custom

when we arrive at a new place, we will follow the customs it have, not only good customs but bad customs as well. we follow the customs because we respect the people there.

But when a person has bad customs, we all want him to correct. we will blame him or tell him that something about him is not good and fact show that he should improve him. another thing, people don't like you to remind him of these things. if you tell him something, he will think you are not lovely and don't want to see you.

we should remind people of their bad customs or ignore those?

FOR example, my roommate stand up to brush her teeth every day so that water is spilled down to the ground everywhere and on the buckets and basins that we use.

Every day i feel a little disappointed when i see her brush her teeth like that.

I hinted several times that she should correct it, but she didnt seem to understand me. i sometimes think maybe she want to make me angry. several times, i want to tell her clearly that she should improve, but when i think about it, i give up!

to make matters worse, she has many bad customs, i reminded her of some.

Because she is a person that thinking everything about her is the best. I really think that she has no brain.

EVery time, i told her that she should improve her behave, but she think she is good and i am too noisy. I felt disapponted and i think whether many young girls and boys  have a heart of accepting other's suggestion or not?

YESterday, I read a passage about following customs, i think if i should follow her bad customs and if i follow her bad customs, is it show that i respect her?

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