When people say,"You deserve it." should it be negative? Or positive?
Let's take two examples.
Example 1. Tom: After few months' hard work, he achieved his goal and won the prize.
Peter: Yup, he deserved it.
Example 2. Jane: Oh finally the thief was caught and sent to prison.
Grace: Ummm... he deserved it.
So, obviously it depends on the situation. We cannot judge it simply from the single words.
Now, the students nod their head by saying "Uh, I see."
It won't be wise to give judgements on others by their appearance. But let's take a blind dating for example, will you agree that if he/she doesn't impress you at the first sight, or even you have negative feelings, will you still give him/her a chance for further touching?
I am thinking, I may won't. This doesn't sound wise, I need to admit it. But I prefer to follow my feeling, at least by this time.
As days by,the number of our age is increasing, the depth of our mind is growing, but for me, there is one thing, till today it's not changed. "I AM STILL AT SINGLE STATUS !!!"
That sounds kinda terrible, at my this age, all the girls should have their own families... People would think in this way. But at least there should be some exceptions, and the fact should be accepted by people, doesn't it?
90% of my friends have been married already, 1 or 2 years ago, I couldn't feel any stress from them. But today it's different. So does it mean that it's time for me to think about my personal issue?
Yes, it does.
So please take your time, hope the day when friends ask " Marriage done?", my answer can be a positive one.