spend that same 80% of your effort to improve an area of strength,you might improve it by 100% or more!

    7.Fear is a companion of creativity.Make friends with fear,you will probably feel fear when you venture out into unfamiliar territory.Expect it and redefine it as energy so you can move on.

    8. Stop criticizing yourself.Stay positive about your performance.Yes,you can polish it and improve,but focus on the fact that yuo are taking action in the first place.

    9.Get over perfectionism.A tough one! You will rarely try anything new if you only stick to the things you have already mastered.

    10.Play,have fun,feel joyful!Creativity is about play.When you do the things you love and abandon yourself to your feelings of joy,you know you've found your highest expression of creativity.

     

     

  • Courage

    2008-01-14 11:10:24

      The courage of life is often a less dramatic spectacle than the courage of a final monent; but it is no less a magnificent mixture of triumph and tragedy. A man does what he must-in spite of personal consequences,in spite of obstacles and dangers and pressures-and that is the basis of all human morality.

      To be courageous…requires no exceptional qualifications,no magic formula,no special combination of time,place and circumstance.It is an opportunity that sooner or later is presented to us all .Politics merely funishes one arena which imposes special tests of courage. In whatever arena of life one may meet challenge of courage,whatever may be the sacrifices he faces if he follows his conscience- the loss of hi friends,his fortune,his contentment,even the esteem of his fellow men- each man must decide for himself the course he will follow.The stories of past courage can define that ingredient-they can teach,they can offer hope,the can provide inspiration.But they cannot supply courage itself.For this each man must look into his own soul.

  • Opportunity

    2008-01-14 10:52:29

     The air we breathe is so freely available that we take it for grated.Yet without it we could not survie more than a few ninutes.For the most part,the same air is available to everyone,and everone needs it.Some people use the air to sustain themwhile they sit around and feel sorry for themselves.Others beathe in the air and use the energy it provides to make a magnificent life for themselves.

     Opportunity is the same way. It is everythere.Opportunity is so freely available that we take it for grated.Yet opportunity alone is not enough to create success.Opportunity must be seized and acted upon in order to have value.So many people are so anxious to "get in "on a "ground floor opportunity ",as if the opportunity will do all the work.That/s impossible.

     Just as you need air to beathe, you need opportunity to succeed.It takes more than just breathing in the fresh air of opportunity,however.you must make suse of that opportunity.That's not up to the opportunity.That's up to you.It doesn't matter what 'floor"the opportunity is on.What matters is what you do with it.

  • A Boy and His Tree 男孩和树

    2008-01-11 23:52:17

    A long time ago, there was a huge apple tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it every day. He climbed to the tree top, ate the apples, took a nap under the shadow… He loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him.

    很久以前有一棵苹果树。一个小男孩每天都喜欢来到树旁玩耍。他爬到树顶,吃苹果,在树荫里打盹……他爱这棵树,树也爱和他一起玩。

    Time went by…the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree.

    随着时间的流逝,小男孩长大了。他不再到树旁玩耍了。

     

    One day, the boy came back to the tree and looked sad. “Come and play with me,” the tree asked the boy.

    一天,男孩回到树旁,看起来很悲伤。“来和我玩吧!”树说。

    “I am no longer a kid, I don’t play around trees anymore.” the boy replied, “I want toys. I need money to buy them.”

    “我不再是小孩了,我不会再到树下玩耍了。”男孩答到,“我想要玩具,我需要钱来买。”

    “Sorry, but I don’t have money…but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money.” The boy was so excited. He picked all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy didn’t come back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad.

    “很遗憾,我没有钱……但是你可以采摘我的所有苹果拿去卖。这样你就有钱了。”男孩很兴奋。他摘掉树上所有的苹果,然后高兴地离开了。自从那以后男孩没有回来。树很伤心。

    One day, the boy returned and the tree was so excited.

    一天,男孩回来了,树非常兴奋。

    “Come and play with me.” the tree said.

    “来和我玩吧。”树说。

    “I don’t have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?” “Sorry, but I don’t have a house. But you can cut off my branches to build your house.” So the boy cut all the branches of the tree and left happily.

    “我没有时间玩。我得为我的家庭工作。我们需要一个房子来遮风挡雨,你能帮我吗?”很遗憾,我没有房子。但是,你可以砍下我的树枝来建房。“因此,男孩砍下所有的树枝,高高兴兴地离开了。

    the tree was glad to see him happy but the boy didn’t appear since then. The tree was again lonely and sad.

    看到他高兴,树也很高兴。但是,自从那时起男孩没再出现,树有孤独,伤心起来。

    One hot summer day, the boy returned and the tree was delighted. “Come and play with me!” the tree said.

    突然,在一个夏日,男孩回到树旁,树很高兴。“来和我玩吧!”树说。

    “I am sad and getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?” “Use my trunk to build the boat. You can sail and be happy.” So the boy cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and did not show up for a long time.

