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  • Personal Development Course

    2008-01-04 11:06:34

    My first personal development class is starting, at the stage of promotion and advertising. I am doing it because i found there are many people around me have no idea about what are they doing, what they should do, what is next, how to live consciously, what is life value, time management, or what to do at school etc. Especially the last one, i have many young student friends, they are really lost at their university , learning hard like a dummy or be much flexible with friends and else, you know what i mean if you were a young student. or it is actually a time to consider about students` life, mindset, and rebuild their value of life is fairly important for everyone, even you are not a student.

    Like we are considering a lot about psyco health of the younger generation, we need to started considering about proper-conscious mindset and value become extremely important, actually i mean before it become too bad.

    I have a lot of contact with young students, when i talk to them i always have a feeling that they are "lost", or they know everything literally, or they are smart with lots of things, but when you ask them ta do specific things like write a siple report, or give a logical speech about something, they will say: "well, i am not interested in that, i like something bigger", or they don`t know how to do it practically.

    So, i am a little worried about it, worried about the future of these kids, or more to say that worried about their contribution to the society. Maybe my worries are not necessary, i really hope so. But I would like to help these kids with my efforts, and my experiences, hopefully i can do something for those who need help.

    Is it a social problem? or is it a parent`s problem? school problem? We need to argue about it i think, i need your help too.

    NEED YOUR COMMENTS FOR THIS POINT, THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR YOUR COMMENTS!!
  • Girl Power

    2008-01-03 12:45:45

    A few things have happened recently that have made me really think about my young little cousin and their role in this world. Actually, more to the point, the obstacles that they will navigate around as they grow into women.

    Last week I was invited (invited? i am laughing at myself that i still can use this word) to participate my cousin`s (she is 13) School Session, she had an argument with her English teacher at her classroom, slapped the door and walked out. Her teacher was really annoyed and wanted to meet the parents and gave an explaination, rather i would say explain how she was disrespectful to him as, to a teacher in the classroom, in front of so many of his students, he felt humiliated(in chinese they say "lose face").

    My cousin went home after the door slab and cried for long time without saying anything, she felt wronged or she felt regreted of her impolite to the teacher, her feeling was complex. After a long talk to her mother and find out that she was wrong, and teacher should be respected even he did or said something wrong to a student. She had to say sorry to the teacher in that afternoon after class.

    That is fair, i want to say. or i don`t know. I have been to her school with my aunt and met her teacher, a techer who is in charge of her class and the other one is the English teacher. He was a little nervous i could see from her face, but he never said sorry or anything like that, to show he might be wrong. As oppose, my aunt said sorry to him instead of her daughter`s disrespectful to him.

    The story is a bit long, hopefully you are not bored to read through. But if you have similar experience you would understand what i am trying to say...

    One particular little girl didn’t stay quiet and spoke out her discontent to her teacher, what she had done might be not a girl was supposed to do from our traditional points od view. I was very impressed with her boldness. Near the end of the session, As I watched her, I thought, our society really wants girls to sit quietly and behave themselves, doesn’t it?. (Don’t they? Which is it?) I neither reward her for her boldness, nor her disrespectfulness, or what she did. While she may have been quietly obeying the rules, she was expressing herself with abundance. That’s what I liked about her.

    Another thing always bothering me is the Chinese Public Education.From the angle of that teacher, he has more than 50 students in a class and he is teaching 3 classes or more. I am myself a teacher, i don`t have anything to say about his responsibility to his students, but how much he can do? he said that If i can`t manage to teach her well, i will put her at the back part of the classroom and she can do whatever she wants to do as long as she dosen`t bother other students who wants to learn.

    Two thoughts,
    1, girl power nowadays
    2, Public education

    What can we do? any comments?
  • Quiet?

    2008-01-03 12:42:54

    She might be from a poor family, you can find that from the window of her house. And the same time you can imagine as she is somehow living in her own little space with calm, no complains, no grudge. What else can we think of? She might be dreaming of living this place and discover more out-pherous spaces. But in one word, She is calm. And how many of us the young people can live so calm nowadays?
    她可能过着比较贫瘠的生活,房子很破旧可以是个线索。还可以说,她在她属于自己的一点空间内过的很平静,安逸,没有抱怨,没有攀比。还可以想像些什么 呢??她可能梦想着离开这个地方,去探索更广阔的空间。总之,她很平静。然而我们年轻一代人有几个能做到生活的如此安逸,不浮躁,不背弃呢?
  • Life is like a boat with no direction

    2008-01-03 12:38:34

    This is the first thread i've posted since last or last two years.
    Even it's the first one after such a period, I myself don't really know what i wanna say.
    Life is like a trip, full of ups and downs, even disasters. We have no choice but keep going.
    Yet, how much we have to live with when we are telling ourselves we have to go ahead?
    Or we sometimes just doubt about the point for which we hang on while suffering?

