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custom

2008-05-20 11:55:07 / 个人分类:something

when we arrive at a new place, we will follow the customs it have, not only good customs but bad customs as well. we follow the customs because we respect the people there.

But when a person has bad customs, we all want him to correct. we will blame him or tell him that something about him is not good and fact show that he should improve him. another thing, people don't like you to remind him of these things. if you tell him something, he will think you are not lovely and don't want to see you.

we should remind people of their bad customs or ignore those?

FOR example, my roommate stand up to brush her teeth every day so that water is spilled down to the ground everywhere and on the buckets and basins that we use.

Every day i feel a little disappointed when i see her brush her teeth like that.

I hinted several times that she should correct it, but she didnt seem to understand me. i sometimes think maybe she want to make me angry. several times, i want to tell her clearly that she should improve, but when i think about it, i give up!

to make matters worse, she has many bad customs, i reminded her of some.

Because she is a person that thinking everything about her is the best. I really think that she has no brain.

EVery time, i told her that she should improve her behave, but she think she is good and i am too noisy. I felt disapponted and i think whether many young girls and boys  have a heart of accepting other's suggestion or not?

YESterday, I read a passage about following customs, i think if i should follow her bad customs and if i follow her bad customs, is it show that i respect her?

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BraveBond 删除 Bond 发布于2008-05-25 16:12:07
Talk to her in deep mind. Waiting for your good news.
灵感源于勤奋 删除 janeyuan 发布于2008-05-22 08:40:07
maybe,
i will have a try.
thank you very much
Aleck的个人空间 删除 Aleck 发布于2008-05-21 15:57:31
You can make them feel that you are not saying something bad but something remindful! Actually, you didin't understand what I said! Believe me, it works and it works well!!
灵感源于勤奋 删除 janeyuan 发布于2008-05-20 19:44:47
i really think so.
but it is difficult to do it like what you said.
but one thing is certain, they really hate someone to say something bad about them.
Aleck的个人空间 删除 Aleck 发布于2008-05-20 18:50:13 评3分
I think a good way of doing something is very important! If you remind her of her bad habits in a polite and friendly way instead of a rude and reproachful way, I think she would accept it more easily!
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