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What is wrong with human relations?

2008-05-06 10:58:22 / 个人分类：talk with the heaven

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I got back home very late last night. It might be 12 o’clock after the party. What was the worst, I didn’t sleep well. I tossed and turned restlessly in bed until the dawn of the morning. So now I am feeling very tired and sleepy.

What is the reason for us to drink a lot of wine, to impair our health both mentally and physically? People are the most generous and benevolent at a party. They will try to persuade others to drink instead of themselves, though the more we drink, the more they will pay. What an absurd and ridiculous phenomenon it is!

Nowadays human relations largely rest on money. My classmate, the closest and most intimate friend of mine, asked me to have dinner in compensation for his help I asked for. The dinner cost me eight hundred Yuan. What matters is not money itself actually. I am in doubt that friendship should be built on money. I have helped him. But I didn’t ask him to pay for my dinner. I only thought that we were friends, so I had the duty to try my best to help him. It would profane the term of friendship if I asked him to pay for my dinner. Whenever I think of this, I can’t help feeling sad.

Is it true that we are living in a market economy and therefore everything should be evaluated by money? I don’t know. I only feel that something is missing when we have to pay money for a help asked or offered. Perhaps I will be seen as naïve and innocent by others. But this is my opinion on friendship. I have to console myself that there are still others who won’t help you at all even you entreat him.

I have a classmate. He is a red apple in fortune’ eye. He is quite a government official now. We have been very good friends. However, it is only because I was not as obedient and respectful after drinking some wine that he said bad words behind my back, sometimes even to my leaders, which impaired my relation with my leaders. What have become of human relations? I just don’t know and understand.




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scoundrel1972的个人空间 删除 scoundrel1972 发布于2008-05-16 08:26:54
To hugh0341,
Don't make too much close friend I think,I could remember that I had a close friend in high school------------------------------
but how can we be supposed to live on in the society if we have no friends to rely on? we just can't live without friends.
scoundrel1972的个人空间 删除 scoundrel1972 发布于2008-05-16 08:25:27
To Laocao,
Of course, if you are just a small potato, and have to afford family spending by a pitiful salary like me, ---------------------------
it is not the money itself that matters. only that i have to pay for what he has done for me makes me sad.
Hugh 删除 hugh0341 发布于2008-05-07 14:48:44
Don't make too much close friend I think,I could remember that I had a close friend in high school,we treated each other fairly,we always helped each other without any reward.As well as in university,I made only one close friend,and not too much money involved in. Of course we can invite each other for meal with a good grace. So please don't despair about the ture friendship in this world.
老曹的个人空间 删除 老曹 发布于2008-05-06 15:52:00
Do not fell sad, as your closest friend, he must know you well, including your treasure, for a wealthy, 800 yuan just a slight case, it is very valuable to have a party for old freinds, especially for the fat cats, right now, there is less and less chances for friends' get-together, do not to be stingy, just enjoy your freindship.
Of course, if you are just a small potato, and have to afford family spending by a pitiful salary like me, just forget your freind, forget your freindship since that are not real freindship.
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