    “我很伤心,我开始老了。我想去航海放松自己。你能不能给我一条船?” “用我的树干去造一条船,你就能航海了,你会高兴的。”于是,男孩砍倒树干去造船。他航海去了,很长一段时间未露面。

    Finally, the boy returned after he left for so many years. “Sorry, my boy. But I don’t have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you.” the tree said. “ I don’t have teeth to bite.” The boy replied. “ No more trunk for you to climb on.” “I am too old for that now.” the boy said. “I really want to give you something…the only thing left is my dying roots.” The tree said with tears. “I don’t need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years.” The boy replied. “Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and rest. Come here, please sit down with me and have a rest.” The boy sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears…

    许多年后男孩终于回来了。“很遗憾,我的孩子,我再也没有任

    何东西可以给你了。没有苹果给你……”树说。“我没有牙齿啃。” 男孩答到。“没有树干供你爬。”“现在我老了,爬不上去了。” 男孩说。“我真的想把一切都给你……我唯一剩下的东西是快要死去的树墩。” 树含着眼泪说。“现在,我不需要什么东西,只需要一个地方来休息。经过了这些年我太累了。”男孩答到。 “太好了!老树墩就是倚着休息的最好地方。过来,和我一起坐下休息吧。” 男孩坐下了,树很高兴,含泪而笑……

    This is a story of everyone. the tree is our parents. When we were young, we loved to play with Mom and Dad… When we grow up, we leave them, and only come to them when we need something or when we are in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy. You may think that the boy is cruel to the tree but that's how all of us are treating our parents.

    这是一个发生在每一个人身上的故事。那棵树就像我们的父母。我们小的时候,喜欢和爸爸妈妈玩……长大后,便离开他们,只有在我们需要父母亲,或是遇到了困难的时候,才会回去找他们。尽管如此,父母却总是有求必应,为了我们的幸福,无私地奉献自己的一切。你也许觉得那个男孩很残忍,但我们何尝不是这样呢?

  • A to Z

    2008-01-10 10:58:06

    Avoid negative people,places,thing and habits.

    Believe in yourself.

    Consider things from every angle.

    Don't give up don't give in.

    Enrich your life today.Yesterday is history.

    Family and friends are hidden treasures.

    Seek them and enjoy their riches.

    Give more than you planned to.

    Hang on to you dreams.

    Ignore those who try to discourage you.

    Just do it.

    Keep trying no matter how hard it seems.It will get easier.

    Live well, Love lots,and laugh often.

    Make it happen.

    Never lie,cheat or steal.Alway strike a fail deal.

    Open your eyes and see things as they really are.

    Practice makes perfect.

    Quitters never win and winners never quit.

    Read ,study and learn about everything important in your life.

    Stop procrastinating.

    Take control of your own destiny.

    Understand yourself in order to better understand others.

    Visualize it.

    Want it more than anything.

    Xcellerate (accelerate)your efforts.

    Yuo are unique.Nothing can replace YOU.

    Zero in your target.and go for it!

  • Attitudes Toward Word

    2008-01-07 11:10:21

       A person may have an idea about himself that will prevent him from doing good work .

       He may have the idea that he is not capable of it,it is easy to get such an idea even though there is not justification for it. A child may think the is stupid because he does not understand how to make the most of his mental faculties,or he may accept another person's mistaken estimate of his ability . Older people may be handicapped by the mistaken belief that they are incapable of learning anything new because of their age.

       A person who believes  that he is incapable will not make a real effort ,because  he feels that it would be useless. He won't go at a job with the confidence necessary for success, and he won't work  his hardest, even though he may think he is doing so. He therefore is likely to fail,and the failure will strengthen his belief in ths incompletence.

       Alfred adler, a famous psychiatrist,had an experience which illustrates this. When he was a small boy he got off to a poor start in arithentic. His teacher got the idea that he hat no ability in arithmetic, and told his parents what she though is order that they would not expect too much of him.In this way , they too developed the idea, "Isn't it  too bad that Alfred can't do arithmetic?" He accepted their mistaken estimate of his ability,felt that it was useless to try,and was very poor in arithmetic,just as they expected.

       One day he became very angry at the teacher and the other studends because the laughed when he said he saw how to do a problem which none of the other students had been able to solve.

       Adler succeeded in solving the problem. This gave him confidence.He rejected the idea that the couldn't do arithmetic,and was determined to show them that he problems with a new spirit . He now worked with interest,determination,and purpose,and he soom became extraodinarily good in arithmetic.he not only proved that he could do arithmetic,but he learned early in life from his own experience that,if a person goes at a job with determination and purpose, he may astonish himself as well as others by his ability.

       This experience made him realize that many people have more ability than they think they have, and that lack of success is as often the result of lack of knowledge of how to apply one's ability,lack of confidence,and lack of determination as it is the result of lack of ability.

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