    Too many trivias and too much to concern about have already ruined our ambitions. If this is true to you.
    Count me in. SO, it probably is the best thing for us to be oblivious so that we just need to grasp in hand what we are owning and look forward to earning more. In this way, we wouldn't feel regretted for what we lost before and this sentiment would not necessarily eat us bad. Am I right?

    When i write this thread a few months ago, i was a little bit confused about the life, and what i am experiencing, or something i am into. That was a not good memory, nothing to proud about, only thing i would like to say would be "i am out of it". But today, or tomorrow, one day, things would come around as it is nature, or an old friend, i am getting into feeling of abundance, of society, of life, of friends or something i had been owned.

    This is real, but i would say it will become a story in future, the occasion it had to be solve, and probably a kind of life-exp you never want to go through again in your life time, but who knows, the nature is round.

    At the end, the thing i want to say is, it is bugging me, something annoying me.
    But, as i said, we need to go ahead, with my mind and following my soul, right???
  • English education in china

    2008-01-03 12:34:05

    I am an English trainer,researcher. I have a few words to say about current english education problems we have to think about.

    1.The demand of English language as a skill have been increasing very fast, but the quality of english education is not following, the gap between these two is really increasing. If you talk about quality, we have to think about two main roles, teacher and students. From my study, for example, you would send a newly gratuated teacher, obviosly english majored, to a school to teach, before you send them, understand about his English level, and after one year, check his English level again.Unfortunatly they haven`t improve, they are declining, why?

    2.From the situatin above, you can easily find out that the system is crashed or out of date,or something else, i am not qualified to say what it is. Just like computer, if the computer is crashed, the software would not work; If the system is out of date, you cannot install newly developed up-to-date software, or even you can install it, it would work really slow.

    3.We know that so many people have been doing research on how to learn english,and so many papers have been published, but teachers seems like a lay person, they don`t care about it, or they don`t worry, because they are full time employed and no pressure. Student`s results are not their work, there are no practical supervising system to the teachers.And everyone think that they can become teacher as long as they get uni degrees, or master degrees.Teaching become a easy work in this society, ridiculous....

    4. Forigners in chinese education system, leave this topic to you who would spend time reading my articles, leave me your opinion, thanks!

    (more to come)

  • Police shut down Gay and Lesbian Culture Festival

    2008-01-03 12:32:03

    Police shut down Gay and Lesbian Culture Festival

    Sat, 2006-01-07 07:34
    Civil Society | Law and Rights

    Beijing police shut down a Gay and Lesbian Culture Festival, planned for December 16-18 at a former factory complex that has become an artists’ colony in the northeast of the city, and then ordered the closure of a bar to which a smaller gathering had retreated.

    I don`t know what to say on this, just thinking that this is a part of Open and Reform results, telling us that china is changing or developing not only in economics, but also culture and other things like this.

    Police began to put pressure on organisers several days before the festival, but took no drastic action, one of the organisers revealed to China Development Brief. According to regulations issued by China’s Ministry of Public Security in 1999, any cultural or sporting activity with more than 200 participants should obtain advance permission from the district Public Security Bureau.

    The Festival was to have been the first of its kind in China. Films, plays, dance performances, exhibitions and seminars were planned, as well as an opening cocktail party. Some 200 people turned out for the opening events, including students, academics and journalists.

    Police began to put pressure? why? Public security? I remember when i was in uni, i had planned a English corner with more than 200 people and had been stopped by the school office. I got no words on this!!

    As of this, something else showed up in my mind, that is Sexual revolution in China, i don`t know if it is suitable to say "revolution", but it is serious,so many young people no matter from urban or rural areas, has been involved in this wave, and no one could belive or don`t want to believe it is true, and the sex education hasen`t been followed up, and when we realized,it is a bit late. According to my doctor friend, they have been doing huge number of abortion to the young students,and more seriousely, these kids dosen`t take medicine and rest after abortion, the reason is they have no money, have to go back to class, idon`t know what does this indicates?

    On December 17, the Organising Committee widely circulated an open letter to report the situation. It stressed that “The Festival, as a purely civil, cultural activity, did not infringe any laws in China.”

    “The action of the government reflects their political discrimination against homosexuality” said AIDS activist, Mr. Wan Yanhai. “It also indicates that some of them can’t accept homosexuality from a moral perspective.” Wan was one of five Organising Committee members, responsible for fundraising. Another member, Mr. Cui Zi’En, an artist and professor at the Beijing Film Academy, declined to comment.

