I am big big girl, in a big big world......
  • The way of life

    2008-04-29 14:39:21

    You do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a special occasion.


    不要将一切都为某一天而准备,因为你生活的每一天都是那么特别;  

    Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs;

    不断汲取知识,多读一些书,坐在家里的前廊上,用赞美的眼光去享受眼前的风景,不要带有任何功利的想法;  

    Spend more time with your family and friends, eat your favorite foods, and visit the places you love;

    多花点时间和朋友与家人在一起,吃你爱吃的食物,去你想去的地方;  

    Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment; not only about survival;

    生活是一串串的快乐时光;我们不仅仅是为了生存而生存;  

    Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.

    举起你的水晶酒杯吧。不要吝啬洒上你最好的香水,想用的时候就用吧!  

    Remove from your vocabulary phrases like "one of these days" or "someday";

    将所谓的"有那么一天"或"某一天"从你的字典中删掉;  

    Let's write that letter we thought of writing "one of these days"!

    曾打算"在那么一天"要写的信,就在今天提笔吧!  

    Let's tell our families and friends how much we love them;

    告诉家人和朋友,你是多么的爱他们;  

    Do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life;

    做一切可以给你的生活带来欢笑与快乐的事情;  

    Every day, every hour, and every minute is special, and you don't know if it will be your last.

    每一天、每一小时、每一分钟都是那么特别;你无法知道这是否是你的最后一刻。

  • I know that

    2008-04-29 14:08:36

    I know that

    Happiness is life Yi Station

    Life is painful journey

    I know that

    When you get a heavy heart

    The best gift

    That will give you the tranquility of the sky

    I know that

    Distance is a sad beauty

    You are better left to your memories

    So I recalled all the time

    A collection of poems compiled

    You only look forward to the Title

  • Do not wait...

    2008-04-29 13:54:08

    Don't wait for a smile to be nice...

    Don't wait to be loved, to love.

    Don't wait to be lonely, to recognize the value of a friend.

    Don't wait to for the best job, to begin to work.

    Don't wait to have a lot, to share a bit.

    Don't wait for the fall, to remember the advice.

    Don't wait for pain, to believe in prayer.

    Don't wait to have time, to be able to serve.

    Don't wait for anybody else pain, to ask for apologies...

    ...neither separation to make it up

    Don't wait...

    Because you don't know how long it will take.

    Remember: Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

     

  • AAudrey Hepburn beauty tips

    2008-04-19 11:48:46

    The following was written by Audrey Hepburn, who was asked to share beauty tips.

    For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. 
    魅力的双唇,在于亲切友善的语言。 

    For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. 
    可爱的眼睛,善于探寻别人的优点。 

    For a slim figure, share your foodwith the hungry. 
    苗条的身影,在于与饥饿的人分享你的食物。 

    For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers through it once a day. 
    美丽的秀发,在于每天有孩子的手指穿过它。 

    For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone. 
    优美的姿态,来源于与知识同行而不是独行。 

    People, even more than things, have to be restored, revived, 
    reclaimed and redeemed; 
    never throw out anyone. 
    人之所以为人,是必充满精力、自我悔改、自我反省、自我成长;并非向人抱怨。 

    Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, 
    you’ll find them at the end of each of your arms. 
    As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, 
    one for helping yourself, the other for helping others. 
    请谨记,在你需要别人帮助时,你会发现援助之手就在你的左右。 
    在年老之后,你会发现你有两只手,一只用来帮助自己,另一只用来帮助别人。 

    The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, 
    the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. 
    The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, 
    because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. 
    女人的美丽不在于她的穿着,她的身材,或者她的发型。 
    女人的美丽一定从她的眼睛中找到, 
    因为那是通往她的心灵深处的窗口,“爱”居住的地方。 

    The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, 
    but the true beauty in a woman is reflected inhe r soul. 
    It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows. 
    女人的美丽不在于外表,真正的美丽折射于一个女人的灵魂深处。在于亲切的给与和热情。 

    The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.一个女人的美丽随着岁月而增长。
     

     

  • If the world disappears,I will love you in heaven

    2008-04-18 16:56:57

    Someone has come, someone has gone. We are still watching each other, but there was no chance to embrace again, no chance to escape...

    The distance, just like a piece of paper...

    We have missed each other,and it is impossible to meet again. Whenever I close my eyes, I fell lonely in my heart.

    The future had be belonged to us and changed my fragments of the memory to one moment.

    After your leaving, I have lived in the void. I had indulged in the internet for long time. Playing jokes and talking with stranges on the internet. When I used some special words that only could be understood by us, they can't understand our language. You name in my heart would let me feel sad at that moment. Then I turned off the computer and indulged in memory...

    Love always has very strange reasons some occasions. It just like music and feeling always tangled together. I could not feel myself from aching...and I could not also understand myself why am I still missing you. Finally, I want to take pity on myself, want to leave. I do not want to be harassed by only my memory...

    The sea wind in early summer let me fly. The blue sky, the white clouds, and the golden sandy beach....my mood was quiet. When I remembered you, I could sing lvoe songs to birds flying in the sky. When I missed you, I could to dig a small hole on the beach and tell it my missing. After leaving, I thought I could forget something about you...

    But when a friend gave me a CD, Elva's song, let my tears come out.

    "Because it is raining...because the moon is changing.Because the similar weather reminds me the feeling of when we fell in love with each other..." That song is only scent which I left in the past. The memory could not be forgotten. I knew that we were strangers, but I also knew that I loved you very deeply...

    I came back to that city. I came back to the internet. I came back to myself. only myself...

    I would like to indulge in the love and hate. Can you understand me?

    If the autumn goes away, I will love you in snow.

