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WHAT IS WRONG WITH EDUCATION?
2008-01-26 10:51:35 / 个人分类:talk with the heaven
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scoundrel1972
发布于2008-01-29 11:52:59
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To Monica,
Thank you for your comments.
I will try to live each day as happily as possible.
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Monica1981
发布于2008-01-26 22:06:12
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To mingmingy,
The last bit of the message is not very nice to say...and that's none of your fucking business anyway...
To Piggy,
can't believe you said Thanks to downstairs...
I personally reckon you should have sex at least 4 times a week because it can reduce pressure for both you and your wife...
You said that the teachers in China have very low social position.....well, I don;t think so....most Chinese respect teachers very much, don't they...or they just pretend they do ...
Or maybe you mean "lowest social benefit" such as salary, annual bonus, ect,ect......
Whatsoever, I know Chinese parents consider education as a super big deal for their children...
Children who can't go to Uni will be told to face a hopeless future....
But honestly, how many uni graduates can get themself decent jobs in China???
I read somewhere on the Internet which says Chinese Uni graduates face a low employment rate compared with American graduates....
Brad never went to Uni....he went to a specialized college to learn navigating for 2.5 years.....and his life looks fine.....
So really sometimes it is the parents' fault to lead a wrong way for their children....
Another factor is that in China parents with good social relationships can help their kids get a good job.....it is not fair to some young people who have very common working-class parents....
Last, I give you some suggestions regarding your health....
You should always consider teaching as your job not your family life.....
And this method works for everyone not only teachers....
I meet some dumb drivers in my company and I sometimes feel so pissed off about them.....
However, once I get home, I don;t take those negative feelings with me.....
And maybe you and your wife should go for some courses such as anger management, which teach people to manage their negative feelings in a positive way....
In NZ, some universities and family doctors ran those courses....but I am not sure about China....
If you can't get those courses in China maybe you can find some psychology books to improve the current situation.....
always remember anger cannot make naughty students change much....it is the strategy which works on teenages.......
so use your rational brain not your emotional heart........
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scoundrel1972
发布于2008-01-26 19:13:41
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thank you for your visit.
What you said is true. Thank you for your consideration. That is the very reason for us not to have courage to strain ourselves too much in sex, which in some way has impaired our relationship.
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mingmingy
发布于2008-01-26 15:08:39
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Hi,
Both your couple are so responsible person, you devote your passion and energy to eduction, it is so lucky if be your student.
But both of you and you wife are sufferring sever heart attack as the high pressure, what a pity you are in poor health condition.
By the way, I read the comment you left in Monica's Blog about the sex , you said you like sex very much, but if both of you are sufferring heart attack, it is quite dangerous if have too much sex.
