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About prostitution in China
2008-03-08 18:00:35 / 个人分类:talk with the heaven
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scoundrel1972
发布于2008-03-09 11:19:05
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To Monica,
thank you for your comments, which make me well aware of the fact that things are a lot different from country to country. and it is hard to understand. we should be more patient and tolerant with people from different countries.
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Monica1981
发布于2008-03-09 02:26:06
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Holy shit, mate!
I disagree with you on 90% of what you wrote in this article....
1, I have never said hookers in NZ all have easy and good life....my point is if you choose to work as a prostitute, you don;t make excuses for your choice and be happy with your job! Otherwise, why doing it ?
Some prostitutes in NZ have tough life too...honestly, not many people can live on the benefits. The basic 240 NZ dollars can only pay you rent and some basic food ..nothing more!
Some prostitutes in NZ may have 3 or 4 children (I still think it is thier own fucking fault to breed so many children ...they were either too young to make some mistakes or too stupid to wear condomes). in order to support the Children, they choose that job!
HOnestly, I don;t think prostitutes are bad people....they at least work and pay tax, which is already 100 times better than those losers!
Think about it, we have child support...but they choose not to ask money from the government but support her children on her own....shit man! I think it is a great behavior !
2, The difference between you and me on this belief is hugh.....see, I don;t think prostitutes are some kind of low level jobs and should be associated with the word "shameless".
The first 4 reasons you listed in your article about why Chinese girls become prostitutes are very reasonable....
Really , why a girl choose to be a prostitute has nothing to do with you...they have rights to choose to be s prostitute and you can't judge on that!
I also don't think Prostitutes are easy jobs.....maybe in your eyes, they are easy...but I don;t think so....if you ask me to serve those men (fat, ugly, smelly.....), shit, I think this job is pretty tough!
Plus, it is not only sex...it may include oral job, hand job, or massage (In our law, customers must wear condoms during the oral job to prevent throat cancer of the prostitute).....all those jobs requires a woman's time, patience, and labour...why should it be easy???!!! Compared with some girls who just sit in the office doing data entry, a prostitute's job is much harder!
So what the prostitute has done deserve the money they should earn!!!
3, I disgree that prostitution has sth to do with a pretty face....
Beauty is not the reason for a person to become a prostitute.....it only has sth to do with a girl's personal choice....an ugly one can also become a prostitute and the chance won;t be any lower for an ugly person to become a hooker than a pretty person!
4, Prostitution has nothing to do with your economy! (what your Communists told you is NOT TRUE!)
In the last 2000 years of China before 1949, prostituion was always legal....but it doesn;t mean there was always proper laws to protect prostitutes.....
In some American states, prostitution is not illegal but the economy there may still maintain at a high level...so economy development has not caused the prostitution in China!
It is sth to do with the level of liberalism!
In the old time, China had prostitution becasue women were treated as trash!
Today, China has prostitution becasue women know what they want and dare to get what they want!
I am not saying all prostitutes in China are liberal....becasue China still has millions of poor people ....the reason of prostitution can be mixed from the feudal period to Today's modern western influence!
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Monica1981
发布于2008-03-09 02:25:45
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5, "Without the protection of the law, a lot of the prostitutes have been abused, and even killed."
Yes! That's why the CCP should make prostitutes legal in China and develop good law system to protect them and regulate them!!!
In NZ, people never call a prostitute a slut!
But we call a girl who cheats on her boyfriend and sleep around with many guys at the same time a slut......
Prostituttion is just a job...has nothing to do with moral standard!
A prostitute can also be a moral person...for example, she never cheats on her boyfriend !
I think Chinese prostitutes have a sad life becasue of the social pressure and your culture....although China has finished its feudal period but your culture is still closely related to deudalism......women more or less in China are still regarded one level below men....otherwise, why so many girls have to keep their virginity before marriage but the requirement for Chinese men is much less strict??
6, "Prostitution is not something to be eradicated, rooted out easily."
That is so ridiculous!!!
Why you think prostitution should be eliminated???
What about those women who desire much more sex and enjoy having sex with different men for money????
Shouldn't you think they have rights to choose so since their choice won't harm the society if they are well aware of sex protection????
Just because you think it is not right and moral, you wish prostitution being eliminated???That's is very selfish!
I don;t think prostituion should be banned and will be eliminated in China ...not now...not in future either....
If China achieve democracy in future, the chance of eliminating prostitution is almost zero....
if NZ government banned prostitutes tomorrow, many women will go for a march and protest the government for their free will and human rights....
7, “the flies and mosquitoes imported from the western countries together with the better and most effective ways of developing the economy.”
From this sentence you wrote, It is hard for me to believe that your government has never home-schooled you people....
What flies?
Juses, if you regard prostitutes like flies, shit, you might be accused to Court for slander and people will think you are the one who need to be educated not the prostitute......
I just couldn't understand you people...why a woman who chooses to be a prostitute is regarded as a slut or some kind of dirty flies???
This is a world in which everyone has his/her choice....whatever the reason of his/her choice is, it is none of your F business!
So as long as the prostitute is working and pay tax, she should be well respected!