    If you leave me, I will love you in my tears.

    If I have to leave you, I will love you in distance.

    If you heart died, I will use all my life to love you.

    If my body died, I will love you in my heart.

    If I disappear, I will love you in the air.

    If you disappear, I will love you in my memory.

    Because it is raining

    Because the moon was changing

    Maybe it is the wind

    Maybe it is a dream...

  • Happiness

    2008-04-14 11:22:58

    Happiness is the art of living . the aim and object of our existence. Without happiness, life is dry and meaningless. With happiness, life immediately becomes fulfilled and wonderful. Happy people keep themselves happy because they know the ways to appreciate themselves and to see the humour and magic in each moment . Those people who take life to seriously may lose their happiness.


    The ultimate search of all human beings. The ultimate goal in life is to be happy.
    The genuine laughter that comes from true happiness is infectious and brings happiness to all.
    Well, will this bring me happiness?
    Why do we lose our happiness?
    How is it possible to increase the stock of happiness?


    Am I happiness? Yes but not ,Because I am very lucky. My life is wonderful .
    I am happiness to come from ralationships. from food , from possessions. and be true to the self, know the self and be the self.


    Good wishes and pleasant feelings towards other people give us a life of happiness. But we need to feel these feelings in ourselves.


    He can impress others with his sense fo respondibility and initiative. So that they will give him the authority to do what he wants to do .

  • Put the glass down

    2008-04-11 13:46:30

    A lecturer was giving a lecture to his student on stress management. He raised a glass of water and asked the audience, ”How heavy do you think this glass of water is?”

    The students’ answers ranged from 20g to 500g.

    “It does not matter on the absolute weight. It depends on how long you hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it is OK. If I hold it for an hour, I will have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you will have to call an ambulance. It is the exact same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.

    “If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, we will not be able to carry on, the burden becoming increasingly heavier.

    “What you have to do is to put the glass down, rest for a while before holding it up again.”

    We have to put down the burden periodically, so that we can be refreshed and are able to carry on.

    So before you return home from work tonight, put the burden of work down. Don’t carry it back home. You can pick it up tomorrow.

    Whatever burdens you are having now on your shoulders, let it down for moment if you can.

    Life is short, enjoy it!!

  • Being Grateful

    2008-04-02 15:03:57

    Being grateful is an important philosophy of life and a GREat wisdom.. It is impossible for anyone to be lucky and successful all the time so long as he lives in the world. We should learn how to face failure or misfortune bravely and generously and to try to deal with it. If so, should we complain about our life and become frustrated and disappointed ever since then or should we be grateful for our life, rise again ourselves after a fall? William Thackeray, a famous British writer, said, “Life is a mirror. When you smile in front of it , it will also smile and so will it when you cry to it.” If you are grateful to life, it will bring you shining sunlight. If you always complain about everything, you may own nothing in the end. When we are successful, we can surely have many reasons for being grateful, but we have only one excuse to show ungratefulness if we fail.

      感恩是一项重要的处世哲学,是生活的大智慧。人生在世,不可能事事顺通。对于各种失败和不幸,我们要豁达大度,勇敢地面对,并想办法解决。面对困难,我们是懊恼抱怨、沮丧气馁,陷入绝望,还是对生活满怀感恩之心,跌倒后再爬起来呢?英国著名作家威廉·萨克雷说过,生活是一面镜子,你对它笑,它也会对你笑;你对他哭,它也会对你哭。如果对生活感恩,你的生命将充满灿烂的阳光;如果一味怨恨,终将一无所获。我们成功时,有千万个理由感恩生活,而失败时,只要一个借口就会表现出忘恩负义。

      I think we should even be grateful to life whenever we are unsuccessful or unlucky. Only by doing this can we find our weakness and shortcomings when we fail. We can also get relief and warmth when we are unlucky. This can help us find our courage to overcome the difficulties we may face, and receive great impetus to move on. We should treat our frustration and misfortune in our life in the other way just as President Roosevelt did. We should be grateful all the time and keep having a healthy attitude to our life forever, keep having perfect characters and enterprising spirit. Being grateful is not only a kind of comfort, not an escape from life and nor thinking of winning in spirit like Ah Q. Being grateful is a way to sing for our life which comes just from our love and hope.

      我想,不论是遭遇失败还是不幸,我们都应该感谢生活。只有这样,失败后,我们才能发现自己的缺点和不足,不幸时,我们还能感受到安慰和温暖。这些就能帮我们找回勇气,战胜困难,并获取前进的强大推动力。我们应像罗斯福总统那样,换一个角度去看待生活中的失败和挫折,永远对生活充满感恩,才能时刻保持健康的心态,积极地生活,并能保持完美的人格和不断进取的精神。感恩不仅仅是一种精神慰藉,也不是对现实的规避,更不是阿Q的精神胜利法。感恩源于我们对生活的热爱和希望,它是我们歌颂生活的一种方式。

      When we put a small piece of alum into muddy water, we can see the alum can soon make the water clear. If each of us has an attitude of being grateful, we’ll be able to get rid of impulse, upset, dissatisfaction and misfortune. Being grateful can bring us a better and more beautiful life.

      把一小块明矾放入混沌的水中,我们发现,水很快就澄清了。如果人人都有一颗感恩的心,就能沉淀许多的浮躁和不安,消融许多的不满和不幸。感恩能让我们的生活变得更加美好。

  • Today Is A Gift

    2008-04-02 14:43:45

    Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room‘s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end.

    They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

    The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.


    One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn‘t hear the band - he could see it in his mind‘s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descrīptive words.

    Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

    As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly and painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the world outside. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it for himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.

    The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

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