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My little sister 's boyfriend
2008-01-24 19:35:27
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Monica1981
发布于2008-01-25 18:53:16
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well, well, well....
Let's imagine all girls at the age of 18 in China know how to use condoms to protect themselves.
Then, I answer the question: if that was my sister, what I would do...
I will be so happy that she got herself a boyfriend and I will invite them both for dinner one night.
Then I give my sister my personal opinions on her boyfriend and also I will tell her I support her ddecision no matter what she chooses to do with him....But I need to give her my advise on that boy.
Let's suppose that the boy looks like and even
talks like a rubbish,
Then I will ask her to be aware of the boy and aslo remind her to use sex protections all the time.
However, as a adult, she has her own brain to think about my advice....
Let's again suppose a tough reasult which is that she still believes in that rubbish boy and even want to borrow money from me to help him in business.
Then, I won't borrow her the money...
And I tell her:
"Ask your man to come to ask for money himself, if he is a man.....if he doesn' t know that you borrow money for him, well, I need to tell you, babe, you are an adult now...and you need to take your own responsibility to take care of yourself and same to your man! It is not my fucking business to take care of you both! If you are clear on that, you can try Mum and Dad...But don't expect me to ask money from our parents because I don't do these stupid things ! "
Okay, Let's also suppose that she didn't get the money and got angry with me so she refused to talk to me any more...
Well, I just leave her alone....
Yes, sister, you grow up now and you are on your own....for every single step you will make in future, you take fully responsiblity for it !!!
And That's how I solve this problem...
I won't slap her face because I have no right to do so...
I also won't feel guilty for I didn't try more to change her mind and take her away from that rubbish boy...because I believe I have done my duty as a sister...and I have no right to enforce an adult to do what I tell her to do....(not like your wired culture...the older one even have right to name the younger one, right Susan? )
I just believe that:
Everyone, every single adult in this world will grow up one day.....some girls have a better brainand they listen, they think, then they make wise decisions...and those girls grow up in an easy way......some girls are dumb..once they have sex with a guy..they are totally fucked up in mind and only want to sacrifice themselves for love....and those girls NEED to grow up in a HARD way....Leave them in the real world for a couple of years..and let them go for a couple of abortions...then finally they will become an adult and realize the mistakes which they have made in the past....
However, except these two types of girls, unfortunately in our society, we have a bunch of sluts who totally lost in their life...drugs, free sex, herpes, depression, crime, or even trying to kill themselves all the time.....
To these people, so fucking sad....and I can't see any reason and value for them to live in our world.....so I think they'd better finish themselves as soon as possible unless they decide to get their life sorted out....(YES, GOD needs them more than us...and God also needs them urgently.....)
I don't give a shit to which comments that you accept and which you don't....
I just tell you that's what I believe is right....you may totally disagree that a 19 year old should have rights to get herlself a boyfriend....whatsoever, that's your problem..not mine....
And I also believe what I believe can make this world a better place and reduce the amount of losers in our society.....
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老曹
发布于2008-01-25 14:21:07
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- Susanyang, I support you intensively, of course Monica is right either, we know there is large difference of education and culture between oriental and occidental, just like most of Chinese say no while praised by other in contrary to American say thanks, in fact, both answers are same meanings.
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hugh0341
发布于2008-01-25 13:50:07
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To Monica:
I think there is nothing with sex,maybe you misunderstanded the true feeling of Susan.
We Chinese adult know how to use condom to prevent pregnant and abortion just as you NZ people.
What Susan worried about should be her little sister,we know that her sister just came to the new environment for work only a few month,she didn't know the society well,actually,there are many girls that were cheated by rogues,they were not only devoted the body,but money and other things.I don't know whether this could happan in your country,and there is no need to comment our political and education,maybe you had comment a lot about them.
Everyone should learn to protect herself include Susan's sister,and now we can see that her "boy friend " just wanted to borrow a lot of money from her,and he should have known that for a newer,how can she get such amount,she just came to her sister and family,of course every family will wonder why?and in this situation for your sister,what will you do?
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susanyang
发布于2008-01-25 08:09:03
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Dear Monica,
Thanks for your advise first.but you will never know of our education forever.For loving,is very conservative not on-limits by your side.but anyway, I will accept your comments point 1 and 3
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Monica1981
发布于2008-01-25 03:46:17
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What The F*#&K ?!
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It is the fucking Chinese parents who have no idea how to teach and educate their children...
A 19 years old girl should be respected and treated as an adult...
If you think she is not old enough to have boyfriends, that's because your family didn't provide enough sex education and teach her how to be an adult !!!!
2,
Who the fuck give you rights to slap her face, uh?
If she was my sister, the first thing I will do is to teach her how to use condom, you stupid woman!!!
3,
If her fucked-up boyfriend needs money, you should tell her:
A real man will never put himself into a situation in which he needs a woman's money to start his career!
And You need to teach her to be a responsible adult instead of slapping her face and shaming her !!!
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Now she is possibly somewhere and absolutely abandons her life...
She also may have got AIDS....
You stupid moron, you could have done much more to get her in the right track....
What kind of sister are you ?!
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Who told you that 19 is too early to have boyfirneds, uh???
Don't tell me once again it is your ignorant parents who have been home-schooled by Communists !
19 years old girl is a proper adult....
she has her rights to have a boyfriend !
She has her rights to recieve sex education !
She has her rights to decide what kind of life she really wants !
She also have obligations to protect herself both physically and mentally !
You and your parents didn't teach her any fucking thing and expect her to learn life herself, uh?
Then because she has such useless sister and parents, she now has to learn life in a hard way !
And one day, when she becomes a proper adult and realized what responsibilities she should tak for herslef, she possibly has done abortions 3 times and got fucking AIDs !
Juses Christ,
No wonder why girls are so fucking stupid in China.....because the education for them is so appalling and wrong....
Honestly, my IQ is a hundred times higher than your 19 years old sister when I was 13.....
