Something about to be alone

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Nowadays , living alone has become  a common  social phenonminon all around the world, especially in US.

On one hand , some people have no choice but have to live alone, they felt loneliness is an embarrassing and a shame than any other sin.

 On the other hand ,to be alone on purpose, having rejected company rather than been cast out by it, is one characteristic of  a successful people. Such as solitary hunter,  explorer, poets and philosphers, living alone may give them inpiration in some degree. They speak highly of themselves for seeking some time to be alone because they believe thay are unusual and noble. As Thoreau, who lived all alone in the woods , once said “I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude.”

Perhaps there’s a message here. The larger the ego ,the less the need for  other egos around.  The  more  modest and humble we feel , the more we suffer from solitude,feeling ourselves inadequate company.

A  friend’s leaving may make those who live with other people feel sad and uncomfortable, but when you live alone ,it’s nothing but a feeling of empty.

The condition of loneliness rises and fulls ,but the need to talk goes on forever. It’s more basic than  needing to listen . leaving alone is queit a common phenominon, but it's hard to be alone . so what should we do ?  Be rational , stop waiting and settle down and make ourselves comfortable and happy!