    Do we accept homosexuality? Everyone is thinking about this qustion i guess.But from my point of view, no need to think about it, the answer is obvious, things are already happend, you should need to accept it, that is all you can do. I remember chinese people like to say "every existence has its reason", isn`t it?

    Moral issue? Leave them alone, they have thier moral and ettiquete, i only hope they know about it. As new things immerge out, moral and ettiquete has to follow up, like china i a Biggest Cellphone using country, think about it, how many people know cellphone etttiquete? how many people ever thought about cellphone morals? I don`t worry about things immerging like homosexuality, i am worried about our recognition and flexiblity, understanding and education is not following up.

    Some of the planned activities, rescheduled to happen in the same bar on New Years Eve, had again to be abandoned after the Hong Kong newspaper Dagongbao made the date public.

    In letters to Chinese President Hu Jintao, Premier Wen Jiabao, the Ministry of Public Security and the State Council Committee on HIV/AIDS, Human Rights Watch and the Canadian HIV/AIDS Legal Network complained that “in shutting down Beijing’s first-ever gay and lesbian cultural festival, the Chinese government violated basic freedoms and persecuted activists who are addressing the country’s burgeoning AIDS crisis.”

    Funding for the Festival was provided by the Open Society Institute and the Monica Fund, both based in the United States.

    I hope the letter could reach its intended hand.

    A Festival website, www.bglcf.org, continues to operate.

    Report by Tina Qian, January 6 2006

    Ok, the website is there, hope you could consider this thing, but before you say anything please study about it!!

  • China in 'environmental performance

    2008-01-03 12:24:52

    China in 'environmental performance
    index'
    Thu, 2006-02-09 17:38
    China in the World | Environment
    China ranks 94th out of 133 countries listed in an
    Environmental Performance Index put together by
    research centres at Yale and Columbia universities, in
    collaboration with the World Economic Forum and the
    European Commission Joint Research Centre, and
    published at the end of January.
     
     
    Let's just assume the above listed groups are fully informed and not biased.  This is a question someone else will have to answer; I'm not qualified.

    New Zealand tops the index, with EU countries, Canada
    and Australia clustered near the top of the league and
    Africa heavily represented at the bottom. However,
    several Latin American countries made it into the top
    twenty, above the USA, which ranked 28.
     
    28th is a very poor showing for such a 'technically advanced' country, especially one that preaches these qualities to others.

    Poor air quality and sustainable energy were the main
    factors in China's relatively low ranking, in the
    fourth quintile. China ranks well behind Brazil (34)
    and Indonesia (79), but performs better than India
    (118) and Nigeria (123).
     
    I just listened to a radio show 2 weeks ago that mentioned that 85% of Brazil's automobiles made before 1995 are capable of running on either gasoline or ethanol (made from sugar cane) and all of the new cars can run off both as well.  Sure it helps that sugar cane is one of the most efficient sources for making ethanol, but still, other countries are doing virtually nothing in this area and oil continues to be something the world fights over.

    The composite index draws on 16 indicators designed to
    illuminate six 'policy categories'梕nvironmental
    health, biodiversity, sustainable energy, water
    quality, air quality, and natural resources. The
    indicators range from under-5 mortality to CO2
    emissions comparative to GDP, and are assessed against
    policy targets that, according to the 367 page report,
    are 'drawn from international agreements, standards
    set by international organisations, or prevailing
    concensus among environmental scientists' and that
    provide 'benchmarks for long-term sustainability.'
     
    Hmm, I wonder what this really means?  Also, the US most EU countries already experienced their Industrial (polluting) Revolutions over a 100 years ago.  What progress has been made over this time period and is it fair to compare newly industrialized countries to the same standards (if that is what they are doing - hard to know that about this study, but I assume that is so.)

    However, the report acknowledges data gaps in areas
    such as SO2 emissions, exposure to toxic chemicals and
    soil erosion and quality. Sixty countries could not be
    included because of inadequate data. The 367 page
    report may be downloaded free of charge from:
    http://www.yale.edu/epi/
  • Who Am I?

    2008-01-03 12:22:08

    Who am i?

    Dear Friends,

    My name is alexander Lehy, born in a mongolian chinese family. I speak mongolian, chinese(manderin) and Enlish, but since last five years, English become my major language. And my friends all agree that i am weired man, but i don`t think so...

    Who am i? It sounds like a stupid question,but i have been asking myself from the born, never get the answer. especially why am i in this world? Some people might think why i am saying this, the problem is i am living with great difficult in this society. most of my honest ideas are not with the identical steps with the so-called common.

    In my blog, i would use mostly english, and of course Chinese would be another option.Welcome to use chinese for leaving me message, you are more than welcomed! Thanks alot!!

    Sincerely,

         Alex

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