Just to Be Myself I Like

Recently I like to blog in some websites when I am free of work during office time and find Monica1981's blog very intereting!I do feel offended by her stinging words,I think different countries have its own culture and of course some of countries develop more quickly in the development trend of the whole world.But I do agree with most of her ideas.From her I learn some western culture as well.

When I was a little girl,I had learnt from many facts that girls should be independent financely and mentally.Then I have tried all my best to make it.I sticked to it when I grow up day by day.However, I find I do not make it clear to myself all through that what independence in finance and mentality exactly means.I refused to be a full-time house-wife in the future that I refused to learn to cook...Very hildish,right?

After reading Monica's article about feminism,I form a clear idea of girls' independence.The link below is for the article.

http://space.englishcn.com/54966/viewspace_17223.html

I am encouraged by some of the ideas.Take the following for example.

What does it really mean?

It doesn't mean that you should become a business woman who can earn as much as a man or even more than a man.

It doesn't mean that you should abandon the idea of being a housewife.

It also doesn't mean that you should NOT mentally love a man deeply.

It means, as an adult, you should be able to support yourself for living no matter you have a boyfriend/husband or not.

It also means women should always keep themselves happy mentaly no matter you are in love, or being dumped or still seeking a boyfriend.